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      "content": "微笑抑郁症是,她们在白天表现出超常人的社交能力,让别人误以为他是一个善于社交乐观的人,到了晚上才睡,他自己的世界,这就是用最虚伪的表象来掩饰最真实的自己,微笑是一种面具,有时候得放下面具,面对真实的自己,把自己的真诚留给最值得的人",
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      "content": "怎么说呢,,大概是永远都是只会想着别人觉得怎么样,自己永远都是那种“只要她好就行了”的心态,容易暴躁,白天给同学,家人的都是嘻嘻哈哈的笑脸,只有到了凌晨一两点,自己躲在被窝里感受着孤独,把眼泪都憋在心里……",
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      "toContent": "现在我就是这样的。好累,心里一直压着!",
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      "content": "我控制不住自己眼泪,一直在流,控制不住自己,身体不停抖动,我明明受不了这个世界,我还得强打精神,和他们笑,",
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      "toContent": "我也是。。。。。",
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      "content": "微笑抑郁,应该是“假我”抑制“真我”的一种产物。每个人都有三个“我”:一、是本我。本我追寻快乐。二、是自我。自我是社会产物,遵循现实原则。三、超我。追寻完美,理想化的我。\n我们作为社会团体中的一份子,为了生存,常常以自我或超我存在!这样,真我受到抑制!矛盾日趋激烈,就有了一个特殊的“我”—“微笑抑郁”的存在!\n因此,现实生活中,人们一定要注意内心的调整清理。将真我和超我调整好!实现健康的自我!\n具体的调整方法:第一、每天睡前做好一天的总结:今天因为什么拥有了好的情绪?发扬光大。今天不好的情绪来自哪里?以后避免。第二、适当运动,接受阳光,增强免疫力。同时也是释放压力!第三、一定有三五好友知己,定期小聚倾诉!互通有无,取长补短。\n当然不知以上,生活中,让我们共同探索!真正远离抑郁,拥有真心微笑!",
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      "content": "讲个曾经看过的微笑抑郁者的故事:\n抑郁者代称为:Y\n[10个月前]\n故事开始于和最要好的闺蜜聚会。\n在饭局中,Y对闺蜜说:“最近压力好大,感觉生活真是无趣……”\n闺蜜:“再不要矫情了,你看看你赚的多少钱,在我面前显摆吗?”\nY无奈的笑:“或许是我矫情吧……是啊,起码我还能赚钱。”\n第二天,和家人视频:\nY:“我好累,感觉快撑不下去的累。”\nY母:“我也累,一天到晚要操心你弟弟家的娃,还得听你抱怨。有啥事快说,还有赶紧找个男人嫁了自己,你就不累了。对了,这个月,你爸的治疗费你再打两万来……”\nY微笑:“好吧,好吧……明天就打。”\n第七天:\n因为网银转账一直转账不成功,Y母又一直在催促,Y去银行给父亲医疗帐户汇钱,正值中午高峰期,银行排队人很多,公司老总不停的打电话,项目招标方案急需更改,可Y还在排队……\n老总:“你要对公司负责!这是什么时间了,公司这么重要的事情,你怎么可以还在拖延时间?”\nY陪笑:“抱歉,抱歉,张总,我马上就赶回公司!”\n老总:“你赶紧回来!不行就交接给别人,你忙你自己的事去吧,这个项目与你无关好了!这样重大的事交给你,真是让人不头疼!太不负责了!”\nY继续陪笑:“张总,我马上就赶回去,您给我一次机会,对不起,对不起……”\n对方已挂机\n……。\n当天晚上:\nY父:“我当真是指望不上你吗?我都已经停药了,你是我亲生的吗?你看你弟弟,这么难的情况,还给我钱呢,你赚的钱这样多,你爸的死活就不在你心里吗?”\nY:“对不起,爸爸,我尽量快一点转给你。我明天再去找找银行,看看我的网银是怎么回事。”\nY爸:“不想给就直接说,不用绕弯子!”\n挂机……\n当天夜里,Y没有再像以往一样默默的流泪,她微笑的做了一个计划。\n[两个月前]\nY请闺蜜去了最好的餐厅,吃了最贵的食物,点了最贵的红酒。\n闺蜜:“真羡慕你,你看你多会生活,我就不敢这么放纵自己。”\nY哈哈大笑:“可不,人生几何,对酒当歌呗!”\n[一个月前]\nY去老总办公室请辞。\n老总:“年轻就是好啊,想干嘛就干嘛,想去哪就去哪……好吧,祝你前程似锦!”\nY微笑:“谢谢张总,感谢一直以来的关照。”\n[一周前]\nY把存款里的90W取了出来,寄给家里50W,剩下40W捐到了各个慈善机构。\nY母:“怎么这次给这么多?”\nY:“我太忙,总是忘记汇钱,干脆一次多寄点。呵呵……”\nY母:“就是就是,一次多寄点也好。省得总打电话问你要,弄得我们都不舒服。”\nY:“是啊,辛苦你照顾爸爸。谢谢你们养育我,我也该报答你们……”\n[三天前]\nY走遍了全市所有的高处……\n[一天前]\n计划开始完成……\n楼很高,风很清冷。Y如一片叶子,打着旋落在了地面。\n\n在10个月前,其实Y已经确诊为抑郁症。Y做什么都没有力气,Y觉得生活没有意义,Y觉得对时间、感情、美食等等一切都失去了兴趣,Y不知道为什么活着……。\nY试图和闺蜜说,但是闺蜜的眼里Y的生活是如此的完美,而Y却是如此的矫情。\n\nY试图和父母说,可是Y一直以来的“强大”让家里已经“遗忘”Y也需要帮助和关怀。\n\nY无法对老总和单位表达“我病了……”因为病了,就会让Y失去辛苦打拼的地位还有钱……\n\n孤单的Y,无法述求的渴望……只能用微笑来伪装自己,告诉自己,不要去给别人添麻烦,Y心里想啊,为什么你们都看不出来我的难过呢?为什么大家都觉得我不需要被关爱呢,为什么没有一个人能给我安慰呢?如果,有一个能听我说说,问我是不是还好,是否,我就不会走到这一步呢?算了,反正也是我一个人,不管在哪最终,我都只会是一个人吧……。\n故事到这里就结束了。\n\n写到这里,我的心揪着难过。我想告诉你:如果,你是微笑抑郁者,我希望你不要着急放弃自己,总有办法能让你快乐。\n你要牢记下面几点:\n1.这个世界一定有人能理解你,比如心理咨询师。你发现自己不好时,一定要来寻找帮助,不要让自己扛着所有的艰辛。\n2.你可以承认你自己在难过,这是你的正常情绪,是可以被好好的接纳的。你需要去正视它,许可它的存在。\n3.善待自己。好好的吃饭,好好的睡觉,睡不着时,可以听听清柔舒缓的轻音乐,但绝不要去听低重音音乐和摇滚、重金属音乐,相信我,它只会让你的情绪越来越坏,而绝不会让你好转。\n4.和你能信任的人在一起,如果没有能信任的人,你可以来打倾诉热线,有老师会为你全程保密,你是安全的。\n5.这是最重要的一点,不要自我责怪。你没有做错什么。\n6.要相信,这个世界是希望你快乐的。要相信你需要爱,也值得被爱。",
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      "content": "微笑抑郁的优势①具备够酷够漂亮的外星人气质②避免暴露出抑郁的传统表情,激发观者负面情绪,收到二次伤害③没有因为自己的抑郁情绪破坏他人与环境独善其身。\n\n劣势:爱哭的孩子有奶吃,微笑抑郁的孩子也需要吃奶,却没有学会“哭泣技术”,只要还想活着且有吃奶的需求,就好好学习,学会“哭泣技术”。我是心理咨询师祁芊彤,下个月入驻平台,呵呵",
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      "name": "微笑抑郁症",
      "content": "我不确定我是否有抑郁症,我近几个月心情低落,对很多事情都不感兴趣,有可能一件小事就会生气,但是很多事我想发脾气也发不出来。受到了打击或伤害从不说出去,都是自己忍着。我白天比谁都浪比谁都开心,只有到了晚上我会拿刀在手上割,看到血才开心。我想知道我是不是有抑郁症",
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      "name": "孔令红",
      "content": "微笑是给别人看的,抑郁才是自己真实的心境。\n一个盛行浮躁虚伪的社会里,你不戴着“微笑”的面具对人,可能就意味着会失去生存或发展的机会,生本能逼迫着去“微笑”。",
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      "name": "抢不到",
      "content": "每天扮演好一个情绪稳定的成年人真的很辛苦",
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      "name": "周存平",
      "content": "您好!我是壹点灵心理咨询师周存平。\n\n首先,我要感谢你给出了这样一个问题,因为这个问题是当今社会上很多人都在关注的一个问题。\n\n第一:什么是微笑抑郁?\n\n微笑抑郁是抑郁症的一种。\n\n微笑抑郁是一种非典型的抑郁表现形式。比如:他们在别人面前表现很开心,甚至很有幽默感,但在微笑和乐观的面具背后却充满了无价值感、残缺和绝望感,就像是很多人在朋友中很爱逗别人开心,但当自己一个人的时候,却常常感到悲伤一样。\n\n第二:抑郁症的表现形式:包括持续的心境低落;对所有活动失去兴趣;丧失愉快感;活动减少;其中明显增加或者减轻睡眠,或者睡眠过多;每天都感觉到精神疲累或精力不足;反复的想到死亡等等。\n\n第三:微笑抑郁和抑郁症不同的地方就在于微笑抑郁患者可能看起来有很好的社交能力,他们很友善,甚至是一个团体中的“开心果”,一样的存在。\n\n第四:当这些微笑抑郁症患者,最终选择以自杀结束自己的痛苦的时候,家人和朋友往往会非常的震惊,难以置信。\n\n第五:微笑抑郁究竟有多危险?\n\n抑郁的情绪和感受,并不会因为你的忽略,或者因为你的掩饰而消失,事实上微笑抑郁患者在尝试用微笑去隐藏、逃避抑郁的同时,也在喂养它。\n\n抑郁的情绪会变得越来越严重,也许有一天它会以更强大,更丑陋的面目出现,并淹沒你所有的希望。\n\n第六:如果你发现自己就是一个微笑抑郁者,希望微笑着抑郁着的你能明白:消极情绪不会自己消失,隐藏和逃避,并不会解决问题,你是可以让自己悲伤的。\n\n第七:当你自己无法解决的时候,要勇敢的去寻找专业的心理帮助,给咨询师也是给自己一个机会,尝试着去表达自己的抑郁。\n\n第八:通过求助,可能你会发现:就算你是低落的、悲伤的、难过的,你也同样可以被尊重,被关爱,被照顾,被理解…!\n\n以上是我的回答,希望我的回答可以帮助到你,感谢你对我的信任和理解,如果您还有什么疑问,可以私信与我交流。",
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      "content": "您好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师辛红芳。\n\n微笑抑郁是一群孤独的奋斗者,这是一群“隐形”的病人。和人们印象中那些终日愁眉不展,看上去疲惫憔悴的抑郁症患者不同,他们隐没在现代都市的繁忙与喧嚣之中,每天笑脸迎人,仿佛一切如常。但没有人知道,在笑容的背后,他们正在与那个黑暗压抑、痛苦不堪的自己,进行着怎样的缠斗。\n\n如果你发现身边的家人或者朋友可能处于微笑抑郁症中,首先不要轻易尝试劝解对方,千万不要说:“世界上还有很多比你不幸的人”这样的话,这只会增加他们的罪恶感和羞耻感。亲人朋友的关怀如果选择了恰当的方式,对患者是非常重要的精神支持。\n  \n恰当的方式是:当他们愿意把悲伤给你看的时候,不要评判也不躲闪,给他们关注、陪伴、尊重与接纳。鼓励他们去寻求专业的帮助,帮助他们找一些专业心理咨询师,陪他们一起去做咨询和治疗......\n  \n1.允许他们表露出痛苦、悲伤、愤怒等情绪;\n\n2.不把他们当成奇怪的人,而是把抑郁症当成感冒、发烧、阑尾炎这样正常的病。抑郁症被称作情绪的感冒,当然它的症状比感冒严重得多;\n\n3.请让他们感知到,生病不是他们的错,他们是无辜的,不管发生任何事,我们愿意陪他们一起去面对。\n  ",
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      "content": "您好,我是壹点零心理咨询师陈建。\n\n我个人对所谓“微笑型抑郁”的提法是持反对态度的。\n\n所谓微笑型抑郁,其实质是对自我的过度压抑,是一种讨好型的互动模式,其形成一定和早年经历和成长环境有关。我们应该看到其背后的形成过程,而不是贴个标签。这样对理解案主更有帮助!\n\n如果和早年经历有关,最需要的就是和过去部分的和解,提高自我价值和自尊,学习一致性沟通,这样的心理困扰必然可以解决!\n\n同时,我们也要看到,任何一种应对模式的形成,都是长期的过程,其中一定给案主带来过某些益处,帮助案主缓解了压力,但这种缓解方式只是眼前的,睡着时间推移,缓解的作用越来越少,自己感受都的痛苦却越来越多,最终导致崩溃。\n\n那么作为正承受这样煎熬的人,比如人前微笑,背后抹泪,需要接受心理咨询,重新形成新的应对模式,走出内心的痛苦。\n\n感谢您对我的信任,希望我的回答对您有帮助,如果想了解更多,欢迎私信联系!",
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      "content": "我感觉自己有微笑抑郁,我好痛苦,好痛苦,好想死。但在别人面前,我总是开心的样子,一个人的时候,好孤独,但遇到别人三三两两的,还是假装自己很好的去跟她们打招呼,感觉好累,心好累。",
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      "content": "在这个世界上活着太累,死不起上有老下有小,哭过了,笑过了,疯过了,回过头来还是假笑着过",
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      "content": "我呢,得了抑郁就是啥活不想干,每天混日子,简直是两个我",
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      "content": "现在我就是这样的。好累,心里一直压着!",
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      "content": "感觉很久没有发自内心的笑了",
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      "to_content": "是呀",
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      "content": "说的太有文采了",
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      "toContent": "谢谢支持!让我们一起把这份温暖的职业做下去,温暖更多人的心灵。虽然我们每个人的力量都是有限的,但是大家一起,一定可以做好的。",
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      "content": "您好,我是壹点灵咨询师任鋆。\n微笑是外在呈现,这是伪装的、刻意为之的、讨好迎合的。\n抑郁是内在感受,这是真实的、切身体会的、无法回避的。\n内在与外在之间是相互冲突、对立的。用俗话解释这就是一种拧巴的,表里不一的状态。\n外在表象的微笑是为了获得什么人的什么认可呢?\n内在抑郁的压抑是在隐藏和掩盖怎样的内心世界呢?\n里子只有自己最清楚,面子是在关系中带着的面具。\n人的一生就是一个不断探索自我,成长自我的过程。当我们意识到自己的问题所在时,这恰好是人生转折过程中的缓冲期。我们就需要利用这个缓冲期发现和觉察那个内在的声音。它在通过抑郁的方式提醒我们什么?它也希望被看见、被关注、被认可。\n记得在自己的心灵中装一面晶莹剔透的镜子用来观照自己,装一扇宽敞明亮的窗子用来观看世界:它会在你彷徨时给你方向、会在你膨胀时削弱你的欲望、会在你贪婪时教你放下执念、会在你跌倒时给你站起来的力量,更会让你在绝望中找到希望…\n我个人很喜欢林清玄老师的一句话:“外观世音,内观自在。”\n祝福您内外兼修,知行合一。",
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      "content": "我喜欢的歌唱家,他在网上有一个公众号,帮助学生发现问题纠正问题,每次的教学视频都是面带微笑的,说话和蔼可亲的,唱歌又非常有气势的。但是今年的那天,他在二十多楼选择了一跃而下,家人同事都不知道为什么,学生以后再也听不到他讲课了,我永远记得他的笑容",
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      "content": "抑郁好久了,只不过还有自控能力,不想给别人添麻烦,平常撑着和朋友吵吵闹闹的,撑不住了就不怎么说话,自觉得不参与他们的话题,白天撑过一天晚上的时候自己缩在角落里,一会哭一会笑的,室友回来了就继续撑着,平时都把利器放在一边,好怕突然控制不住自己",
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      "toContent": "建议到接受系统咨询,咨询师会帮你更快的走出阴影。",
      "to_content": "建议到接受系统咨询,咨询师会帮你更快的走出阴影。",
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      "content": "微笑抑郁是来访者的主观情绪表现,别人是看不出来的,其中的痛苦也是旁人无法理解的,我是咨询师,在壹点灵聆听你的情绪。",
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      "content": "白天微笑,你是人们口中的乐天派,晚上哭泣,你是自己眼中的失败者,多可怜啊,连哭都要咬着牙不出声。",
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      "content": "微笑忧郁,高度忧郁。无所谓啦!不过还是谢谢导师。",
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      "toContent": "是啊都是不怕死!怕活着的我们!有多么的可悲呢",
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      "content": "亲好!我是壹点灵资深的心理咨询师冯兴慧老师呢!\n         衷心感谢您对壹点灵平台的关注与信任哦!看了您的描述,冯老师完全能够理解您的无奈表情和痛苦感受!您能够来此倾诉,说明您愿意接受专业的帮助并希望能够调整和改变,冯老师为您的足够勇气真诚地感叹和点赞!\n        其实,毕竟人都是有血有肉有思维有情感有尊严有面子的社会人,难免会有自己的主观愿望公众形象和内心期待。当然,任何事如果超出了自己的承受能力和承载底线,天长日久日积月累,将会难以承受压力之重。毕竟过忧而不及呀!不过,童年的经历、成长的环境和父母的管教模式,让您形成了内心的自卑和无我的人格,总是以面具讨好和伪装去面对,这样以去弥补您内心的空虚和不安全感。如果长期失去真实的自我,那将定会是痛苦的源头。如果不抓紧咨询干预和调整改变,将会对您的学习、生活以及未来的工作家庭带来严重的影响和极大的危害呀!相信,办法总比困难多,您觉得呢?\n        建议:预约您认为适合且信任的咨询师进行一对一的咨询和干预,让您摆脱痛苦,走出困境,找回快乐,找回自我好吗?\n        很希望且愿意能够帮助到您!再次感谢您对平台的信任哦亲!",
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      "toContent": "请问您知道“无我人格”要怎么调节吗?",
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      "content": "您好,我是壹点灵的心理咨询师孔焕云老师。\n由于媒体的宣传和人们的不断认识,现在人们对于抑郁症已经有了相当的了解。但对于微笑型抑郁,人们还不能识别,往往还以为这个人很开朗,哪知转眼就没了,于是错过了最佳救助期。\n \n如果得了微笑型抑郁,怎么办?\n1. 放下自己“微笑”的面具,没有人要您去表现坚强的一面,大家更想看到真实的您,更愿意听到您诉说自己的孤单和郁闷,更想让您表现出来,好及时向您伸出援手。因为大家更希望您发自内心的快乐,更想拥有您这个朋友。\n2. 世界有很多美好,您不孤单。知道您不想让大家担心,可您把真实的自己藏起来,我们更替您担心。所以做真实的自己吧,想哭就哭,想笑就笑吧。\n3. 我们的人生经历中确实遇到了一些令人难过的事,但我们是可以超越它,而不是被它困住。勇敢的去求助吧,大家会伸出善意的手来帮助您,照亮您的内心,驱逐掉您心中的阴霾。\n4. 抑郁症也不过是精神上的小感冒而已,可以通过吃药+心理调整治愈,然后您又可以充满活力、意气奋发啦!每个人生来都有自己的价值和意义,用充沛的生命去实现它吧,让世界因我们的存在而更美好!\n \n希望老师的分析对您有帮助,若还有疑问欢迎私信老师。",
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      "content": "你好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师张晓燕!\n微笑抑郁的人就像小丑演员一样,把欢乐带给大家,把悲伤留给自己,别人的开心更映衬了自己的孤独。如果得了其实也不是很可怕,因为你有一个法宝就是制造快乐,你既然可以为别人制造快乐,为什么不可以为自己制造快乐呢?你可以让自己由一个小丑演员转变成喜剧表演艺术家。\n一个人在一个地方待着,待太久了都忘记自己是怎么来的了,也忘记了自己可以换个环境,因为有能力来到这里自然也就有能力去到其它地方。你有能力取悦别人自然也有能力取悦自己,而且对于取悦自己你会学的更快,如果你不能通过自己的努力找回你的能力,你可以选择咨询师帮助你找到它,让你真的成为那个快乐的人!",
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      "content": "您好!我是平台的咨询师焦芳琴!\n微笑抑郁,微笑是外在表现形式,抑郁是实质。\n微笑抑郁给别人的是温文尔雅礼貌随和,给自己的是委曲求全,担心别人评价不好,担心让别人感受不舒服。抑郁是不舒服的,带来心理和生理的很大影响,而微笑抑郁比抑郁的负面影响有过之而无不及。\n如果说抑郁还能引起周围人的看见,得到一些社会支持,而微笑抑郁则更隐蔽,不被周围人容易发现,不能较好获得社会支持,让自己在抑郁状态下煎熬的更久。\n总之一句话,微笑抑郁比抑郁更隐蔽,更具危害性,感觉没意思,自己没价值,没兴趣,自己能力有限,随之身体上有的出现脱发,失眠等症状,就像端了一个巨大的漂亮的玻璃器皿,身心疲惫。",
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      "content": "您好!我是心理咨询师靳文娟。\n微笑抑郁是抑郁的一种。表面微笑、内心痛苦。人前表现开心、内心却承受着抑郁的痛苦。\n微笑是自己的面具,为了应对环境的需要而违心做出的。坚强的外表下,掩盖着痛苦、压抑的内心。微笑面具戴得太久,已经不敢把自己的真实状况表现出来。内心那种痛苦、孤独、无助的灵魂需要被温柔的对待。\n若你不是真的快乐,也请你卸下微笑的保护色。这是走出抑郁的开始。\n假如你身处困境,请相信有一个人愿意和你一起共同面对,探索、寻找解决问题的办法。\n我在这里等您!",
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      "content": "您好,您现在是一个初中生的话,略略麻烦一些。因为从某种程度来说,您要取得我们的帮助,需要取得家长的同意。因为咨询不是免费的,平台和咨询师都需要生存不是?\n我觉得,您最重要的是接纳自己。但具体也不好说,毕竟老师掌握您的资料太少。\n您可以把相关资料给家人看看,争取获得他们的支持。这样我们就可以好好聊聊,老师为您寻找一个您独有的生活模式。",
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      "content": "我是微笑抑郁,吃了好久的帕罗西丁了,现在一难受就狂吃药,我本来打算好死的,遗书都写好了,可是我那天问妈妈,妈妈说如果我死了她活着还有什么意思,我怕了 哪怕活的难受,能让妈妈和家人不哭我都试试",
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      "content": "今天早上吃了很多药,又吐了出来,我觉得我这样的人活着挺累的,想死不敢死,想活得快乐一点比什么都难,生活没有一点动力,什么才是信任。",
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      "toContent": "一切都会过去的,美好的东西,要多去发觉,可以私聊我,帮你走出困境。加油!",
      "to_content": "一切都会过去的,美好的东西,要多去发觉,可以私聊我,帮你走出困境。加油!",
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      "content": "不是这样过来的吗?这个面具已经融入骨血了。除了这个笑,一无所有。所以,现在也要把它清除掉吗?",
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      "to_content": "不是清除,而是指它的严重性,微笑抑郁给抑郁带上了面具,让人分辨不出它的严重程度,从而忽略了病情。平台讨论这个很有必要。",
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      "name": "被遗忘的人",
      "content": "大家一边把活着的人逼上绝路,一边劝想死的人好好活着,然后所有人都半死不活 ​​​",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "往开了想,只有自己救自己,自己好好的可以帮助别人,自己不好了或许没人帮得了你",
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      "name": "绝症",
      "content": "我也是微笑抑郁者,天天傻笑,而内心……只有自己懂[心碎][心碎]",
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      "name": "妈妈的爱",
      "content": "明明那么怕死而且喜欢笑的我为什么会焦躁不安常常莫名其妙流泪",
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      "toContent": "对呀,为什么",
      "to_content": "对呀,为什么",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "他们也这样说我,当时我心里哭笑乐一番大概只有我自己知道吧",
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      "content": "我也是啊 比谁都快乐 谁能想到重度抑郁中度焦虑会找到我",
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      "content": "感觉别人都不理解我,甚至觉得我冷漠无情,我笑的很累",
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      "name": "抑郁青年",
      "content": "我应该不算微笑抑郁\n但是有许多人冒充抑郁症",
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      "content": "谁能陪我聊聊天 快半年了 这感觉太难受了",
      "toName": "菲雪",
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      "name": "瑶瑶",
      "content": "没救了吗 我已经产生无数次死亡了",
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      "name": "小峰",
      "content": "一生都没做坏事,为什么会这样!",
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      "toContent": "[尴尬]这是没办法的,我也彻底被摧毁了,我将不会有正常人的青春,以后可能也不会有婚姻。\n一起加油走下去吧!",
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      "name": "s",
      "content": "笑是我最好的装饰",
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      "name": "李同学",
      "content": "我也是。。。。。",
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      "toContent": "我也是",
      "to_content": "我也是",
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      "name": "ting",
      "content": "吃药都不好?…",
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      "toContent": "我也有这种感觉,死不了,活不好,老公永远忙,找不到倾诉的对象[大哭][大哭][大哭][大哭]",
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      "name": "诸葛栩沅",
      "content": "我就是这样",
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      "toContent": "我也是啊",
      "to_content": "我也是啊",
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      "content": "您好,我是壹点灵的心理咨询师姜小溶老师。\n非常感谢您对壹点灵平台的关注和信任!\n看了您的描述,姜老师完全能够理解您的无奈和痛苦感受,妈妈不理解,学习压力大,您一定过得很不容易啊,相信您一定想摆脱这些痛苦的吧?\n想进一步了解一下:\n第一,不知道您这种表现在家里和外面,以及亲近的人与一般人有您都会掩饰自己的情绪吗?\n第二,不知道您的童年怎么度过的呢?小时候谁照顾您呢?\n受过什么委屈……\n可能在您书写“人生脚本”的时候出了问题。\n第三,您一定也渴望别人关注和理解您吧?\n还需要探讨您父母的情况,以及他们对您的影响。\n第四,您去专科医院做过系统检查吗?\n抑郁症和抑郁情绪完全不一样的。如果是抑郁情绪,只需进一步探究根源,调整认知就可以改善。\n总之,您需要好好爱自己,首先要正确认识自己\n您能够来此倾诉,说明您愿意接受专业的帮助并且希望能够调整和改变,为您的积极态度点赞!\n\n之前我帮很多抑郁情绪的朋友走出来;也在医生合理用药前提下,帮很多抑郁症患者正常工作生活。\n很希望且愿意能够帮助您,帮您摆脱痛苦,走出困境 找回快乐。\n如果有需要,欢迎私信我和我交流一下。\n我在壹点灵平台等着您,祝您早日走出困境!",
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      "content": "微信抑郁,是自己不自信的人,内心深处有不舒服的部分,想做完美主义者。尽量在世人面前展示好的一面,把自己认为不好的那一部分 压抑在内心,真正扛不住了,自我攻击成为微笑抑郁症,他人认为他是开心的表现。其实作为有心的家人,注意察觉到他不合常理表现才能识破他防御性的真相。\n用精神分析看,他小时候,是被家人忽视的不被关\n爱自己的人。与家人链接不够好,为了博得家人和周围人注意。才向身边的人示好,自己不被忽视,内心深处可是孤独寂寞空虚纠结的。自己无法摆脱苦恼,才选择自杀结束自己生命作为代价。\n如果我得了这样病,我可以找与自己三观一致咨询师给自己做咨询,把挤压在内心压力进行疏导疏解或者自己学会正念,或者以自己的方式排解出来。\n因为自己的不足,离开世界,让家人担心是自己的局限性。",
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      "content": "我是壹点灵心理咨询师王翠芹。\n\n最近,自己在读积极心理学派奠基人艾伦·兰格教授的《生命的另一种可能》,或许对身在困扰中的朋友,有所借鉴和帮助。现代人比较容易给自己“贴标签”,从而以这种方式,逃避了更多的可能。老年病、健康、衰老、“微笑抑郁症”……都是社会建构出来的概念,所以,是否更需要我们看清自己呢?而不是藏在大众化的安全网里面?是暂时的安全?还是要发掘自己的无限可能与生命力呢?生命是一首悲壮的史诗,你我都裹辖其中。\n\n生而为人,确实不易,但是来这世上走一趟,阳光与黑夜相伴,快乐与痛苦并存,重要的是过程的无怨无悔吧。",
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      "content": "微笑抑郁是从小的成长经历中习得的掩藏内心痛苦,表面微笑的一种讨好型人格。通过讨好别人而获取夸奖和快乐而求得生存,实际上从小到大都把痛苦压抑在内心,长此以往的痛苦压抑导致了自我的内向攻击,从而导致抑郁。建议从改变与人交流的模式开始,逐步改变自己人格,另一方面,我可以帮助你逐步培养你的自信,建立起真正的自尊,同时客服不良习惯,培养良好习惯,形成一个积极向上较为完善的人格。",
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      "name": "今天你看见梧曦了吗:-D",
      "content": "我13岁,咋说呢,在学校表面是那种逗人笑的人,有一天忍不住哭了,不知道为什么,然后有个男同学说:“诶?你还会哭啊!哈哈哈!”就笑着离开了…现在,每天晚上都会难过,担心家人寿命,乱七八糟想来想去,喜欢割自己手,我觉得是我的错,但是还是要继续微笑吧,就算哭的时候,也要笑出来吧…",
      "toName": "我做了一个冗长的梦",
      "to_name": "我做了一个冗长的梦",
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      "to_content": "加油呀",
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      "content": "我高三了,但是经常因为社交影响到学习和自己的心情。有时一点小事就能把自己憋着,压抑又难受。可能是因为在高一时受到冷暴力留下来的阴影,每次只要一段时间浸在学习里长时间没有交流或者因为说话不被注意就会有一种高一那个时候的感觉。心情低沉久久难以恢复。",
      "toName": "肖恩说他喜欢我.",
      "to_name": "肖恩说他喜欢我.",
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      "toContent": "我真的太难受了救救我",
      "to_content": "我真的太难受了救救我",
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      "content": "我一直在假装过得很好,只有我知道我并不快乐,一夜一夜睡不着,很多时候我喜欢晚上的安静,讨厌白天的喧嚣,不敢睡觉,梦里没有一点阳光,黑压压一片,那天吃了安眠药的时候,忽然觉得一下子放松了,只是他们强迫我洗胃的时候,我哭了,不是怕死,是怕活着……",
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      "toContent": "别 世界还有爱",
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      "name": "郭永盛",
      "content": "关于微笑抑郁的概念、症状、人群等,大家已经高屋建瓴!\n其核心就是这种\u0026quot;微笑\u0026quot;不是发至内心的真实感受,而是一种负担,久而久之形成情绪抑郁!\n解决这种问题,还是找专业医生和心理咨询师\n药物加心理治疗……",
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    }, {
      "name": "露",
      "content": "坚持你自己觉得是对的,父母不可能永远是对的,他们身上有他们自以为是看世界的方式,可以多认识一些比自己大的朋友,听听他们对这个世界的看法,你会发现这个世界上,做自己让自己快乐才是最重要的事情。[拥抱][拥抱]",
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      "content": "老师,我遇到的情况和你说的差不多,难怪我前段时间掉头发特别多,头很痛,心躁动不安!我觉得我很难受,有变化,但是大家却觉得没什么异样!我也很困惑,我反问大家没发现吗?大家说看不出来!",
      "toName": "瑶瑶",
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      "toContent": "没救了吗 我已经产生无数次死亡了",
      "to_content": "没救了吗 我已经产生无数次死亡了",
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      "name": "不加葱的",
      "content": "现在全班都知道了我为什么不去上学,当玩笑一样,一到学校就难受,家里也很难受,但是只要是在外面,就会好一点,有时候我自己都不觉得我有重度,但是又好像是有",
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      "toContent": "我也是这样的",
      "to_content": "我也是这样的",
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      "name": "陌",
      "content": "其实哪来什么微笑抑郁??都是成年人必备的一种自我调节的心态和表情!!放女人身上可能是所谓的微笑抑郁!放男人身上就是生活压力所迫还不能表现的征兆而已",
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      "toContent": "像,但实质可能不同吧。",
      "to_content": "像,但实质可能不同吧。",
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      "name": "被遗忘的人",
      "content": "振作起来,往前走,往前看,哪怕前途一片迷惘,哪怕只是凭着惯性继续往前走――\n总有一天,会在自己漫长的脚印中找到方向。\n只是大概需要一点耐心。",
      "toName": "曦媄人",
      "to_name": "曦媄人",
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      "content": "(抱抱) 一切都会好的,适当的去放松 调整自己,适当让自己好好的休息,不去想任何事情,或者试着转移注意力,也是一种好的方式",
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      "content": "如果您感觉太累了,什么都不愿做时,也不必要要别人面前强加欢颜。不开心的事可以找亲朋好友聊聊,或者做让自己有动力的事情!",
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      "name": "追梦?  『思楠』ZDL",
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      "name": "立曰.",
      "content": "在别人眼里我很乐观 其实我自己一个人的时候就会感觉很无助 很容易想起伤心的事",
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      "name": "马倩",
      "content": "微笑抑郁已经变成了很多年轻人的慢性杀手,真的需要严肃对待。",
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      "name": "是涵憨啊",
      "content": "我想死掉,我是全家人的拖累,我拖累大家了,对不起,我该死",
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      "to_name": "_",
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      "name": "清醒",
      "content": "我抑没抑郁我不知道,我只知道我好累,真的好累好累...",
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      "name": "贺连津",
      "content": "微笑并不等于開心,往往微笑抑鬱症狀是人格分裂的體現。",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "换一个环境生存,变回真实自己,撕去假装面貝,从根治起",
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      "toContent": "说的好",
      "to_content": "说的好",
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      "name": "呵呵",
      "content": "最近我也不开心,她们都劝我看医生,我到底哪里做错了",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "我现在上初中,我觉得这些症状我都有,我该怎么办",
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      "to_name": "王阁",
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      "toContent": "您好,您现在是一个初中生的话,略略麻烦一些。因为从某种程度来说,您要取得我们的帮助,需要取得家长的同意。因为咨询不是免费的,平台和咨询师都需要生存不是?\n我觉得,您最重要的是接纳自己。但具体也不好说,毕竟老师掌握您的资料太少。\n您可以把相关资料给家人看看,争取获得他们的支持。这样我们就可以好好聊聊,老师为您寻找一个您独有的生活模式。",
      "to_content": "您好,您现在是一个初中生的话,略略麻烦一些。因为从某种程度来说,您要取得我们的帮助,需要取得家长的同意。因为咨询不是免费的,平台和咨询师都需要生存不是?\n我觉得,您最重要的是接纳自己。但具体也不好说,毕竟老师掌握您的资料太少。\n您可以把相关资料给家人看看,争取获得他们的支持。这样我们就可以好好聊聊,老师为您寻找一个您独有的生活模式。",
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      "name": "灰姑娘她继母",
      "content": "我才高中啊,这个花一样的年纪,它怎么会招上我呢",
      "toName": "嗷呜?",
      "to_name": "嗷呜?",
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      "time_str": "12-15 08:26",
      "toContent": "我比你更惨,小学六年级就招上了,这三年啊,说多了都是泪……[捂脸][难过]",
      "to_content": "我比你更惨,小学六年级就招上了,这三年啊,说多了都是泪……[捂脸][难过]",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "我以前别人说我都不怎么,现在天天晚上哭T﹏T",
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      "name": " 伴我暖i",
      "content": "睡不着了,感觉自己快猝死了,抑郁离开我好不好",
      "toName": "泽熙~",
      "to_name": "泽熙~",
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      "time_str": "前天 19:34",
      "toContent": "一样",
      "to_content": "一样",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "我呢,吃不好,睡不好,家人说我自已做的",
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      "name": "雅",
      "content": "总是少言,微笑面对,看来我是真的抑郁了",
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      "toContent": "您好,我是壹点灵的心理咨询师姜小溶老师。\n非常感谢您对壹点灵平台的关注和信任!\n看了您的描述,姜老师完全能够理解您的无奈和痛苦感受,您一定过得很不容易啊,相信您一定想摆脱这些痛苦的吧?\n给的文字很少,很多情况不清楚,想进一步了解一下:\n第一,不知道您这种表现在家里和外面一样吗?和亲近的人与一般人有区别吗?\n第二,您是男生女生呢?不爱说话是不愿意说废话还是不愿意跟人交往呢?\n第三,您一定也渴望别人关注和理解您吧?\n还需要探讨您童年的经历、父母的情况,以及他们对您的影响。\n第四,您总是少言微笑面对,能具体说几件事吗?\n抑郁症和抑郁情绪完全不一样的。如果是抑郁情绪,只需进一步探究根源,调整认知就可以改善。\n总之,您需要好好爱自己,首先要正确认识自己。\n您能够来次倾诉,说明您愿意接受专业的帮助并且希望能够调整和改变,为您的积极态度点赞!\n\n之前我帮很多抑郁情绪的朋友走出来;也在医生合理用药前提下,帮很多抑郁症患者正常工作生活了。\n很希望且愿意能够帮助您,帮您摆脱痛苦,走出困境,找回内心真正的快乐。\n如果有需要,欢迎私信我和我交流一下。\n我在壹点灵平台等着您,祝您早日走出困境!",
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      "name": "夜琉璃",
      "content": "请问您知道“无我人格”要怎么调节吗?",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "以前笑是一种心情,现在是一种表情",
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      "toContent": "是啊",
      "to_content": "是啊",
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      "name": "瑶瑶",
      "content": "抑郁好久好久 越来越糟糕 没救的",
      "toName": "阳光自来",
      "to_name": "阳光自来",
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      "toContent": "不会的,我跟你一样,我己经走出来了,你一定可以的",
      "to_content": "不会的,我跟你一样,我己经走出来了,你一定可以的",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "我害怕我此刻的情绪不是真实的。",
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    }, {
      "name": "星河",
      "content": "。看见这个话题感觉心里好压抑",
      "toName": "?",
      "to_name": "?",
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      "time_str": "11-27 23:49",
      "toContent": "你也加油",
      "to_content": "你也加油",
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    }, {
      "name": "姜小溶",
      "content": "很好,谢谢,你今天怎么样啊?",
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      "name": "cry",
      "content": "总觉得仿佛在说我[捂脸]",
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      "name": "姜小溶",
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      "name": "肖恩说他喜欢我.",
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      "name": "Avital",
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      "name": "soulkokie",
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      "name": "乖乖女~",
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      "content": "您好,我是壹点灵的心理咨询师姜小溶。\n宝贝,我特别特别理解你内心深处的痛苦和无奈,我也曾经这样痛苦过,不过现在我不但自己走出来了,还帮助很多有这样困惑的人走出来了。他们有学生,也有在社会上承担各种各样工作的人(医生,老师,记者,政府官员等等)\n这些不是您的错,您有勇气来平台诉说您的困惑,已经非常了不起了。\n我愿意倾听您的故事,用我的专业和经验帮您走出来。\n我在壹点灵平台等着您,祝福您早日康复,享受美好的人生!",
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      "content": "您好,我是壹点灵的心理咨询师姜小溶。\n宝贝,我特别特别理解你内心深处的痛苦和无奈,我也曾经这样痛苦过,不过现在我不但自己走出来了,还帮助很多有这样困惑的人走出来了。他们有学生,也有在社会上承担各种各样工作的人(医生,老师,记者,政府官员等等)\n这些不是您的错,您有勇气来平台诉说您的困惑,已经非常了不起了。\n我愿意倾听您的故事,用我的专业和经验帮您走出来。\n我在壹点灵平台等着您,祝福您早日康复,享受美好的人生!",
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      "content": "我不善于表达,总是是相信我们做的很多事情都是人在做天在看,不管相处了多久不相信你的人还是不相信你,自己认为最亲近最相信的人也不过如此,我说不上来的时候就会笑笑而过,没有人会站在你的立场想一想老是像汉堡一样被夹着,没人回考虑你的感受,不管对错都是错的,我感觉我来到这个世上就是一个又个人的拖油瓶什么都干不好",
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      "toContent": "希望大家都要好好的",
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      "content": "感觉每天都过的迷迷糊糊一天就这样过了,说乐观我觉得我应该没有问题吧,当然还是没有问题好,可是我感觉我每天都很消极,每天都笑不起来,感觉笑起来很累,身边没有什么朋友,偶尔说一两句的同学算吗?想和她们说心事,可我觉得她不会听,憋着也难受,不知道怎么办",
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      "content": "我好累好累呀。真的希望尝试一觉从不醒的感觉。学校的规矩,老师的要求,同学的不喜欢,朋友的讨厌......\n啊啊啊,我真的真的真的累了,快坚持不住了,好希望可以离开了",
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      "toContent": "(抱抱) 一切都会好的,适当的去放松 调整自己,适当让自己好好的休息,不去想任何事情,或者试着转移注意力,也是一种好的方式",
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      "name": "一冰",
      "content": "可能就是 生活不堪,对自己不好,但对别人依旧要微笑吧…在我这里就是,自己内心抑郁,绝不可以把抑郁的情绪去带给别人,当别人看着你,你只是极力的微微一笑,表示尊重……",
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      "name": "七星瓢虫",
      "content": "微笑抑郁这是人前人后的表现不一样,没有做回自己,也不知道怎么做回自己,正常的交际能暂时忘记内心重复出现的不安、迷茫与绝望。一念之间容易做出不可挽回的决定",
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      "name": "被压抑的内心",
      "content": "我的理解是  就是表面看起来也正常人没什么两样 其实内心并不是    我觉得要尽量有什么不开心的事儿都说出来 别憋在心里   但是好像我自己都做不到呢",
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      "toContent": "我也做不到",
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      "name": "王阁",
      "content": "谢谢支持!让我们一起把这份温暖的职业做下去,温暖更多人的心灵。虽然我们每个人的力量都是有限的,但是大家一起,一定可以做好的。",
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      "name": "学习ing",
      "content": "只有一个问题,就是我现在经常性,喜欢什么都不想,就是傻开心,不知道是不是有点问题或者说我只是选择其他方式来逃避抑郁这个问题",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "朋友都说你能有抑郁症??没有好吧,但是只有我自己知道每天自己脑子里想着什么有多难过,一个人的时候就崩不住了",
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      "toContent": "他们也这样说我,当时我心里哭笑乐一番大概只有我自己知道吧",
      "to_content": "他们也这样说我,当时我心里哭笑乐一番大概只有我自己知道吧",
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      "content": "我还生了孩子,孩子也被自己带的很糟糕,什么都没教,有的时候真的想死,甚至有的时候想带着孩子一起",
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      "toContent": "请别这么极端,孩子是无辜的啊!",
      "to_content": "请别这么极端,孩子是无辜的啊!",
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      "content": "我也有这种感觉,死不了,活不好,老公永远忙,找不到倾诉的对象[大哭][大哭][大哭][大哭]",
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      "toContent": "我也有这种感觉",
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      "name": "解梦大师我会解了梦,谁能比了,?",
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      "name": "Seven.ywf",
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      "name": "嗷呜?",
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      "name": "嗷呜?",
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      "content": "我该怎么办感觉自己是的",
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      "name": "孤独的狼",
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      "name": "leave me?",
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      "content": "大脑多巴胺没了怎么办",
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      "name": "Benard ",
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      "name": "Benard ",
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      "name": "奶味聚拢型男",
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      "content": "谁可以听我倾诉啊",
      "toName": "你的心由我来保护",
      "to_name": "你的心由我来保护",
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      "name": "露",
      "content": "这个话题好大啊~",
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      "name": "Time  flies~",
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      "name": "璐璐",
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      "content": "暖心(^_^)",
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      "content": "是我啊[大哭]",
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      "content": "别 世界还有爱",
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      "name": "袁纾",
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      "name": "没有希望",
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      "content": "对呀,为什么",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "为了笑而笑",
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      "content": "我也做不到",
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      "name": "悲伤逆流成河",
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      "name": "反骗局曹哥拼多多商家运营客服",
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      "name": "?",
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      "name": "新新",
      "content": "我好难过",
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      "name": "碎时纪く",
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      "name": "",
      "content": "说的好",
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      "content": "怎么约",
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      "name": "解梦大师我会解了梦,谁能比了,?",
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      "name": "徐慧清",
      "content": "你好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师慧清。\n看到你的描述,感受到你是一个特别真诚并难得的女孩子。异地恋爱5年,时间不算短,在一起也有很多的美好的回忆,突如其来的分手,让你不知所措。男朋友的行为也是不同于一般人的做法。\n老师建议你就按男朋友说的暂时先分开,这个男人心里在想什么,我们并不一定猜得透猜得准,与其猜来猜去,不如把这个时间放在自己的身上。他所有对你说过的话,你听听就好,不要往心里去,时间久了对自己没有太多的好处,只能消耗自己的能量,让自己整天胡思乱想,反而影响了自己的正常生活。\n给他一些时间,让他自己从自己的选择里找到答案。同样的也给你自己一个时间,专注于学业和自己身上,一切的经历不会让你白白的走过,我知道目前对你来说有些难行,但一定是可以走出来的。\n姑娘,记住了,永远不要把希望寄托于别人的身上,遇上对的人是幸福,遇上错的人,那就是一段刻苦铭心的成长。爱自己才是所以爱的开始。\n感谢你的信任,如果有需要帮助,可以私信我!\n我在壹点灵等你!",
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      "toContent": "我觉得您说的很棒",
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      "name": "徐慧清",
      "content": "你好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师慧清。\n看到你的留言,感受到你的焦虑与恐惧。\n面对不到半年的感情,突然有了孩子,心里有说不出来的感受,孩子也是一个生命,他的到来也并不是一件坏事情,至少面对有孩子这件事情,男朋友选择承担责任,而不是逃避责任。这样的一个男人是值得给一次机会让他照顾你的。\n他的建议也是没有错的,有孩子应该是跟家庭商量,也不用把事情全部都想得那么负面。\n最主要的原因来自于你对自己的不自信,因为不自信,所以总会担心两个人的感情不好?会因为有了孩子与婚姻,而没有了自己的自由。其实这种想法是很正常的,只是要控制好自我的情绪,不要让自己的不自信引起情绪的波动,导致做出伤害自己的事情。\n你可以参考一下,最终选择还是得自己定!不管是什么样的选择,一定是不要伤害到自己。\n感谢你的信任,如果有需要帮助,可以私信我!\n我在壹点灵等你!",
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      "content": "您好 我是壹点灵咨询师崔加运,希望我们的遇见能给您增加一些好运。\n\n跟男友相处半年,意外怀孕,男友极力要求见父母,但你不愿意让父母担心,看来你是一个很懂事孝顺的姑娘,仅凭这一点,你男友也没有理由不珍惜你,所以他没有选择逃避。\n\n另外,你希望两个人在一起,要彼此多了解,毕竟这个社会负面信息太多,稍有不慎,就可能让自己掉入一个大坑,与其结婚之后再后悔,不如现在宁缺毋滥,多加审视。你这种对待感情的严谨态度很值得现在很多年轻人学习。\n\n同时,老师也发现一些问题,想跟你交流一下。你虽然知道很多的道理,但似乎不知道如何验证或者实践这些道理。\n\n比如第一,你说结婚和谈恋爱是两个家庭的事,这个没有问题,可是你男朋友要求双方父母见个面谈一谈,不就是在实践这一条吗?你为什么又不愿意了呢?\n\n第二,你现在不确定以后就是他了,那么你想过怎么样才叫确定吗? 你也说了这个社会负面信息太多,让你有点恐婚,尤其是那些男生把女友搞怀孕了就抛弃的,而你的男朋友恰恰选择了担当,并没有让你一个人去承担,也没有选择让你打胎,难道这不是一个值得你考虑的点吗?\n\n当然,以上两点我相信你肯定有你自己的想法,老师要很想知道你到底在顾虑什么,以至于你在思考问题的时候都会前后矛盾。如果你愿意的话,可以给老师留言,我们详细探讨一下。",
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      "content": "你的考虑很对。结婚对象才是结婚的理由。孩子不是结婚的理由,不要被孩子绑架。下次要小心点,你父母心疼你的,你也要对自己好一点。",
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      "content": "欢迎小李同学私聊。你面对同学时每次都采取摔门出去的方式,或许和你原生家庭中某位重要抚养人有关系哦",
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      "content": "哈,题主这个问题描述清晰,诉求明白,就是有点像给咨询师出的考题呢:)\n欢迎私聊老师深入交流哦",
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