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              "content": "从你的文字中我可以看到你非常喜欢在修仙或玄学等小说文学中去宣泄自己的一些情绪，但是这种宣泄带来的快感是短暂的，这可能难以解决你目前所面对的现实中的问题，这也是难以让自己收获更加长久轻松的原因——意识界用时多了，对现实界关注就会变少，现实问题堆积的越多，压力也就越大。\n       我在思考回答您的第二问题是否可以得到2元的打赏，当然我会认真回复你的问题。\n       看到你的家庭，我不由自主的想起了，当年我爷爷，在我小时候也是这样一板一眼的教育我，比如：“站如松，坐如钟”、“食不言寝不语”等等。然后，因为不听话，不喜欢这样的教育模式，童年调皮如我，没少挨揍。\n\n曾几何时，我也对这样的方式产生了怀疑，看似“循规蹈矩、四平八稳”的生活，真的会很好吗？\n\n甚至，这种“四平八稳”的行为，在现实中比比皆是，比如新生入学的军训，部队豆腐块的被子。这些，都是不好的？都只能给我们的生活带来阴影嘛？\n\n事实并不是如此，而是我们自己在成年之后，面对现实的压力，内心无力感释放出来的时候，往往退行成一个孩子，去怪罪身边的人，那么，这个身边的人，绝大多数就是——“原生家庭”。\n\n没有人的原生家庭是十全十美的，也没有一个教育方式是十全十美的。\n\n带着不完美进入人生，就不能创造美好的将来么？答案自然是否定的，太多的励志故事，和屌丝逆袭的例子说明了，丑小鸭也可以成为天鹅，关键在于有没有毅力和坚持。\n\n记得，有这样一句话，“所有的心理问题都是财富”。是的，只不过，不是所有的人，都能拥有把心理问题变成财富的能力罢了。\n\n如果你需要改变，也渴望改变，也能坚持改变，那么，为什么不找咨询师来帮助你，实现这个华丽的转身呢？唐老师在这里等着你……",
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              "content": "谢谢大家的关怀，我今天已经好多了，人真是一种奇怪的东西，即使昨天经历多大的事，第二天还是照常生活了",
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              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "最不想听的就是懂事了[捂脸]以后绝不让我孩子太懂事了[大哭]",
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              "content": "你好，我是壹点灵心理咨询师马艳华\n            你的描述中，看到从小你就受到家庭影响，奶奶和妈妈吵架，你是个乖孩子，不敢提出任何要求，不被周围人认可，性格懦弱，内向，敏感。是呀，这样的家庭让你活的好累呀。\n现在想要改变自己的性格？你多大啦？\n这些都可以慢慢改变的。让自己自信，阳光。\n希望我的回答能够帮助到你，如有疑问可以私聊我哈。",
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              "content": "觉察是改变的开始。你从小压抑自己，需求呗否定，积累了大量的负能量，现在还能积极求助，这证明你很有韧性。改变不是一朝一夕，先从自我接纳开始。爱每一个状态下的你。",
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              "toContent": "谢谢你",
              "to_content": "谢谢你",
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              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "以前的答案就是不断的努力，试图让周围的人肯定，让父母肯定自己，而通过努力成了村里第一个大学生。\n只是身体一不舒服，就感觉什么都没有意义了",
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              "toContent": "那么想想得到了别人的认可之后，下一个目标是什么呢？健康，名誉，还是什么重要的事情！",
              "to_content": "那么想想得到了别人的认可之后，下一个目标是什么呢？健康，名誉，还是什么重要的事情！",
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              "name": "陈雁夏",
              "content": "给自己满满的爱的滋养，就像养一个孩子一样重新养育自己，给予自己爱和自由，关怀自己的需求，不要去评价，相信你的内在力量会慢慢回来。",
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              "toContent": "嗯",
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            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "其实早就有答案了，我努力也是为了自己，我所有的目标/决定都是自己做的。\n只是依旧放不下那个自己而已[大哭]",
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              "name": "董文娟",
              "content": "可以尝试慢慢的从内在去建立更多的自我认同感。内向敏感是应对环境的一种方式，应对方式是可以慢慢调整的。",
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              "name": "张亚兰",
              "content": "非常能理解，懂事听话不找麻烦，不敢提要求，内心是委屈的，长期如此肯定会有很多心理问题，欢迎私聊",
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            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "不晓得，小时候发生的事情也改变不了。\n我一直一个人努力，有时候累了，想问自己为什么[大哭]",
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              "toContent": "有过答案吗？",
              "to_content": "有过答案吗？",
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            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "一个孩子受了最大的冤屈，然后还不让他说出来；\n恐怕，就是至善之人受到至恶的对待也不过如此了",
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              "name": "张学静",
              "content": "您好，听了您的经历，真令人心疼。现在开始，好好爱自己，有对父母渴望，就大胆说出来，加油",
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              "toContent": "谢谢",
              "to_content": "谢谢",
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              "content": "你不知道人类有多么渺小么，就跟一窝蚂蚁，你一脚踩了就踩了，还在乎它们的命运吗？笑死我了",
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              "content": "那么想想得到了别人的认可之后，下一个目标是什么呢？健康，名誉，还是什么重要的事情！",
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              "to_name": "彭俊",
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              "toContent": "其实早就有答案了，我努力也是为了自己，我所有的目标/决定都是自己做的。\n只是依旧放不下那个自己而已[大哭]",
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            {
              "name": "宋淑英",
              "content": "从你的一一回复咨询师过程中，看出你是个认真懂感恩想改变的孩子。。。自己优点不少",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
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              "toContent": "最不想听的就是懂事了[捂脸]以后绝不让我孩子太懂事了[大哭]",
              "to_content": "最不想听的就是懂事了[捂脸]以后绝不让我孩子太懂事了[大哭]",
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            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "根据墨菲定律，世界总会毁灭吧，与其别人来毁灭，还不如毁灭在我的手中[奸笑]",
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              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "你怎么知道毁灭世界不是善举呢，对于人就像灾难一样又不会体会到什么痛苦",
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            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "谢谢老师，我27岁了\n这几年开始上班之后已经开始改变了，不过也急不得",
              "toName": "马艳华",
              "to_name": "马艳华",
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              "answerCreateTime": "前天 20:51",
              "time_str": "前天 20:51",
              "toContent": "你可以私聊我哈",
              "to_content": "你可以私聊我哈",
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              "name": "寂",
              "content": "痛苦的只是个别的，大多数还是蛮好的，没有人有权利主宰别人的命运",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
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              "toContent": "你不知道人类有多么渺小么，就跟一窝蚂蚁，你一脚踩了就踩了，还在乎它们的命运吗？笑死我了",
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              "name": "寂",
              "content": "[捂脸][捂脸][捂脸]社会在不断的进步，谁人能全知全能，",
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              "to_name": "彭俊",
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              "toContent": "神才能，佛祖也能。世界再怎么变也只是这个世界",
              "to_content": "神才能，佛祖也能。世界再怎么变也只是这个世界",
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              "content": "超度（踩死）蚂蚁，就是送它到三千大千极乐世界，就是慈悲",
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            {
              "name": "王兴永",
              "content": "为你高兴，因为看到了你的反思与成长和接纳现实。",
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              "to_name": "彭俊",
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              "toContent": "嗯，谢谢",
              "to_content": "嗯，谢谢",
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              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "神才能，佛祖也能。世界再怎么变也只是这个世界",
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            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "听说黑化能治我这个病，想找个恶人拜师",
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            {
              "name": "寂",
              "content": "那是你的想法，你有考虑过蚂蚁的想法吗",
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              "toContent": "你出生在这个家庭，有考虑过你的想法吗？\n你上学，工作有考虑过你的想法吗？\n你必须遵守法律、按准则办事，有考虑过你的想法吗？\n你对别人好也罢，坏也罢，看别人美丑，善恶。不都是你自己的想法吗？\n人不为己 天诛地灭，去考虑别人想法的全都没有好下场。",
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              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "哈哈，那只是你所理解的偏激和专牛角尖",
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              "name": "寂",
              "content": "你得想法太偏激了，专牛角尖了哦，",
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              "to_name": "彭俊",
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              "answerCreateTime": "5-17 10:45",
              "time_str": "5-17 10:45",
              "toContent": "哈哈，那只是你所理解的偏激和专牛角尖",
              "to_content": "哈哈，那只是你所理解的偏激和专牛角尖",
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            {
              "name": "谢晓雪",
              "content": "改变，从认识开始，并付诸行动",
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              "name": "寂",
              "content": "全真全善，又怎么去毁灭地球",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
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              "toContent": "你怎么知道毁灭世界不是善举呢，对于人就像灾难一样又不会体会到什么痛苦",
              "to_content": "你怎么知道毁灭世界不是善举呢，对于人就像灾难一样又不会体会到什么痛苦",
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              "name": "寂",
              "content": "蝼蚁也是生命，佛的慈悲呢",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
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              "toContent": "超度（踩死）蚂蚁，就是送它到三千大千极乐世界，就是慈悲",
              "to_content": "超度（踩死）蚂蚁，就是送它到三千大千极乐世界，就是慈悲",
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              "name": "尤四海",
              "content": "你好！需要哪些改变呢？",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
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              "toContent": "不晓得，小时候发生的事情也改变不了。\n我一直一个人努力，有时候累了，想问自己为什么[大哭]",
              "to_content": "不晓得，小时候发生的事情也改变不了。\n我一直一个人努力，有时候累了，想问自己为什么[大哭]",
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              "content": "变成神，毁灭这个世界",
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              "content": "您好，我是壹点灵平台的咨询师，赵婷。\n讨好型人格是一味委曲求全，以低自尊的姿态一味满足别人各种无理要求。\n\n别人拒绝你时轻描淡写；而你拒绝别人的时候；感觉自己犯了天大的错。\n\n错误心理逻辑\n\n（1）对别人的感受特别敏感\n\n特别在意别人对自己的看法，生怕自己做了什么别人会不喜欢，越重视对方，越会担心，导致做任何事情都小心翼翼，一个小错误也会懊恼很久；\n\n（2）抬高别人，贬低自己\n\n没有主见，别人说吃什么就吃什么，别人说玩什么就玩儿什么，自己的举动建立在别人的评价之上，很怕被嫌弃，降低自己心里才更安全；\n\n（3）不敢发出请求，很难拒绝别人\n\n害怕说不，不懂拒绝，被人占了便宜也会选择默不作声，担心一旦拒绝，与别人的关系就会破裂，从来不敢表达自己的需求，很怕给别人添麻烦，担心自己成为别人的负担；\n\n（4）缺乏界限和原则\n\n做任何事情都以取悦别人为目的，既守不住界限，允许别人在自己的生活里指手画脚，又经常突破别人的界限，渴望建立亲密关系又常常因为别人不能满足他们的期待而受伤。\n\n性格评价\n很多人的“讨好型人格”，是因为心底的善良。但委屈自己的善良，在别人眼中可能只是卑微的讨好，而你只是成为了可以任意欺负的对象。\n       父母是对我们影响最深的催眠师，童年父母说的话比如“我为你付出这么多.你还这么不听话”背后的意思是为你付出的一切你必须想尽一切办法报答，激发了人性对父母的愧疚感，成年以后也容易讨好。您说的一个人呆着，就是很少出去和人建立链接，也很有可能存在一种深深的害怕被抛弃的恐惧感和绝望。现代人最早的基因密码携带原始人的身份记忆，原始部落里为了躲避野兽的追逐大自然的灾难会在群体逃亡中失散，那种流离失所无家可归的感觉深深印刻在人类记忆中。西方心理学家荣格所说的集体潜意识就是遵循着这样恒古不变的规律。\n       建议试着多做正面自我暗示，找一个本子写下生活中每天自己做得好的点滴或优点，过段时间奖励自己一个喜欢的小礼品。\n       先试着去接纳自己吧！一切关系的源头就是自我关系。你是值得被尊重和善待的，爱是自然流露，没必要讨好任何人。",
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              "content": "漫步人生，关于讨好型人格改这个问题，其实我也有这种情况。应该怎么一点点的去改呢？还是有方法的，比如通过心理咨询或心理治疗。\n       很多时候我也知道我身上有什么样的问题，但是我也解决不了。那么我们该做些什么，我们只能往前走的看。那么在另外一种情况下，我们也可以换一种方法说，我们可以说有些事情它就是这样的，我们不知道什么时候我们才真的能够做到改变。 那么让我们继续去觉察，去讨论，也许我们能找到解决问题的还有更好的方法。减少这种情况发生。\n       所以在这样的一个咨询经常进行之后，你就会变得越来越好的，包括之前难以回避发生的一些对人际关系讨好反应难以自控这种情况和程度都会有所变化的。那么随着我们咨询的深入，我们必然还会遇到各种各样的问题，那么每一个问题我们都根据这个问题的有价值程度，一起展开讨论，有些问题可能价值不太大，可以一句话就带过了。那么其他的问题通过心理咨询都会尽量得到回答，但是一次回答不代表的你就能够真正理解所有时候类似的问题，我们每一次咨询的时候你可能都会问，但是你问的越来越多的时候，那我们从不同角度开始展开讨论和解答的时候，这个问题在你的心里面的疑惑就会慢慢越来越少的，也不要指望一次两次三次你就想能咨询清楚，讨好型人格的改变这个问题，得慢慢来知道吧？",
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              "name": "林建家",
              "content": "您好，我是壹点灵心理咨询师林建家。从您大段描述看，剥茧抽丝，核心问题就是职场人际关系问题。我们从你第一条，梦开始解读。梦是潜意识的表达，只有做梦者才真正明白梦的意义，梦是虚幻的，但从后面你的描述看，你确实存在不被领导待见的问题。关于你工作不扎实的问题，这是需要你不断的提升自己的，想要不被跳出毛病，那就不要出错。性格问题，如果你的性格不利于融洽同事关系，那唯一要做的就是要改变自己。关于你的第四条，人是群居动物，有人的地方就有人际关系，关系好了，问题就会少，也比较如鱼得水，关系不畅，就会出现社会排斥现象，这是很自然的。第五条，只能说明你在公司被重视程度不够，不管你舒服不舒服，你要做到被重视，就是你离做到自己有价值。第六第七我就不说了，大同小异。第八条，我想说的是天下乌鸦一般黑，这不是贬低，只是要说的是职场规则基本一样，你在A公司不受待见，如果不做出改变，在B公司也好不到哪去。\n如果职场规则困扰了你，需要的是改变，改变，改变。怎么改变，自己找答案。\n    如果需要专业帮助，可私聊我。",
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              "to_content": "老师，有时候过分细节控就会失去高度。我被她这样的方式有时整的很难受。。",
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              "content": "你目前是紧盯着这样一个具体的事件，如果你从这个事件当中跳出来看的话，反映的是一个人际关系，如果有良好的人际关系，对方的表达就会不一样。我们可以私聊一下。",
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              "name": "洪祖宝",
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