home_data_xlzx.json 264 KB
Newer Older
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 193 194 195 196 197 198 199 200 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 222 223 224 225
[
  {
    "headerBean": {
      "askCategoryData": [
        {
          "cateId": 1,
          "cateTitle": "恋爱咨询",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%83%85%E6%84%9F%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/lsb3h0t995xhvb8g.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 27,
          "cateTitle": "情绪压力",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7Bfv%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D27%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/xyuxphp8gekqdd5p.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 23,
          "cateTitle": "亲子教育",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D23%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/xrqyf0axfa9l5d2u.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 1,
          "cateTitle": "婚姻咨询",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D27%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/4646o5l1325slpqo.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 25,
          "cateTitle": "人际交往",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D25%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/bu967is646xiu4rh.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 22,
          "cateTitle": "职业发展",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D22%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/wh3ew28wcrq56c9x.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 26,
          "cateTitle": "个人成长",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D26%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/rin00b2d96c9ejyx.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 0,
          "cateTitle": "全部分类",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fcates%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/z1wj7sa8v77z8ybk.png"
        }
      ],
      "focusList": [
        {
          "focId": 18489,
          "imageIphonex": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/17/k8ahn92dn00pre2w.png",
          "imageUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/17/lwlmvv8il5itb5zf.png",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/h5?params=%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fzx%2Factivity%2Fdaka%22%7D",
          "shareData": {
            "title": "大咖频道",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/17/lwlmvv8il5itb5zf.png",
            "desc": "",
            "shareUrl": ""
          },
          "title": "大咖频道"
        },
        {
          "focId": 21678,
          "imageIphonex": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/21/4fdhtpcdcbgqh3zd.png",
          "imageUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/21/v7xuze4hu63whqf5.png",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/h5?params=%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fcourse%2FDetail%2Fv2%2F6273%22%7D",
          "shareData": {
            "title": "35天亲子训练营,做不头疼的家长",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/21/v7xuze4hu63whqf5.png",
            "desc": "",
            "shareUrl": "https://m.yidianling.com/course/6273"
          },
          "title": "35天亲子训练营,做不头疼的家长"
        },
        {
          "focId": 21486,
          "imageIphonex": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/10/pcihir5dlceyfb85.png",
          "imageUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/10/mb1krx00wcfkxcqq.png",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/h5?params=%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fcourse%2FDetail%2Fv2%2F6157%22%7D",
          "shareData": {
            "title": "性格心理学:透析对方性格,解决相处问题",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/10/mb1krx00wcfkxcqq.png",
            "desc": "",
            "shareUrl": "https://m.yidianling.com/course/6157"
          },
          "title": "性格心理学:透析对方性格,解决相处问题"
        }
      ],
      "homeSaleData": [
        {
          "nickName": "晶**",
          "doctorName": "辛红芳",
          "doctorId": 1658,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F1658%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:52:50 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "",
          "doctorName": "时卫玲",
          "doctorId": 2984,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F2984%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:53:51 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "不**",
          "doctorName": "靖亚钦",
          "doctorId": 5258,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F5258%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:54:54 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "",
          "doctorName": "于冬梅",
          "doctorId": 12369,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F12369%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:56:07 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "蔚**",
          "doctorName": "鲍道元",
          "doctorId": 9109,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F9109%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:58:06 PM"
        }
      ],
      "keywordData": [
        {
          "id": 5,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%80%A7%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "性心理"
        },
        {
          "id": 2,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%8A%91%E9%83%81%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "抑郁"
        },
        {
          "id": 3,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E7%84%A6%E8%99%91%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "焦虑"
        },
        {
          "id": 4,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E5%A9%9A%E5%A7%BB%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "婚姻挽回"
        },
        {
          "id": 8,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%97%A9%E6%81%8B%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "早恋"
        },
        {
          "id": 6,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E5%90%8C%E6%80%A7%E6%81%8B%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "同性恋"
        },
        {
          "id": 7,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E5%87%BA%E8%BD%A8%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "出轨"
        },
        {
          "id": 1,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%81%8B%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "失恋"
        },
        {
          "id": 9,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch2%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%83%85%E6%84%9F%E4%BF%AE%E5%A4%8D%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "情感修复"
        }
      ],
      "listenCategoryDate": [
        {
          "id": 1,
          "name": "恋爱"
        },
        {
          "id": 2,
          "name": "婚姻家庭"
        },
        {
          "id": 3,
          "name": "陪聊治愈"
        },
        {
          "id": 4,
          "name": "情绪压力"
        },
        {
          "id": 5,
          "name": "亲子教育"
        },
        {
          "id": 7,
          "name": "职业"
        },
        {
          "id": 8,
          "name": "人际"
        },
        {
          "id": 9,
          "name": "个人成长"
        }
      ],
      "doctorName": "",
      "consultCategoryData": [
        {
226
          "id":"1",
227 228 229
          "name":"恋爱情感"
        },
        {
230
          "id":"2",
231 232 233
          "name":"婚姻家庭"
        },
        {
234
          "id":"5",
235 236 237
          "name":"亲子教育"
        },
        {
238
          "id":"7",
239 240 241
          "name":"职场发展"
        },
        {
242
          "id":"26",
243 244 245
          "name":"个人成长"
        },
        {
246
          "id":"4",
247 248 249
          "name":"情绪压力"
        },
        {
250
          "id":"699",
251 252 253 254 255 256 257 258 259 260 261 262 263 264 265 266 267 268 269 270 271 272 273 274 275 276 277 278 279 280 281 282 283 284 285 286 287 288 289 290 291 292 293 294 295 296 297 298 299 300 301 302 303 304 305 306 307 308 309 310 311 312 313 314 315 316 317 318 319 320 321 322 323 324 325 326 327 328 329 330 331 332 333 334 335 336 337 338 339 340 341 342 343 344 345 346 347 348 349 350 351 352 353 354 355 356 357 358 359 360 361 362 363 364 365 366 367 368 369 370 371 372 373 374 375 376 377 378 379 380 381 382 383 384 385 386 387 388 389 390 391 392 393 394 395 396 397 398 399 400 401 402 403 404 405 406 407 408 409 410 411 412 413 414 415 416 417 418 419 420 421 422 423 424 425 426 427 428 429 430 431 432 433 434 435 436 437 438 439 440 441 442 443 444 445 446 447 448 449 450 451 452 453 454 455 456 457 458 459 460 461 462 463 464 465 466 467 468 469 470 471 472 473 474 475 476 477 478 479 480 481 482 483 484 485 486 487
          "name":"心理健康"
        }
      ],
      "activityResponse": {
        "title": "",
        "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/course?params\u003d%7b%22url%22%3a%22https%3a%2f%2fm.ydl.com%2fcourse%2fDetail%2fv2%2f3639%22%7d",
        "imageUrl": "",
        "btnLinkurl": "",
        "imageBanner": "https://pic.ydlcdn.com/HFfHKt6tNj.png"
      }
    },
    "type": 10001
  },
  {
    "headerBean": {
      "askCategoryData": [
        {
          "cateId": 1,
          "cateTitle": "恋爱咨询",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%83%85%E6%84%9F%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/lsb3h0t995xhvb8g.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 27,
          "cateTitle": "情绪压力",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D27%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/xyuxphp8gekqdd5p.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 23,
          "cateTitle": "亲子教育",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D23%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/xrqyf0axfa9l5d2u.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 1,
          "cateTitle": "婚姻咨询",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D27%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/4646o5l1325slpqo.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 25,
          "cateTitle": "人际交往",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D25%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/bu967is646xiu4rh.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 22,
          "cateTitle": "职业发展",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D22%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/wh3ew28wcrq56c9x.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 26,
          "cateTitle": "个人成长",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D26%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/rin00b2d96c9ejyx.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 0,
          "cateTitle": "全部分类",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fcates%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/z1wj7sa8v77z8ybk.png"
        }
      ],
      "focusList": [
        {
          "focId": 18489,
          "imageIphonex": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/17/k8ahn92dn00pre2w.png",
          "imageUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/17/lwlmvv8il5itb5zf.png",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/h5?params=%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fzx%2Factivity%2Fdaka%22%7D",
          "shareData": {
            "title": "大咖频道",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/17/lwlmvv8il5itb5zf.png",
            "desc": "",
            "shareUrl": ""
          },
          "title": "大咖频道"
        },
        {
          "focId": 21678,
          "imageIphonex": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/21/4fdhtpcdcbgqh3zd.png",
          "imageUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/21/v7xuze4hu63whqf5.png",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/h5?params=%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fcourse%2FDetail%2Fv2%2F6273%22%7D",
          "shareData": {
            "title": "35天亲子训练营,做不头疼的家长",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/21/v7xuze4hu63whqf5.png",
            "desc": "",
            "shareUrl": "https://m.yidianling.com/course/6273"
          },
          "title": "35天亲子训练营,做不头疼的家长"
        },
        {
          "focId": 21486,
          "imageIphonex": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/10/pcihir5dlceyfb85.png",
          "imageUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/10/mb1krx00wcfkxcqq.png",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/h5?params=%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fcourse%2FDetail%2Fv2%2F6157%22%7D",
          "shareData": {
            "title": "性格心理学:透析对方性格,解决相处问题",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/10/mb1krx00wcfkxcqq.png",
            "desc": "",
            "shareUrl": "https://m.yidianling.com/course/6157"
          },
          "title": "性格心理学:透析对方性格,解决相处问题"
        }
      ],
      "homeSaleData": [
        {
          "nickName": "晶**",
          "doctorName": "辛红芳",
          "doctorId": 1658,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F1658%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:52:50 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "",
          "doctorName": "时卫玲",
          "doctorId": 2984,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F2984%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:53:51 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "不**",
          "doctorName": "靖亚钦",
          "doctorId": 5258,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F5258%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:54:54 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "",
          "doctorName": "于冬梅",
          "doctorId": 12369,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F12369%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:56:07 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "蔚**",
          "doctorName": "鲍道元",
          "doctorId": 9109,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F9109%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:58:06 PM"
        }
      ],
      "keywordData": [
        {
          "id": 5,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%80%A7%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "性心理"
        },
        {
          "id": 2,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%8A%91%E9%83%81%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "抑郁"
        },
        {
          "id": 3,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E7%84%A6%E8%99%91%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "焦虑"
        },
        {
          "id": 4,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E5%A9%9A%E5%A7%BB%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "婚姻挽回"
        },
        {
          "id": 8,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%97%A9%E6%81%8B%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "早恋"
        },
        {
          "id": 6,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E5%90%8C%E6%80%A7%E6%81%8B%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "同性恋"
        },
        {
          "id": 7,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E5%87%BA%E8%BD%A8%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "出轨"
        },
        {
          "id": 1,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%81%8B%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "失恋"
        },
        {
          "id": 9,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch2%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%83%85%E6%84%9F%E4%BF%AE%E5%A4%8D%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "情感修复"
        }
      ],
      "listenCategoryDate": [
        {
          "id": 1,
          "name": "恋爱"
        },
        {
          "id": 2,
          "name": "婚姻家庭"
        },
        {
          "id": 3,
          "name": "陪聊治愈"
        },
        {
          "id": 4,
          "name": "情绪压力"
        },
        {
          "id": 5,
          "name": "亲子教育"
        },
        {
          "id": 7,
          "name": "职业"
        },
        {
          "id": 8,
          "name": "人际"
        },
        {
          "id": 9,
          "name": "个人成长"
        }
      ],
      "doctorName": "",
      "consultCategoryData": [
        {
488
          "id":"1",
489 490 491
          "name":"恋爱情感"
        },
        {
492
          "id":"2",
493 494 495
          "name":"婚姻家庭"
        },
        {
496
          "id":"5",
497 498 499
          "name":"亲子教育"
        },
        {
500
          "id":"7",
501 502 503
          "name":"职场发展"
        },
        {
504
          "id":"26",
505 506 507
          "name":"个人成长"
        },
        {
508
          "id":"27",
509 510 511
          "name":"情绪压力"
        },
        {
512
          "id":"699",
513 514 515 516 517 518 519 520 521 522 523 524 525 526 527 528 529 530 531 532 533 534 535 536 537 538 539 540 541 542 543 544 545 546 547 548 549 550 551 552 553 554 555 556 557 558 559 560 561 562 563 564 565 566 567 568 569 570 571 572 573 574 575 576 577 578 579 580 581 582 583 584 585 586 587 588 589 590 591 592 593 594 595 596 597 598 599 600 601 602 603 604 605 606 607 608 609 610 611 612 613 614 615 616 617 618 619 620 621 622 623 624 625 626 627 628 629 630 631 632 633 634 635 636 637 638 639 640 641 642 643 644 645 646 647 648 649 650 651 652 653 654 655 656 657 658 659 660 661 662 663 664 665 666 667 668 669 670 671 672 673 674 675 676 677 678 679 680 681 682 683 684 685 686 687 688 689 690 691 692 693 694 695 696 697 698 699 700 701 702 703 704 705 706 707 708 709 710 711 712 713 714 715 716 717 718 719 720 721 722 723 724 725 726 727 728 729 730 731 732 733 734 735 736 737 738 739 740 741 742 743 744 745 746 747 748 749 750 751 752 753 754 755 756 757 758 759 760 761 762 763 764 765 766 767 768 769 770 771 772 773 774 775 776 777 778 779 780 781 782 783 784 785 786 787 788 789 790 791 792 793 794 795 796 797 798 799 800 801 802 803 804 805 806 807 808 809 810 811 812 813 814 815 816 817 818 819 820 821 822 823 824 825 826 827 828 829 830 831 832 833 834 835 836 837 838 839 840 841 842 843 844 845 846 847 848 849 850 851 852 853 854 855 856 857 858 859 860 861 862 863 864 865 866 867 868 869 870 871 872 873 874 875 876 877 878 879 880 881 882 883 884 885 886 887 888 889 890 891 892 893 894 895 896 897 898 899 900 901 902 903 904 905 906 907 908 909 910 911 912 913 914 915 916 917 918 919 920 921 922 923 924 925 926 927 928 929 930 931 932 933 934 935 936 937 938 939 940 941 942 943 944 945 946 947 948 949 950 951 952 953 954 955 956 957 958 959 960 961 962 963 964 965 966 967 968 969 970 971 972 973 974 975 976 977 978 979 980 981 982 983 984 985 986 987 988 989 990 991 992 993 994 995 996 997 998 999 1000 1001 1002 1003 1004 1005 1006 1007 1008 1009 1010 1011 1012 1013 1014 1015 1016 1017 1018 1019 1020 1021 1022 1023 1024 1025 1026 1027 1028 1029 1030 1031 1032 1033 1034 1035 1036 1037 1038 1039 1040 1041 1042 1043 1044 1045 1046 1047 1048 1049 1050 1051 1052 1053 1054 1055 1056 1057 1058 1059 1060 1061 1062 1063 1064 1065 1066 1067 1068 1069 1070 1071 1072 1073 1074 1075 1076 1077 1078 1079 1080 1081 1082 1083 1084 1085 1086 1087 1088 1089 1090 1091 1092 1093 1094 1095 1096 1097 1098 1099 1100 1101 1102 1103 1104 1105 1106 1107 1108 1109 1110 1111 1112 1113 1114 1115 1116 1117 1118 1119 1120 1121 1122 1123 1124 1125 1126 1127 1128 1129 1130 1131 1132 1133 1134 1135 1136 1137 1138 1139 1140 1141 1142 1143 1144 1145 1146 1147 1148 1149 1150 1151 1152 1153 1154 1155 1156 1157 1158 1159 1160 1161 1162 1163 1164 1165 1166 1167 1168 1169 1170 1171 1172 1173 1174 1175 1176 1177 1178 1179 1180 1181 1182 1183 1184 1185 1186 1187 1188 1189 1190 1191 1192 1193 1194 1195 1196 1197 1198 1199 1200 1201 1202 1203 1204 1205 1206 1207 1208 1209 1210 1211 1212 1213 1214 1215 1216 1217 1218 1219 1220 1221 1222 1223 1224 1225 1226 1227 1228 1229 1230 1231 1232 1233 1234 1235 1236 1237 1238 1239 1240 1241 1242 1243 1244 1245 1246 1247 1248 1249 1250 1251 1252 1253 1254 1255 1256 1257 1258 1259 1260 1261 1262 1263 1264 1265 1266 1267 1268 1269 1270 1271 1272 1273 1274 1275 1276 1277 1278 1279 1280 1281 1282 1283 1284 1285 1286 1287 1288 1289 1290 1291 1292 1293 1294 1295 1296 1297 1298 1299 1300 1301 1302 1303 1304 1305 1306 1307 1308 1309 1310 1311 1312 1313 1314 1315 1316 1317 1318 1319 1320 1321 1322 1323 1324 1325 1326 1327 1328 1329 1330 1331 1332 1333 1334 1335 1336 1337 1338 1339 1340 1341 1342 1343 1344 1345 1346 1347 1348 1349 1350 1351 1352 1353 1354 1355 1356 1357 1358 1359 1360 1361 1362 1363 1364 1365 1366 1367 1368 1369 1370 1371 1372 1373 1374 1375 1376 1377 1378 1379 1380 1381 1382 1383 1384 1385 1386 1387 1388 1389 1390 1391 1392 1393 1394 1395 1396 1397 1398 1399 1400 1401 1402 1403 1404 1405 1406 1407 1408 1409 1410 1411 1412 1413 1414 1415 1416 1417 1418 1419 1420 1421 1422 1423 1424 1425 1426 1427 1428 1429 1430 1431 1432 1433 1434 1435 1436 1437 1438 1439 1440 1441 1442 1443 1444 1445 1446 1447 1448 1449 1450 1451 1452 1453 1454 1455 1456 1457 1458 1459 1460 1461 1462 1463 1464 1465 1466 1467 1468 1469 1470 1471 1472 1473 1474 1475 1476 1477 1478 1479 1480 1481 1482 1483 1484 1485 1486 1487 1488 1489 1490 1491 1492 1493 1494 1495 1496 1497 1498 1499 1500 1501 1502 1503 1504 1505 1506 1507 1508 1509 1510 1511 1512 1513 1514 1515 1516 1517 1518 1519 1520 1521 1522 1523 1524 1525 1526 1527 1528 1529 1530 1531 1532 1533 1534 1535 1536 1537 1538 1539 1540 1541 1542 1543 1544 1545 1546 1547 1548 1549 1550 1551 1552 1553 1554 1555 1556 1557 1558 1559 1560 1561 1562 1563 1564 1565 1566 1567 1568 1569 1570 1571 1572 1573 1574 1575 1576 1577 1578 1579 1580 1581 1582 1583 1584 1585 1586 1587 1588 1589 1590 1591 1592 1593 1594 1595 1596 1597 1598 1599 1600 1601 1602 1603 1604 1605 1606 1607 1608 1609 1610 1611 1612 1613 1614 1615 1616 1617 1618 1619 1620 1621 1622 1623 1624 1625 1626 1627 1628 1629 1630 1631 1632 1633 1634 1635 1636 1637 1638 1639 1640 1641 1642 1643 1644 1645 1646 1647 1648 1649 1650 1651 1652 1653 1654 1655 1656 1657 1658 1659 1660 1661 1662 1663 1664 1665 1666 1667 1668 1669 1670 1671 1672 1673 1674 1675 1676 1677 1678 1679 1680 1681 1682 1683 1684 1685 1686 1687 1688 1689 1690 1691 1692 1693 1694 1695 1696 1697 1698 1699 1700 1701 1702 1703 1704 1705 1706 1707 1708 1709 1710 1711 1712 1713 1714 1715 1716 1717 1718 1719 1720 1721 1722 1723 1724 1725 1726 1727 1728 1729 1730 1731 1732 1733 1734 1735 1736 1737 1738 1739 1740 1741 1742 1743 1744 1745 1746 1747 1748 1749 1750 1751 1752 1753 1754 1755 1756 1757 1758 1759 1760 1761 1762 1763 1764 1765 1766 1767 1768 1769 1770 1771 1772 1773 1774 1775 1776 1777 1778 1779 1780 1781 1782 1783 1784 1785 1786 1787 1788 1789 1790 1791 1792 1793 1794 1795 1796 1797 1798 1799 1800 1801 1802 1803 1804 1805 1806 1807 1808 1809 1810 1811 1812 1813 1814 1815 1816 1817 1818 1819 1820 1821 1822 1823 1824 1825 1826 1827 1828 1829 1830 1831 1832 1833 1834 1835 1836 1837 1838 1839 1840 1841 1842 1843 1844 1845 1846 1847 1848 1849 1850 1851 1852 1853 1854 1855 1856 1857 1858 1859 1860 1861 1862 1863 1864 1865 1866 1867 1868 1869 1870 1871 1872 1873 1874 1875 1876 1877 1878 1879 1880 1881 1882 1883 1884 1885 1886 1887 1888 1889 1890 1891 1892 1893 1894 1895 1896 1897 1898 1899 1900 1901 1902 1903 1904 1905 1906 1907 1908 1909 1910 1911 1912 1913 1914 1915 1916 1917 1918 1919 1920 1921 1922 1923 1924 1925 1926 1927 1928 1929 1930 1931 1932 1933 1934 1935 1936 1937 1938 1939 1940 1941 1942 1943 1944 1945 1946 1947 1948 1949 1950 1951 1952 1953 1954 1955 1956 1957 1958 1959 1960 1961 1962 1963 1964 1965 1966 1967 1968 1969 1970 1971 1972 1973 1974 1975 1976 1977 1978 1979 1980 1981 1982 1983 1984 1985 1986 1987 1988 1989 1990 1991 1992 1993 1994 1995 1996 1997 1998 1999 2000 2001 2002 2003 2004 2005 2006 2007 2008 2009 2010 2011 2012 2013 2014 2015 2016 2017 2018 2019 2020 2021 2022 2023 2024 2025 2026 2027 2028 2029 2030 2031 2032 2033 2034 2035 2036 2037 2038 2039 2040 2041 2042 2043 2044 2045 2046 2047 2048 2049 2050 2051 2052 2053 2054 2055 2056 2057 2058 2059 2060 2061 2062 2063 2064 2065 2066 2067 2068 2069 2070 2071 2072 2073 2074 2075 2076 2077 2078 2079 2080 2081 2082 2083 2084 2085 2086 2087 2088 2089 2090 2091 2092 2093 2094 2095 2096 2097 2098 2099 2100 2101 2102 2103 2104 2105 2106 2107 2108 2109 2110 2111 2112 2113 2114 2115 2116 2117 2118 2119 2120 2121 2122 2123 2124 2125 2126 2127 2128 2129 2130 2131 2132 2133 2134 2135 2136 2137 2138 2139 2140 2141 2142 2143 2144 2145 2146 2147 2148 2149 2150 2151 2152 2153 2154 2155 2156 2157 2158 2159 2160 2161 2162 2163 2164 2165 2166 2167 2168 2169 2170 2171 2172 2173 2174 2175 2176 2177 2178 2179 2180 2181 2182 2183 2184 2185 2186 2187 2188 2189 2190 2191 2192 2193 2194 2195 2196 2197 2198 2199 2200 2201 2202 2203 2204 2205 2206 2207 2208 2209 2210 2211 2212 2213 2214 2215 2216 2217 2218 2219 2220 2221 2222 2223 2224 2225 2226 2227 2228 2229 2230 2231 2232 2233 2234 2235 2236 2237 2238 2239 2240 2241 2242 2243 2244 2245 2246 2247 2248 2249 2250 2251 2252 2253 2254 2255 2256 2257 2258 2259 2260 2261 2262 2263 2264 2265 2266 2267 2268 2269 2270 2271 2272 2273 2274 2275 2276 2277 2278 2279 2280 2281 2282 2283 2284 2285 2286 2287 2288 2289 2290 2291 2292 2293 2294 2295 2296 2297 2298 2299 2300 2301 2302 2303 2304 2305 2306 2307 2308 2309 2310 2311 2312 2313 2314 2315 2316 2317 2318 2319 2320 2321 2322 2323 2324 2325 2326 2327 2328 2329 2330 2331 2332 2333 2334 2335 2336 2337 2338 2339 2340 2341 2342 2343 2344 2345 2346 2347 2348 2349 2350 2351 2352 2353 2354 2355 2356 2357 2358 2359 2360 2361 2362 2363 2364 2365 2366 2367 2368 2369 2370 2371 2372 2373 2374 2375 2376 2377 2378 2379 2380 2381 2382 2383 2384 2385 2386 2387 2388 2389 2390 2391 2392 2393 2394 2395 2396 2397 2398 2399 2400 2401 2402 2403 2404 2405 2406 2407 2408 2409 2410 2411 2412 2413 2414 2415 2416 2417 2418 2419 2420 2421 2422 2423 2424 2425 2426 2427 2428 2429 2430 2431 2432 2433 2434 2435 2436 2437 2438 2439 2440 2441 2442 2443 2444 2445 2446 2447 2448 2449 2450 2451 2452 2453 2454 2455 2456 2457 2458 2459 2460 2461 2462 2463 2464 2465 2466 2467 2468 2469 2470 2471 2472 2473 2474 2475 2476 2477 2478 2479 2480 2481 2482 2483 2484 2485 2486 2487 2488 2489 2490 2491 2492 2493 2494 2495 2496 2497 2498 2499 2500 2501 2502 2503 2504 2505 2506 2507 2508 2509 2510 2511 2512 2513 2514 2515 2516 2517 2518 2519 2520 2521 2522 2523 2524 2525 2526 2527 2528 2529 2530 2531 2532 2533 2534 2535 2536 2537 2538 2539 2540 2541 2542 2543 2544 2545 2546 2547 2548 2549 2550 2551 2552 2553 2554 2555 2556 2557 2558 2559 2560 2561 2562 2563 2564 2565 2566 2567 2568 2569 2570 2571 2572 2573 2574 2575 2576 2577 2578 2579 2580 2581 2582 2583 2584 2585 2586 2587 2588 2589 2590 2591 2592 2593 2594 2595 2596 2597 2598 2599 2600 2601 2602 2603 2604 2605 2606 2607 2608 2609 2610 2611 2612 2613 2614 2615 2616 2617 2618 2619 2620 2621 2622 2623 2624 2625 2626 2627 2628 2629 2630 2631 2632 2633 2634 2635 2636 2637 2638 2639 2640 2641 2642 2643 2644 2645 2646 2647 2648 2649 2650 2651 2652 2653 2654 2655 2656 2657 2658 2659 2660 2661 2662 2663 2664 2665 2666 2667 2668 2669 2670 2671 2672 2673 2674 2675 2676 2677 2678 2679 2680 2681 2682 2683 2684 2685 2686 2687 2688 2689 2690 2691 2692 2693 2694 2695 2696 2697 2698 2699 2700 2701 2702 2703 2704 2705 2706 2707 2708 2709 2710 2711 2712 2713 2714 2715 2716 2717 2718 2719 2720 2721 2722 2723 2724 2725 2726 2727 2728 2729 2730 2731 2732 2733 2734 2735 2736 2737 2738 2739 2740 2741 2742 2743 2744 2745 2746 2747 2748 2749 2750 2751 2752 2753 2754 2755 2756 2757 2758 2759 2760 2761 2762 2763 2764 2765 2766 2767 2768 2769 2770 2771 2772 2773 2774 2775 2776 2777 2778 2779 2780 2781 2782 2783 2784 2785 2786 2787 2788 2789 2790 2791 2792 2793 2794 2795 2796 2797 2798 2799 2800 2801 2802 2803 2804 2805 2806 2807 2808 2809 2810 2811 2812 2813 2814 2815 2816 2817 2818 2819 2820 2821 2822 2823 2824 2825 2826 2827 2828 2829 2830 2831 2832 2833 2834 2835 2836 2837 2838 2839 2840 2841 2842 2843 2844 2845 2846 2847 2848 2849 2850 2851 2852 2853 2854 2855 2856 2857 2858 2859 2860 2861 2862 2863 2864 2865 2866 2867 2868 2869 2870 2871 2872 2873 2874 2875 2876 2877 2878 2879 2880 2881 2882 2883 2884 2885 2886 2887 2888 2889 2890 2891 2892 2893 2894 2895 2896 2897 2898 2899 2900 2901 2902 2903 2904 2905 2906 2907 2908 2909 2910 2911 2912 2913 2914 2915 2916 2917 2918 2919 2920 2921 2922 2923 2924 2925 2926 2927 2928 2929 2930 2931 2932 2933 2934 2935 2936 2937 2938 2939 2940 2941 2942 2943 2944 2945 2946 2947 2948 2949 2950 2951 2952 2953 2954 2955 2956 2957 2958 2959 2960 2961 2962 2963 2964 2965 2966 2967 2968 2969 2970 2971 2972 2973 2974 2975 2976 2977 2978 2979 2980 2981 2982 2983 2984 2985 2986 2987 2988 2989 2990 2991 2992 2993 2994 2995 2996 2997 2998 2999 3000 3001 3002 3003 3004 3005 3006 3007 3008 3009 3010 3011 3012 3013 3014 3015 3016 3017 3018 3019 3020 3021 3022 3023 3024 3025 3026 3027 3028 3029 3030 3031 3032 3033 3034 3035 3036 3037 3038 3039 3040 3041 3042 3043 3044 3045 3046 3047 3048 3049 3050 3051 3052 3053 3054 3055 3056 3057 3058 3059 3060 3061 3062 3063 3064 3065 3066 3067 3068 3069 3070 3071 3072 3073 3074 3075 3076 3077 3078 3079 3080 3081 3082 3083 3084 3085 3086 3087 3088 3089 3090 3091 3092 3093 3094 3095 3096 3097 3098 3099 3100 3101 3102 3103 3104 3105 3106 3107 3108 3109 3110 3111 3112 3113 3114 3115 3116 3117 3118 3119 3120 3121 3122 3123 3124 3125 3126 3127 3128 3129 3130 3131 3132 3133 3134 3135 3136 3137 3138 3139 3140 3141 3142 3143 3144 3145 3146 3147 3148 3149 3150 3151 3152 3153 3154 3155 3156 3157 3158 3159 3160 3161 3162 3163 3164 3165 3166 3167 3168 3169 3170 3171 3172 3173 3174 3175 3176 3177 3178 3179 3180 3181 3182 3183 3184 3185 3186 3187 3188 3189 3190 3191 3192 3193 3194 3195 3196 3197 3198 3199 3200 3201 3202 3203 3204 3205 3206 3207 3208 3209 3210 3211 3212 3213 3214 3215 3216 3217 3218 3219 3220 3221 3222 3223 3224 3225 3226 3227 3228 3229 3230 3231 3232 3233 3234 3235 3236 3237 3238 3239 3240 3241 3242 3243 3244 3245 3246 3247 3248 3249 3250 3251 3252 3253 3254 3255 3256 3257 3258 3259 3260 3261 3262 3263 3264 3265 3266 3267 3268 3269 3270 3271 3272 3273 3274 3275 3276 3277 3278 3279 3280 3281 3282 3283 3284 3285 3286 3287 3288 3289 3290 3291 3292 3293 3294 3295 3296 3297 3298 3299 3300 3301 3302 3303 3304 3305 3306 3307 3308 3309 3310 3311 3312 3313 3314 3315 3316 3317 3318 3319 3320 3321 3322 3323 3324 3325 3326 3327 3328 3329 3330 3331 3332 3333 3334 3335 3336 3337 3338 3339 3340 3341 3342 3343 3344 3345 3346 3347 3348 3349 3350 3351 3352 3353 3354 3355 3356 3357 3358 3359 3360 3361 3362 3363 3364 3365 3366 3367 3368 3369 3370 3371 3372 3373 3374 3375 3376 3377 3378 3379 3380 3381 3382 3383 3384 3385 3386 3387 3388 3389 3390 3391 3392 3393 3394 3395 3396 3397 3398 3399 3400 3401 3402 3403 3404 3405 3406 3407 3408 3409 3410 3411 3412 3413 3414 3415 3416 3417 3418 3419 3420 3421 3422 3423 3424 3425 3426 3427 3428 3429 3430 3431 3432 3433 3434 3435 3436 3437 3438 3439 3440 3441 3442 3443 3444 3445 3446 3447 3448 3449 3450 3451 3452 3453 3454 3455 3456 3457 3458 3459 3460 3461 3462 3463 3464 3465 3466 3467 3468 3469 3470 3471 3472 3473 3474 3475 3476 3477 3478 3479 3480 3481 3482 3483 3484 3485 3486 3487 3488 3489 3490 3491 3492 3493 3494 3495 3496 3497 3498 3499 3500 3501 3502 3503 3504 3505 3506 3507 3508 3509 3510 3511 3512 3513 3514 3515 3516 3517 3518 3519 3520 3521 3522 3523 3524 3525 3526 3527 3528 3529 3530 3531 3532 3533 3534 3535 3536 3537 3538 3539 3540 3541 3542 3543 3544 3545 3546 3547 3548 3549 3550 3551 3552 3553 3554 3555 3556 3557 3558 3559 3560 3561 3562 3563 3564 3565 3566 3567 3568 3569 3570 3571 3572 3573 3574 3575 3576 3577 3578 3579 3580 3581 3582 3583 3584 3585 3586 3587 3588 3589 3590 3591 3592 3593 3594 3595 3596 3597 3598 3599 3600 3601 3602 3603 3604 3605 3606 3607 3608 3609 3610 3611 3612 3613 3614 3615 3616 3617 3618 3619 3620 3621 3622 3623 3624 3625 3626 3627 3628 3629 3630 3631 3632 3633 3634 3635 3636 3637 3638 3639 3640 3641 3642 3643 3644 3645 3646 3647 3648 3649 3650 3651 3652 3653 3654 3655 3656 3657 3658 3659 3660 3661 3662 3663 3664 3665 3666 3667 3668 3669 3670 3671 3672 3673 3674 3675 3676 3677 3678 3679 3680 3681 3682 3683 3684 3685 3686 3687 3688 3689 3690 3691 3692 3693 3694 3695 3696 3697 3698 3699 3700 3701 3702 3703 3704 3705 3706 3707 3708 3709 3710 3711 3712 3713 3714 3715 3716 3717 3718 3719 3720 3721 3722 3723 3724 3725 3726 3727 3728 3729 3730 3731 3732 3733 3734 3735 3736 3737 3738 3739 3740 3741 3742 3743 3744 3745 3746 3747 3748 3749 3750 3751 3752 3753 3754 3755 3756 3757 3758 3759 3760 3761 3762 3763 3764 3765 3766 3767 3768 3769 3770 3771 3772 3773 3774 3775 3776 3777 3778 3779 3780 3781 3782 3783 3784 3785 3786 3787 3788 3789 3790 3791 3792 3793 3794 3795 3796 3797 3798 3799 3800 3801 3802 3803 3804 3805 3806 3807 3808 3809 3810 3811 3812 3813 3814 3815 3816 3817 3818 3819 3820 3821 3822 3823 3824 3825 3826 3827 3828 3829 3830 3831 3832 3833 3834 3835 3836 3837 3838 3839 3840 3841 3842 3843 3844 3845 3846 3847 3848 3849 3850 3851 3852 3853 3854 3855 3856 3857 3858 3859 3860 3861 3862 3863 3864 3865 3866 3867 3868 3869 3870 3871 3872 3873 3874 3875 3876 3877 3878 3879 3880 3881 3882 3883 3884 3885 3886 3887 3888 3889 3890 3891 3892 3893 3894 3895 3896 3897 3898 3899 3900 3901 3902 3903 3904 3905 3906 3907 3908 3909 3910 3911 3912 3913 3914 3915 3916 3917 3918 3919 3920 3921 3922 3923 3924 3925 3926 3927 3928 3929 3930 3931 3932 3933 3934 3935 3936 3937 3938 3939 3940 3941 3942 3943 3944 3945 3946 3947 3948 3949 3950 3951 3952 3953 3954 3955 3956 3957 3958 3959 3960 3961 3962 3963 3964 3965 3966 3967 3968 3969 3970 3971 3972 3973 3974 3975 3976 3977 3978 3979 3980 3981 3982 3983 3984 3985 3986 3987 3988 3989 3990 3991 3992 3993 3994 3995 3996 3997 3998 3999 4000 4001 4002 4003 4004 4005 4006 4007 4008 4009 4010 4011 4012 4013 4014 4015 4016 4017 4018 4019 4020 4021 4022 4023 4024 4025 4026 4027 4028 4029 4030 4031 4032 4033 4034 4035 4036 4037 4038 4039 4040 4041 4042 4043 4044 4045 4046 4047 4048 4049 4050 4051 4052 4053 4054 4055 4056 4057 4058 4059 4060 4061 4062 4063 4064 4065 4066 4067 4068 4069 4070 4071 4072 4073 4074 4075 4076 4077 4078 4079 4080 4081 4082 4083 4084 4085 4086 4087 4088 4089 4090 4091 4092 4093 4094 4095 4096 4097 4098 4099 4100 4101 4102 4103 4104 4105 4106 4107 4108 4109 4110 4111 4112 4113 4114 4115 4116 4117 4118 4119 4120 4121 4122 4123 4124 4125 4126 4127 4128 4129 4130 4131 4132 4133 4134 4135 4136 4137 4138 4139 4140 4141 4142 4143 4144 4145 4146 4147 4148 4149 4150 4151 4152 4153 4154 4155 4156 4157 4158 4159 4160 4161 4162 4163 4164 4165 4166 4167 4168 4169 4170 4171 4172 4173 4174 4175 4176 4177 4178 4179 4180 4181 4182 4183 4184 4185 4186 4187 4188 4189 4190 4191 4192 4193 4194 4195 4196 4197 4198 4199 4200 4201 4202 4203 4204 4205 4206 4207 4208 4209 4210 4211 4212 4213 4214 4215 4216 4217 4218 4219 4220 4221 4222 4223 4224 4225 4226 4227 4228 4229 4230 4231 4232 4233 4234 4235 4236 4237 4238 4239 4240 4241 4242 4243 4244 4245 4246 4247 4248 4249 4250 4251 4252 4253 4254 4255 4256 4257 4258 4259 4260 4261 4262 4263 4264 4265 4266 4267 4268 4269 4270 4271 4272 4273 4274 4275 4276 4277 4278 4279 4280 4281 4282 4283 4284 4285 4286 4287 4288 4289 4290 4291 4292 4293 4294 4295 4296 4297 4298 4299 4300 4301 4302 4303 4304 4305 4306 4307 4308 4309 4310 4311 4312 4313 4314 4315 4316 4317 4318 4319 4320 4321 4322 4323 4324 4325 4326 4327 4328 4329 4330 4331 4332 4333 4334 4335 4336 4337 4338 4339 4340 4341 4342 4343 4344 4345 4346 4347 4348 4349 4350 4351 4352 4353 4354 4355 4356 4357 4358 4359 4360 4361 4362 4363 4364 4365 4366 4367 4368 4369 4370 4371 4372 4373 4374 4375 4376 4377 4378 4379 4380 4381 4382 4383 4384 4385 4386 4387 4388 4389 4390 4391 4392 4393 4394 4395 4396 4397 4398 4399 4400 4401 4402 4403 4404 4405 4406 4407 4408 4409 4410 4411 4412 4413 4414 4415 4416 4417 4418 4419 4420 4421 4422 4423 4424 4425 4426 4427 4428 4429 4430 4431 4432 4433 4434 4435 4436 4437 4438 4439 4440 4441 4442 4443 4444 4445 4446 4447 4448 4449 4450 4451 4452 4453 4454 4455 4456 4457 4458 4459 4460 4461 4462 4463 4464 4465 4466 4467 4468 4469 4470 4471 4472 4473 4474 4475 4476 4477 4478 4479 4480 4481 4482 4483 4484 4485 4486 4487 4488 4489 4490 4491 4492 4493 4494 4495 4496 4497 4498 4499 4500 4501 4502 4503 4504 4505 4506 4507 4508 4509 4510 4511 4512 4513 4514 4515 4516 4517 4518 4519 4520 4521 4522 4523 4524 4525 4526 4527 4528 4529 4530 4531 4532 4533 4534 4535 4536 4537 4538 4539 4540 4541 4542 4543 4544 4545 4546 4547 4548 4549 4550 4551 4552 4553 4554 4555 4556 4557 4558 4559 4560 4561 4562 4563 4564 4565 4566 4567 4568 4569 4570 4571 4572 4573 4574 4575 4576 4577 4578 4579 4580 4581 4582 4583 4584 4585 4586 4587 4588 4589 4590 4591 4592 4593 4594 4595 4596 4597 4598 4599 4600 4601 4602 4603 4604 4605 4606 4607 4608 4609 4610 4611 4612 4613 4614 4615 4616 4617 4618 4619 4620 4621 4622 4623 4624 4625 4626 4627 4628 4629 4630 4631 4632 4633 4634 4635 4636 4637 4638 4639 4640 4641 4642 4643 4644 4645 4646 4647 4648 4649 4650 4651 4652 4653 4654 4655 4656 4657 4658 4659 4660 4661 4662 4663 4664 4665 4666 4667 4668 4669 4670 4671 4672 4673 4674 4675 4676 4677 4678 4679 4680 4681 4682 4683 4684 4685 4686 4687 4688 4689 4690 4691 4692 4693 4694 4695 4696 4697 4698 4699 4700 4701 4702 4703 4704 4705 4706 4707 4708 4709 4710 4711 4712 4713 4714 4715 4716 4717 4718 4719 4720 4721 4722 4723 4724 4725 4726 4727 4728 4729 4730 4731 4732 4733 4734 4735 4736 4737 4738 4739 4740 4741 4742 4743 4744 4745 4746 4747 4748 4749 4750 4751 4752 4753 4754 4755 4756 4757 4758 4759 4760 4761 4762 4763 4764 4765 4766 4767 4768 4769 4770 4771 4772 4773 4774 4775 4776 4777 4778 4779 4780 4781 4782 4783 4784 4785 4786 4787 4788 4789 4790 4791 4792 4793 4794 4795 4796 4797 4798 4799 4800 4801 4802 4803 4804 4805 4806 4807 4808 4809 4810 4811 4812 4813 4814 4815 4816 4817 4818 4819 4820 4821 4822 4823 4824 4825 4826 4827 4828 4829 4830 4831 4832 4833 4834 4835 4836 4837 4838 4839 4840 4841 4842 4843 4844 4845 4846 4847 4848 4849 4850 4851 4852 4853 4854 4855 4856 4857 4858 4859 4860 4861 4862 4863 4864 4865 4866 4867 4868 4869 4870 4871 4872 4873 4874 4875 4876 4877 4878 4879 4880 4881 4882 4883 4884 4885 4886 4887 4888 4889 4890 4891 4892 4893 4894 4895 4896 4897 4898 4899 4900 4901 4902 4903 4904 4905 4906 4907 4908 4909 4910 4911 4912 4913 4914 4915 4916 4917 4918 4919 4920 4921 4922 4923 4924 4925 4926 4927 4928 4929 4930 4931 4932 4933 4934 4935 4936 4937 4938 4939 4940 4941 4942 4943 4944 4945 4946 4947 4948 4949 4950 4951 4952 4953 4954 4955 4956 4957 4958 4959 4960 4961 4962 4963 4964 4965 4966 4967 4968 4969 4970 4971 4972 4973 4974 4975 4976 4977 4978 4979 4980 4981 4982 4983 4984 4985 4986 4987 4988 4989 4990 4991 4992 4993 4994 4995 4996 4997 4998 4999 5000 5001 5002 5003 5004 5005 5006 5007 5008 5009 5010 5011 5012 5013 5014 5015 5016 5017 5018 5019 5020 5021 5022 5023 5024 5025 5026 5027 5028 5029 5030 5031 5032 5033 5034 5035 5036 5037 5038 5039 5040 5041 5042 5043 5044 5045 5046 5047 5048 5049 5050 5051 5052 5053 5054 5055 5056 5057 5058 5059 5060 5061 5062 5063 5064 5065 5066 5067 5068 5069 5070 5071 5072 5073 5074 5075 5076 5077 5078 5079 5080 5081 5082 5083 5084 5085 5086 5087 5088 5089 5090 5091 5092 5093 5094 5095 5096 5097 5098 5099 5100 5101 5102 5103 5104 5105 5106 5107 5108 5109 5110 5111 5112 5113 5114 5115 5116 5117 5118 5119 5120 5121 5122 5123 5124 5125 5126 5127 5128 5129 5130 5131 5132 5133 5134 5135 5136 5137 5138 5139 5140 5141 5142 5143 5144 5145 5146 5147 5148 5149 5150 5151 5152 5153 5154 5155 5156 5157 5158 5159 5160 5161 5162 5163 5164 5165 5166 5167 5168 5169 5170 5171 5172 5173 5174 5175 5176 5177 5178 5179 5180 5181 5182 5183 5184 5185 5186 5187 5188 5189 5190 5191 5192 5193 5194 5195 5196 5197 5198 5199 5200 5201 5202 5203 5204 5205 5206 5207 5208 5209 5210 5211 5212 5213 5214 5215 5216 5217 5218 5219 5220 5221 5222 5223 5224 5225 5226 5227 5228 5229 5230 5231 5232 5233 5234 5235 5236 5237 5238 5239 5240 5241 5242 5243 5244 5245 5246 5247 5248 5249 5250 5251 5252 5253 5254 5255 5256 5257 5258 5259 5260 5261 5262 5263 5264 5265 5266 5267 5268 5269 5270 5271 5272 5273 5274 5275 5276 5277 5278 5279 5280 5281 5282 5283 5284 5285 5286 5287 5288 5289 5290 5291 5292 5293 5294 5295 5296 5297 5298 5299 5300 5301 5302 5303 5304 5305 5306 5307 5308 5309 5310 5311 5312 5313 5314 5315 5316 5317 5318 5319 5320 5321 5322 5323 5324 5325 5326 5327 5328 5329 5330 5331 5332 5333 5334 5335 5336 5337 5338 5339 5340 5341 5342 5343 5344 5345 5346 5347 5348 5349 5350 5351 5352 5353 5354 5355 5356 5357 5358 5359 5360 5361 5362 5363 5364 5365 5366 5367 5368 5369 5370 5371 5372 5373 5374 5375 5376 5377 5378 5379 5380 5381 5382 5383 5384 5385 5386 5387 5388 5389 5390 5391 5392 5393 5394 5395 5396 5397 5398 5399 5400 5401 5402 5403 5404 5405 5406 5407 5408 5409 5410 5411 5412 5413 5414 5415 5416 5417 5418 5419 5420 5421 5422 5423 5424 5425 5426 5427 5428 5429 5430 5431 5432 5433 5434 5435 5436 5437 5438 5439 5440 5441 5442 5443 5444 5445 5446 5447 5448 5449 5450 5451 5452 5453 5454 5455 5456 5457 5458 5459 5460 5461 5462 5463 5464 5465 5466 5467 5468 5469 5470 5471 5472 5473 5474 5475 5476 5477 5478 5479 5480 5481 5482 5483 5484 5485 5486 5487 5488 5489 5490 5491 5492 5493 5494 5495 5496 5497 5498 5499 5500 5501 5502 5503 5504 5505 5506 5507 5508 5509 5510 5511 5512 5513 5514 5515 5516 5517 5518 5519 5520 5521 5522 5523 5524 5525 5526 5527 5528 5529 5530 5531 5532 5533 5534 5535 5536 5537 5538 5539 5540 5541 5542 5543 5544 5545 5546 5547 5548 5549 5550 5551 5552 5553 5554 5555 5556 5557 5558 5559 5560 5561 5562 5563 5564 5565 5566 5567 5568 5569 5570 5571 5572 5573 5574 5575 5576 5577 5578 5579 5580 5581 5582 5583 5584 5585 5586 5587 5588 5589 5590 5591 5592 5593 5594 5595 5596 5597 5598 5599 5600 5601 5602 5603 5604 5605 5606 5607 5608 5609 5610 5611 5612 5613 5614 5615 5616 5617 5618 5619 5620 5621 5622 5623 5624 5625 5626 5627 5628 5629 5630 5631 5632 5633 5634 5635 5636 5637 5638 5639 5640 5641 5642 5643 5644 5645 5646 5647 5648 5649 5650 5651 5652 5653 5654 5655 5656 5657 5658 5659 5660 5661 5662 5663 5664 5665 5666 5667 5668 5669 5670 5671 5672 5673 5674 5675 5676 5677 5678 5679 5680 5681 5682 5683 5684 5685 5686 5687 5688 5689 5690 5691 5692 5693 5694 5695 5696 5697 5698 5699 5700 5701 5702 5703 5704 5705 5706 5707 5708 5709 5710 5711 5712 5713 5714 5715 5716 5717 5718 5719 5720 5721 5722 5723 5724 5725 5726 5727 5728 5729 5730 5731 5732 5733 5734 5735 5736 5737 5738 5739 5740 5741
          "name":"心理健康"
        }
      ],
      "activityResponse": {
        "title": "",
        "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/course?params\u003d%7b%22url%22%3a%22https%3a%2f%2fm.ydl.com%2fcourse%2fDetail%2fv2%2f3639%22%7d",
        "imageUrl": "",
        "btnLinkurl": "",
        "imageBanner": "https://pic.ydlcdn.com/HFfHKt6tNj.png"
      }
    },
    "type": 10002
  },
  {
    "consultBean": {
      "pageNum": 1,
      "pageSize": 4,
      "size": 0,
      "startRow": 0,
      "endRow": 0,
      "pages": 194,
      "prePage": 0,
      "nextPage": 0,
      "isFirstPage": false,
      "isLastPage": false,
      "hasPreviousPage": false,
      "hasNextPage": false,
      "navigatePages": 0,
      "navigatepageNums": null,
      "navigateFirstPage": 0,
      "navigateLastPage": 0,
      "total": 580,
      "list": [
        {
          "doctorId": 7387,
          "uid": 1915807,
          "name": "钟媛媛",
          "head": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/05/fcbaad485ab54d0aa4593067fff274c9.jpg!s600x600",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F7387%3Fid%3D941%22%7D",
          "isOnline": 1,
          "abilityLevel": 0,
          "hasServiceFree": 2,
          "isNewEnter": false,
          "isTodayFree": true,
          "province": "江苏",
          "city": "苏州",
          "feedbackRate": 4.993,
          "zixunOrderNum": 3489,
          "minBookingPrice": 149,
          "teamCertifications": "三级心理咨询师",
          "tags": "性心理|恋爱婚姻|情绪压力",
          "famousRemark": "❤️和我说说那些不能同父母朋友说的话,10年心灵的探索,我会倾听你的心声,陪你一起度过这段特殊旅途!",
          "zixunOrderUser": 3535,
          "saleDurationForMonth": 139.5,
          "allSaleDuration": 2724.0833333333335,
          "products": [
            {
              "isPackage": 1,
              "name": "无论同性异性,帮你失恋修复,修复甜蜜情感"
            },
            {
              "isPackage": 1,
              "name": "解惑常规两性心理,重获“性”福生活!"
            }
          ],
          "tagsIcon": {
            "abilityLevelIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/hv6n2wz2rqrz7aey.png",
            "serviceFreeIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/qvrotxvuo81pkzfw.png",
            "newEnterIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/ai2hofqjpxd07ti5.png",
            "fightEpidemicIcon": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/02/15/2wlu33lffu3peq1v.png"
          },
          "inConsult": false,
          "isListening": false,
          "chatNum": 2,
          "chatBtnText": "",
          "activityImg": "",
          "joinActivity": null,
          "fightEpidemicIconShow": false
        },
        {
          "doctorId": 3125,
          "uid": 1166184,
          "name": "达粉会",
          "head": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/02/d6316a0a49d247518ba19fbdc2263779.png!s600x600",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F3125%3Fid%3D471%22%7D",
          "isOnline": 1,
          "abilityLevel": 0,
          "hasServiceFree": 0,
          "isNewEnter": false,
          "isTodayFree": true,
          "province": "陕西",
          "city": "西安",
          "feedbackRate": 4.999,
          "zixunOrderNum": 4322,
          "minBookingPrice": 400,
          "teamCertifications": "二级心理咨询师",
          "tags": "恋爱婚姻|青少年心理|亲子关系",
          "famousRemark": "或许您曾经多次的跌倒,或许您多次的折断过翅膀。在这里,有我温暖的呵护,细致的聆听,10年心理专业历程,2万多案例的积累,我会用专业的陪伴,和您一起找到真实的自我,不再迷茫。",
          "zixunOrderUser": 4385,
          "saleDurationForMonth": 181.5,
          "allSaleDuration": 4244.666666666667,
          "products": [
            {
              "isPackage": 2,
              "name": "【520定制】包月咨询:夫妻关系修复"
            }
          ],
          "tagsIcon": {
            "abilityLevelIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/hv6n2wz2rqrz7aey.png",
            "serviceFreeIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/qvrotxvuo81pkzfw.png",
            "newEnterIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/ai2hofqjpxd07ti5.png",
            "fightEpidemicIcon": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/02/15/2wlu33lffu3peq1v.png"
          },
          "inConsult": false,
          "isListening": false,
          "chatNum": 0,
          "chatBtnText": "",
          "activityImg": "https://pic.ydlcdn.com/CPRTwRHNKx.png",
          "joinActivity": true,
          "fightEpidemicIconShow": true
        },
        {
          "doctorId": 2045,
          "uid": 1039956,
          "name": "黄益寒",
          "head": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/02/ed5826c2259940d8b779af8442dbeb3c.png!s600x600",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F2045%3Fid%3D321%22%7D",
          "isOnline": 1,
          "abilityLevel": 0,
          "hasServiceFree": 0,
          "isNewEnter": false,
          "isTodayFree": true,
          "province": "浙江",
          "city": "温州",
          "feedbackRate": 5.000,
          "zixunOrderNum": 3033,
          "minBookingPrice": 260,
          "teamCertifications": "二级心理咨询师",
          "tags": "恋爱婚姻|情感挽回|技能督导",
          "famousRemark": "有人说,活着却不快乐,是一种罪。每个生命,本来都应该被这个世界温柔以待。我是咨询师黄益寒。如果您愿意,让我来倾听您的心声,理解您的烦恼,做那个最懂您的人,陪伴您走出风雨,笑迎彩虹。",
          "zixunOrderUser": 3279,
          "saleDurationForMonth": 125.5,
          "allSaleDuration": 2915.0833333333335,
          "products": [
            {
              "isPackage": 1,
              "name": "恋爱咨询,打破关系僵局"
            },
            {
              "isPackage": 1,
              "name": "【520定制】窈窕淑女,君子好逑"
            }
          ],
          "tagsIcon": {
            "abilityLevelIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/hv6n2wz2rqrz7aey.png",
            "serviceFreeIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/qvrotxvuo81pkzfw.png",
            "newEnterIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/ai2hofqjpxd07ti5.png",
            "fightEpidemicIcon": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/02/15/2wlu33lffu3peq1v.png"
          },
          "inConsult": false,
          "isListening": false,
          "chatNum": 0,
          "chatBtnText": "",
          "activityImg": "https://pic.ydlcdn.com/CPRTwRHNKx.png",
          "joinActivity": true,
          "fightEpidemicIconShow": true
        },
        {
          "doctorId": 4689,
          "uid": 13235,
          "name": "姚辉",
          "head": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/b567110658b44865958628598860824e.jpg!s600x600",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F4689%3Fid%3D568%22%7D",
          "isOnline": 1,
          "abilityLevel": 0,
          "hasServiceFree": 1,
          "isNewEnter": false,
          "isTodayFree": true,
          "province": "陕西",
          "city": "宝鸡",
          "feedbackRate": 4.998,
          "zixunOrderNum": 3445,
          "minBookingPrice": 108,
          "teamCertifications": " 二级心理咨询师",
          "tags": "恋爱婚姻|情绪压力|人际关系",
          "famousRemark": "心理咨询是一个重新发现自我的心路历程,你所有的期待,在这里,通过润物细无声的咨询,孕育出新芽,成就一个全然不同的你。",
          "zixunOrderUser": 4234,
          "saleDurationForMonth": 55.0,
          "allSaleDuration": 2721.0833333333335,
          "products": [
            {
              "isPackage": 1,
              "name": "提高情感技能异地恋情感保鲜改善情侣关系"
            },
            {
              "isPackage": 1,
              "name": "男同女同情感危机处理,性别烦躁解析"
            }
          ],
          "tagsIcon": {
            "abilityLevelIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/hv6n2wz2rqrz7aey.png",
            "serviceFreeIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/qvrotxvuo81pkzfw.png",
            "newEnterIcon": "https://img.yidianling.com/file/2019/04/07/ai2hofqjpxd07ti5.png",
            "fightEpidemicIcon": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/02/15/2wlu33lffu3peq1v.png"
          },
          "inConsult": false,
          "isListening": false,
          "chatNum": 0,
          "chatBtnText": "",
          "activityImg": "",
          "joinActivity": null,
          "fightEpidemicIconShow": false
        }
      ]
    },
    "headerBean": {
      "askCategoryData": [
        {
          "cateId": 1,
          "cateTitle": "恋爱咨询",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%83%85%E6%84%9F%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/lsb3h0t995xhvb8g.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 27,
          "cateTitle": "情绪压力",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D27%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/xyuxphp8gekqdd5p.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 23,
          "cateTitle": "亲子教育",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D23%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/xrqyf0axfa9l5d2u.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 1,
          "cateTitle": "婚姻咨询",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D27%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/4646o5l1325slpqo.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 25,
          "cateTitle": "人际交往",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D25%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/bu967is646xiu4rh.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 22,
          "cateTitle": "职业发展",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D22%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/wh3ew28wcrq56c9x.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 26,
          "cateTitle": "个人成长",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fcat%3D26%26%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/rin00b2d96c9ejyx.png"
        },
        {
          "cateId": 0,
          "cateTitle": "全部分类",
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fcates%22%7D",
          "coverUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/25/z1wj7sa8v77z8ybk.png"
        }
      ],
      "focusList": [
        {
          "focId": 18489,
          "imageIphonex": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/17/k8ahn92dn00pre2w.png",
          "imageUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/17/lwlmvv8il5itb5zf.png",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/h5?params=%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fzx%2Factivity%2Fdaka%22%7D",
          "shareData": {
            "title": "大咖频道",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/17/lwlmvv8il5itb5zf.png",
            "desc": "",
            "shareUrl": ""
          },
          "title": "大咖频道"
        },
        {
          "focId": 21678,
          "imageIphonex": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/21/4fdhtpcdcbgqh3zd.png",
          "imageUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/21/v7xuze4hu63whqf5.png",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/h5?params=%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fcourse%2FDetail%2Fv2%2F6273%22%7D",
          "shareData": {
            "title": "35天亲子训练营,做不头疼的家长",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/21/v7xuze4hu63whqf5.png",
            "desc": "",
            "shareUrl": "https://m.yidianling.com/course/6273"
          },
          "title": "35天亲子训练营,做不头疼的家长"
        },
        {
          "focId": 21486,
          "imageIphonex": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/10/pcihir5dlceyfb85.png",
          "imageUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/10/mb1krx00wcfkxcqq.png",
          "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/h5?params=%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fcourse%2FDetail%2Fv2%2F6157%22%7D",
          "shareData": {
            "title": "性格心理学:透析对方性格,解决相处问题",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/10/mb1krx00wcfkxcqq.png",
            "desc": "",
            "shareUrl": "https://m.yidianling.com/course/6157"
          },
          "title": "性格心理学:透析对方性格,解决相处问题"
        }
      ],
      "homeSaleData": [
        {
          "nickName": "晶**",
          "doctorName": "辛红芳",
          "doctorId": 1658,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F1658%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:52:50 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "",
          "doctorName": "时卫玲",
          "doctorId": 2984,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F2984%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:53:51 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "不**",
          "doctorName": "靖亚钦",
          "doctorId": 5258,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F5258%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:54:54 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "",
          "doctorName": "于冬梅",
          "doctorId": 12369,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F12369%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:56:07 PM"
        },
        {
          "nickName": "蔚**",
          "doctorName": "鲍道元",
          "doctorId": 9109,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fm.ydl.com%2Fexperts%2F9109%22%7D",
          "contentBefore": "刚刚",
          "contentAfter": "的电话倾诉",
          "createTime": "Dec 24, 2019 7:58:06 PM"
        }
      ],
      "keywordData": [
        {
          "id": 5,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%80%A7%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "性心理"
        },
        {
          "id": 2,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%8A%91%E9%83%81%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "抑郁"
        },
        {
          "id": 3,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E7%84%A6%E8%99%91%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "焦虑"
        },
        {
          "id": 4,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E5%A9%9A%E5%A7%BB%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "婚姻挽回"
        },
        {
          "id": 8,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%97%A9%E6%81%8B%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "早恋"
        },
        {
          "id": 6,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E5%90%8C%E6%80%A7%E6%81%8B%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "同性恋"
        },
        {
          "id": 7,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E5%87%BA%E8%BD%A8%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "出轨"
        },
        {
          "id": 1,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%81%8B%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "失恋"
        },
        {
          "id": 9,
          "url": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2Fsearch2%3Fsearch_word%3D%E6%83%85%E6%84%9F%E4%BF%AE%E5%A4%8D%26%22%7D",
          "keyword": "情感修复"
        }
      ],
      "listenCategoryDate": [
        {
          "id": 1,
          "name": "恋爱"
        },
        {
          "id": 2,
          "name": "婚姻家庭"
        },
        {
          "id": 3,
          "name": "陪聊治愈"
        },
        {
          "id": 4,
          "name": "情绪压力"
        },
        {
          "id": 5,
          "name": "亲子教育"
        },
        {
          "id": 7,
          "name": "职业"
        },
        {
          "id": 8,
          "name": "人际"
        },
        {
          "id": 9,
          "name": "个人成长"
        }
      ],
      "doctorName": "",
      "consultCategoryData": [
        {
          "id": 1,
          "name": "恋爱情感"
        },
        {
          "id": 452,
          "name": "婚姻家庭"
        },
        {
          "id": 23,
          "name": "亲子教育"
        },
        {
          "id": 25,
          "name": "人际关系"
        },
        {
          "id": 22,
          "name": "职业发展"
        },
        {
          "id": 26,
          "name": "个人成长"
        },
        {
          "id": 27,
          "name": "情绪压力"
        },
        {
          "id": 229,
          "name": "法律咨询"
        }
      ],
      "activityResponse": {
        "title": "",
        "linkUrl": "ydl-user://h5/course?params\u003d%7b%22url%22%3a%22https%3a%2f%2fm.ydl.com%2fcourse%2fDetail%2fv2%2f3639%22%7d",
        "imageUrl": "",
        "btnLinkurl": "",
        "imageBanner": "https://pic.ydlcdn.com/HFfHKt6tNj.png"
      }
    },
    "type": 10003
  },
  {
    "testListBean": [
      {
        "recommendLinkUrl": "ydl-zixun://ceshi/detail?params\u003d%7B%22id%22%3A2407%7D",
        "id": 2407,
        "name": "专业抑郁风险测评",
        "shareImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/25/a2wl72j4fu67abyd.jpg",
        "testNum": 2508956,
        "hits": 290,
        "countOfResult": 1474
      },
      {
        "recommendLinkUrl": "ydl-zixun://ceshi/detail?params\u003d%7B%22id%22%3A2288%7D",
        "id": 2288,
        "name": "专业抑郁测评",
        "shareImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/03/pqhj3ocgac8lrelq.jpg",
        "testNum": 2074735,
        "hits": 3338,
        "countOfResult": 26708
      },
      {
        "recommendLinkUrl": "ydl-zixun://ceshi/detail?params\u003d%7B%22id%22%3A2291%7D",
        "id": 2291,
        "name": "心理健康测评-SCL90专业版",
        "shareImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/24/7b7g96ydsg6h3q4e.jpg",
        "testNum": 3266850,
        "hits": 1062,
        "countOfResult": 8472
      },
      {
        "recommendLinkUrl": "ydl-zixun://ceshi/detail?params\u003d%7B%22id%22%3A2251%7D",
        "id": 2251,
        "name": "情商水平等级测试",
        "shareImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/23/b9hdor8z5v2m6bnd.jpg",
        "testNum": 1804485,
        "hits": 1870,
        "countOfResult": 6194
      },
      {
        "recommendLinkUrl": "ydl-zixun://ceshi/detail?params\u003d%7B%22id%22%3A2455%7D",
        "id": 2455,
        "name": "专业抑郁类型鉴别",
        "shareImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/21/wud21j074gf3ff2n.jpg",
        "testNum": 1807482,
        "hits": 214,
        "countOfResult": 926
      }
    ],
    "type": 10004
  },
  {
    "courseBean": {
      "pageNum": 1,
      "pageSize": 3,
      "size": 3,
      "startRow": 1,
      "endRow": 3,
      "pages": 29,
      "prePage": 0,
      "nextPage": 2,
      "isFirstPage": true,
      "isLastPage": false,
      "hasPreviousPage": false,
      "hasNextPage": true,
      "navigatePages": 8,
      "navigatepageNums": [
        1,
        2,
        3,
        4,
        5,
        6,
        7,
        8
      ],
      "navigateFirstPage": 1,
      "navigateLastPage": 8,
      "total": 86,
      "list": [
        {
          "shareData": {
            "title": "无需医生指导的自愈法:21天走出抑郁焦虑",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/06/ab6a5041skkr4lv1.png",
            "desc": "6+种疗愈方法,21天国际化系统的训练, 解决负面情绪带来的90%问题, 走出焦虑抑郁!",
            "shareUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/course/6465"
          },
          "id": 6465,
          "title": "无需医生指导的自愈法:21天走出抑郁焦虑",
          "pic": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/06/ab6a5041skkr4lv1.png",
          "hostListPic": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/01/0zl7xv8k7a0p0crr.jpg",
          "applyFee": 199.00,
          "originalApplyFee": 699.00,
          "promotionApplyFee": 198.00,
          "joinNum": 12679,
          "readNums": 73118,
          "commentNum": 0,
          "userCommentNum": 0,
          "subCourseNum": 21,
          "isPromotion": 2,
          "isInvite": 2,
          "hostUid": 1389154,
          "hostInfo": "牛津正念认知培训师,专注情绪管理10余年,国家二级心理咨询师",
          "doctorName": "何盈盈",
          "hostHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/01/oq33xp8jj960x2bk.jpg",
          "hostConfidedId": 0,
          "hostId": 17002,
          "hostName": "何盈盈",
          "courseHostInfo": {
            "doctorId": 17002,
            "doctorUid": 1389154,
            "doctorHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/01/oq33xp8jj960x2bk.jpg!s600x600",
            "doctorName": "何盈盈",
            "goodAt": "情绪管理",
            "thsNum": 0,
            "zixunOrderNum": 0,
            "listenOrderNum": 0,
            "serviceNum": 0,
            "fansNum": 7,
            "title": "牛津正念认知培训师",
            "feedbackRate": 0,
            "tag1": "",
            "tag2": "情绪管理",
            "askTotalTime": 1000,
            "helpLong": 0,
            "shareData": {
              "title": "何盈盈咨询工作室",
              "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/01/oq33xp8jj960x2bk.jpg!s120x120",
              "desc": "情绪管理",
              "shareUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/experts/17002"
            },
            "activityImg": "",
            "joinActivity": null
          },
          "isOpenChat": 1,
          "isOpenListen": 0,
          "isAvailable": 0,
          "isOpenConsult": 1,
          "chatLinkUri": "ydl-user://chat/private?params\u003d%7B%22toUid%22%3A1389154%2C%22userType%22%3A2%7D",
          "consultLinkUri": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2F17002%22%7D",
          "listenLinkUri": "https://h2.yidianling.com/listen/detail/0",
          "isShowHostButton": 0,
          "tags": [],
          "createTime": null,
          "courseStartTime": null,
          "isVirtual": 1,
          "courseType": 6,
          "recommend": 1,
          "newCourse": 2,
          "demoFile": "https://video.ydlcdn.com/2020/04/01/ac2e4bb4e3ac8e2f0eca41e2d49c8484.mp4",
          "demoType": 2,
          "isBuy": false,
          "activityImg": "",
          "joinActivity": null
        },
        {
          "shareData": {
            "title": "14天重塑你的安全感,让恋爱不再患得患失",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/26/kpw1mnwolb0o0zvq.jpg",
            "desc": "14天重塑你的安全感,让恋爱不再患得患失",
            "shareUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/course/6511"
          },
          "id": 6511,
          "title": "14天重塑你的安全感,让恋爱不再患得患失",
          "pic": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/26/kpw1mnwolb0o0zvq.jpg",
          "hostListPic": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/03/hckiv1u1i7axuic1.jpg",
          "applyFee": 78.00,
          "originalApplyFee": 99.00,
          "promotionApplyFee": 68.00,
          "joinNum": 11426,
          "readNums": 37942,
          "commentNum": 0,
          "userCommentNum": 0,
          "subCourseNum": 14,
          "isPromotion": 2,
          "isInvite": 2,
          "hostUid": 6798278,
          "hostInfo": "北京壹源理健康咨询中心创始人,波士顿心理治疗中心创始人",
          "doctorName": "陈婕君",
          "hostHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/03/w58pvlp9ia37lun5.jpg",
          "hostConfidedId": 0,
          "hostId": 17031,
          "hostName": "陈婕君",
          "courseHostInfo": {
            "doctorId": 17031,
            "doctorUid": 6798278,
            "doctorHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/03/w58pvlp9ia37lun5.jpg!s600x600",
            "doctorName": "陈婕君",
            "goodAt": "恋爱情感,婚姻家庭  ",
            "thsNum": 0,
            "zixunOrderNum": 0,
            "listenOrderNum": 0,
            "serviceNum": 0,
            "fansNum": 3,
            "title": "国家二级心理咨询师",
            "feedbackRate": 0,
            "tag1": "",
            "tag2": "              ",
            "askTotalTime": 1000,
            "helpLong": 0,
            "shareData": {
              "title": "陈婕君咨询工作室",
              "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/03/w58pvlp9ia37lun5.jpg!s120x120",
              "desc": "恋爱情感,婚姻家庭  ",
              "shareUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/experts/17031"
            },
            "activityImg": "",
            "joinActivity": null
          },
          "isOpenChat": 1,
          "isOpenListen": 0,
          "isAvailable": 0,
          "isOpenConsult": 1,
          "chatLinkUri": "ydl-user://chat/private?params\u003d%7B%22toUid%22%3A6798278%2C%22userType%22%3A2%7D",
          "consultLinkUri": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2F17031%22%7D",
          "listenLinkUri": "https://h2.yidianling.com/listen/detail/0",
          "isShowHostButton": 0,
          "tags": [],
          "createTime": null,
          "courseStartTime": null,
          "isVirtual": 1,
          "courseType": 6,
          "recommend": 1,
          "newCourse": 2,
          "demoFile": "https://video.ydlcdn.com/2020/04/03/2a354f02927a0f55d05c22aa60bd136d.mp3",
          "demoType": 1,
          "isBuy": false,
          "activityImg": "",
          "joinActivity": null
        },
        {
          "shareData": {
            "title": "18天走出自卑:告别讨好,活出自我",
            "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/12/g0lsy1e38ctgl1hb.jpg",
            "desc": "带你重新认识自我,活得不再心累!",
            "shareUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/course/6687"
          },
          "id": 6687,
          "title": "18天走出自卑:告别讨好,活出自我",
          "pic": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/12/g0lsy1e38ctgl1hb.jpg",
          "hostListPic": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/12/1bvcooeireu10lic.jpg",
          "applyFee": 78.00,
          "originalApplyFee": 168.00,
          "promotionApplyFee": 68.00,
          "joinNum": 3269,
          "readNums": 7343,
          "commentNum": 0,
          "userCommentNum": 0,
          "subCourseNum": 18,
          "isPromotion": 2,
          "isInvite": 0,
          "hostUid": 3900729,
          "hostInfo": "国家二级心理咨询师 7年心理咨询经验,4000+咨询时长",
          "doctorName": "黄君",
          "hostHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/06/27/0747e6214610a6c4ec989b2e761022a1.jpg",
          "hostConfidedId": 0,
          "hostId": 13256,
          "hostName": "黄君",
          "courseHostInfo": {
            "doctorId": 13256,
            "doctorUid": 3900729,
            "doctorHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/06/27/0747e6214610a6c4ec989b2e761022a1.jpg!s600x600",
            "doctorName": "黄君",
            "goodAt": "【恋爱心理】恋爱技巧、关系修复、安全感重建\r\n【个人成长】情绪管理、自卑焦虑、童年创伤\r\n【职场心理】工作迷茫、职业倦怠、压力调节",
            "thsNum": 0,
            "zixunOrderNum": 5,
            "listenOrderNum": 0,
            "serviceNum": 5,
            "fansNum": 4,
            "title": "二级心理咨询师",
            "feedbackRate": 100.000,
            "tag1": "",
            "tag2": "恋爱心理|个人成长|职业发展",
            "askTotalTime": 4000,
            "helpLong": 3,
            "shareData": {
              "title": "黄君咨询工作室",
              "cover": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/06/27/0747e6214610a6c4ec989b2e761022a1.jpg!s120x120",
              "desc": "【恋爱心理】恋爱技巧、关系修复、安全感重建\r\n【个人成长】情绪管理、自卑焦虑、童年创伤\r\n【职场心理】工作迷茫、职业倦怠、压力调节",
              "shareUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/experts/13256"
            },
            "activityImg": "",
            "joinActivity": null
          },
          "isOpenChat": 1,
          "isOpenListen": 0,
          "isAvailable": 0,
          "isOpenConsult": 1,
          "chatLinkUri": "ydl-user://chat/private?params\u003d%7B%22toUid%22%3A3900729%2C%22userType%22%3A2%7D",
          "consultLinkUri": "ydl-user://h5/consult?params\u003d%7B%22url%22%3A%22https%3A%2F%2Fh2.yidianling.com%2Fexperts%2F13256%22%7D",
          "listenLinkUri": "https://h2.yidianling.com/listen/detail/0",
          "isShowHostButton": 0,
          "tags": [],
          "createTime": null,
          "courseStartTime": null,
          "isVirtual": 1,
          "courseType": 6,
          "recommend": 1,
          "newCourse": 2,
          "demoFile": "https://video.ydlcdn.com/2020/05/12/453129123b73fe0b34441799165ccffb.mp3",
          "demoType": 1,
          "isBuy": false,
          "activityImg": "",
          "joinActivity": null
        }
      ]
    },
    "type": 10005
  },
  {
    "askBean": {
      "data": [
        {
          "id": 561882,
          "timeStr": "前天 11:22",
          "time_str": "前天 11:22",
          "timeDate": "May 19, 2020 11:22:25 AM",
          "hits": 324,
          "title": "【520,我的奇葩对象】—留言活动",
          "multitextType": 3,
          "topicId": 71,
          "replyCounter": 12,
          "extContent": "",
          "content": "明天就是520了,适合表白的日子\n在收到表白之前\n我先收到了闺蜜长达两个小时的男友吐槽电话\n \n从“不懂浪漫”开始\n讲到他卫生习惯差、乱丢袜子\n再讲到他上回铁石心肠\n吵完架就直接去睡了……\n \n她越说越气,越骂越伤心\n \n“那你分手呗。”\n \n“可是……”\n她愣了一下,说:\n\n “可是我爱他啊。”\n \n得,又吃了口狗粮\n \n了解对方的全部缺点\n却依旧深爱着\n这或许就是真爱的模样吧\n \n正如毛姆在《面纱》中所说:\n“我对你根本没抱幻想。我知道你愚蠢、轻佻、头脑空虚,然而我爱你。”\n \n最好的爱情\n就是纵使你有千百种毛病\n让我忍不住吐槽\n但是我依然爱你如初\n \n趁着即将到来的520\n不如就用吐槽的方式\n向你的另一半表白吧!\n \n参与方法:\n\n “虽然……,但是我爱你。”\n的句式留言\n例如:\n\n“虽然你每天回家倒头就睡,但是我爱你。”\n\n 优点也好,缺点也无妨\n我所爱的\n就是这样完整而真实的你",
          "uid": 7463159,
          "name": "小壹",
          "gender": 1,
          "askTag": "恋爱婚姻",
          "zanCount": 9,
          "avatar": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/08/c41645e625d6c70e6b069392f4b9aaa0..headImage",
          "header": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/08/c41645e625d6c70e6b069392f4b9aaa0..headImage",
          "commentsCount": 12,
          "topicTitle": "【520,我的奇葩对象】——留言活动",
          "isZan": 2,
          "visitCount": 324,
          "from": "来自iphone客户端",
          "smallAttach": [
            "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/19/9c78c35e16ebdbac4bc5d0c9995b876c..jpg"
          ],
          "bigAttach": [
            "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/19/9c78c35e16ebdbac4bc5d0c9995b876c..jpg"
          ],
          "utype": 2,
          "isAd": 0,
          "is_ad": 0,
          "url": "",
          "adImg": "",
          "focId": 0,
          "isFocused": 2,
          "share": null,
          "isSelf": 0,
          "comments": [
            {
              "name": "尤四海",
              "content": "虽然她小了我28岁,可是,我爱她!",
              "toName": "漫步人生",
              "to_name": "漫步人生",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/01/02/0gquqb73o7lq0y9q.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 13:56",
              "time_str": "前天 13:56",
              "toContent": "老师你认真的吗",
              "to_content": "老师你认真的吗",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445806,
              "uid": 2072572,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 3,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 9851,
              "doctor_id": 9851,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/9851?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "关押盒子ノ♡",
              "content": "520?我还单身呢~[doge][doge][doge][doge]",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/27/2c71db7a213ab87e3d3c540ab1c11011..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 13:43",
              "time_str": "前天 13:43",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445787,
              "uid": 4223468,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "北寒",
              "content": "虽然你天天工作忙的要死,很少陪我,但是我爱你。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/15/2a3cb83b6503093aa21d75f93e981d16..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 16:51",
              "time_str": "前天 16:51",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446021,
              "uid": 6512917,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "末蓝",
              "content": "520,我爱你,陪伴你一生一世。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/15/e87bf0f0fac0860499d2ef8808ece17c..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 11:53",
              "time_str": "前天 11:53",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445696,
              "uid": 3677737,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "董海燕",
              "content": "相信您来这个平台,是希望得到帮助,改善当前状况,您确信需要帮助的话,联系我,我会帮助您梳理分析并提供方案,可以点击我的头像或者我主页的顶部的立即预约按钮,进行预约申请,关注我,随时联系,用心理解,用爱倾听,我在这里等着您:)",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/05z8ml0azp3uzlvr.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 11:28",
              "time_str": "前天 11:28",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445651,
              "uid": 5596001,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16898,
              "doctor_id": 16898,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16898?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "淡水居士",
              "content": "虽然 你我还在人人茫海中,还没有相遇,但是我爱你。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/11/9584aed348a8fa3a3175f0387e1cd6fa..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "今天 00:48",
              "time_str": "今天 00:48",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447686,
              "uid": 2021640,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "尤四海",
              "content": "相当认真呀,不是奇葩的对象吗?",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/01/02/0gquqb73o7lq0y9q.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 07:26",
              "time_str": "昨天 07:26",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446597,
              "uid": 2072572,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 9851,
              "doctor_id": 9851,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/9851?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "ydl**********146",
              "content": "520发520钱怎么说",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2016/11/11/a3vtt0qscbsuxkfm.png",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 21:10",
              "time_str": "前天 21:10",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446269,
              "uid": 7760262,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 0,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "漫步人生",
              "content": "老师你认真的吗",
              "toName": "尤四海",
              "to_name": "尤四海",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/18/e1c146be2b8d76118bf995d983202e2a..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 07:25",
              "time_str": "昨天 07:25",
              "toContent": "相当认真呀,不是奇葩的对象吗?",
              "to_content": "相当认真呀,不是奇葩的对象吗?",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446595,
              "uid": 7534056,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "末蓝",
              "content": "年龄不是问题。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/15/e87bf0f0fac0860499d2ef8808ece17c..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 13:22",
              "time_str": "昨天 13:22",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446960,
              "uid": 3677737,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "ydl**********399",
              "content": "送你一副耳环",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2016/11/11/a3vtt0qscbsuxkfm.png",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 22:19",
              "time_str": "昨天 22:19",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447568,
              "uid": 7765850,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 0,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "ydl**********087",
              "content": "雲瓜",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/17/cc1426f003207601444354ea5ddc5ea1..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 19:36",
              "time_str": "昨天 19:36",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447376,
              "uid": 7711975,
              "askId": 561882,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            }
          ],
          "ext": null
        },
        {
          "id": 559646,
          "timeStr": "5-13 18:51",
          "time_str": "5-13 18:51",
          "timeDate": "May 13, 2020 6:51:15 PM",
          "hits": 424,
          "title": "请问每逢身体不舒服,就出现心理问题怎么改变呢?",
          "multitextType": 1,
          "topicId": 44,
          "replyCounter": 57,
          "extContent": "",
          "content": "从小是个乖孩子,不敢向父母提任何要求\n从小跟着父母干农活,从来没有出去玩的时候,他们也没有休息的时候。\n周围很多邻居,说我听话,老实;\n我只是不敢反抗父母而已\n从记事起重来没有找他",
          "uid": 7251597,
          "name": "彭俊",
          "gender": 1,
          "askTag": "恋爱婚姻",
          "zanCount": 13,
          "avatar": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage",
          "header": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage",
          "commentsCount": 57,
          "topicTitle": "今日打卡",
          "isZan": 2,
          "visitCount": 424,
          "from": "来自iphone客户端",
          "smallAttach": [],
          "bigAttach": [],
          "utype": 2,
          "isAd": 0,
          "is_ad": 0,
          "url": "",
          "adImg": "",
          "focId": 0,
          "isFocused": 2,
          "share": null,
          "isSelf": 0,
          "comments": [
            {
              "name": "唐魁位",
              "content": "从你的文字中我可以看到你非常喜欢在修仙或玄学等小说文学中去宣泄自己的一些情绪,但是这种宣泄带来的快感是短暂的,这可能难以解决你目前所面对的现实中的问题,这也是难以让自己收获更加长久轻松的原因——意识界用时多了,对现实界关注就会变少,现实问题堆积的越多,压力也就越大。\n       我在思考回答您的第二问题是否可以得到2元的打赏,当然我会认真回复你的问题。\n       看到你的家庭,我不由自主的想起了,当年我爷爷,在我小时候也是这样一板一眼的教育我,比如:“站如松,坐如钟”、“食不言寝不语”等等。然后,因为不听话,不喜欢这样的教育模式,童年调皮如我,没少挨揍。\n\n曾几何时,我也对这样的方式产生了怀疑,看似“循规蹈矩、四平八稳”的生活,真的会很好吗?\n\n甚至,这种“四平八稳”的行为,在现实中比比皆是,比如新生入学的军训,部队豆腐块的被子。这些,都是不好的?都只能给我们的生活带来阴影嘛?\n\n事实并不是如此,而是我们自己在成年之后,面对现实的压力,内心无力感释放出来的时候,往往退行成一个孩子,去怪罪身边的人,那么,这个身边的人,绝大多数就是——“原生家庭”。\n\n没有人的原生家庭是十全十美的,也没有一个教育方式是十全十美的。\n\n带着不完美进入人生,就不能创造美好的将来么?答案自然是否定的,太多的励志故事,和屌丝逆袭的例子说明了,丑小鸭也可以成为天鹅,关键在于有没有毅力和坚持。\n\n记得,有这样一句话,“所有的心理问题都是财富”。是的,只不过,不是所有的人,都能拥有把心理问题变成财富的能力罢了。\n\n如果你需要改变,也渴望改变,也能坚持改变,那么,为什么不找咨询师来帮助你,实现这个华丽的转身呢?唐老师在这里等着你……",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/11/19/w3mafr0a7bkmkhpi.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 09:48",
              "time_str": "前天 09:48",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445545,
              "uid": 2772320,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 12857,
              "doctor_id": 12857,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/12857?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "首先多谢老师打这么多字\n每个人原生家庭情况都不一样\n简单来说,我从小养成了内向,敏感,自卑,老实,木讷,懦弱的性格\n我不怪罪我的父母,而是他们本身就有自我中心,抑郁,焦虑,情绪不稳,等等问题。\n在农村,一些父母对性格懦弱的男孩,容纳度真的很小;这并不是一个教育方式的问题,我有恨他们的资格。\n最后我现在走在正确的路上,只是身体不好的时候会出现波动而已。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 10:42",
              "time_str": "前天 10:42",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445601,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "谢谢大家的关怀,我今天已经好多了,人真是一种奇怪的东西,即使昨天经历多大的事,第二天还是照常生活了",
              "toName": "王兴永",
              "to_name": "王兴永",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-14 08:41",
              "time_str": "5-14 08:41",
              "toContent": "为你高兴,因为看到了你的反思与成长和接纳现实。",
              "to_content": "为你高兴,因为看到了你的反思与成长和接纳现实。",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438497,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "最不想听的就是懂事了[捂脸]以后绝不让我孩子太懂事了[大哭]",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:51",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:51",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437988,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "赵文嘉",
              "content": "您好,我是壹点灵平台入驻中级心理咨询师,国家婚姻家庭中级心理咨询师,赵老师。\n通过您的讲述,我大概了解了您目前面对的问题。在这里我先简单说一下我的想法,希望能对您有所帮助。\n我特别理解你的感受,因为我以前也跟你类似,不敢跟父母要求什么,不敢反抗他们。我为了可以不用跟他们提要求就能自己过的好,不学习了各种知识,很多甚至是偷着学的,还怕他们不理解说我是白做工。不过事实是我学有所得,有了成绩,他们自然改变了他们的态度,或者说他们本来就没有我想象的那么“恶霸”,是我把他们看的恐怖了。\n所以,你要做的,是先让自己变好,不要过多的在意生病这件事,心里压力大格外容易生病,试着把它看轻一些。\n\n以上是我的角度的看法,感谢您对我的信任。如果能对您的问题有所帮助那是最好不过得了,如果您还有疑虑或是想法,欢迎来电讨论,我会和您一起找到解决问题的最佳方法。",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/01/08/zvaa44nhlzvdtxxy.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 20:08",
              "time_str": "5-13 20:08",
              "toContent": "我也是这样,考上高中以后,他们就开始改变对我的看法了,只是忘不了童年的伤痛,没没生病都会孤单无助,生病之后还不向任何人寻求帮助(主要指父母),我大概真的想以后死的时候一个人吧,不希望任何人在身边。",
              "to_content": "我也是这样,考上高中以后,他们就开始改变对我的看法了,只是忘不了童年的伤痛,没没生病都会孤单无助,生病之后还不向任何人寻求帮助(主要指父母),我大概真的想以后死的时候一个人吧,不希望任何人在身边。",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438004,
              "uid": 2702810,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14489,
              "doctor_id": 14489,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14489?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "洪祖宝",
              "content": "您好!我是壹点灵心理咨询师洪祖宝。\n理解你现在的心情!你希望改变,\n这才是最重要的心理动力!\n\n失去力量是因为家庭生活中,\n爱的表达不够细腻,缺乏流动,\n这是中国普通家庭的常态,\n但并不是没有爱。其实听话老实的\n另一面是倔强和困惑。\n\n1、运动会帮助你找回力量,建议\n跑步或参加各类体育运动。\n2、学习基础课程外,多学习社会类\n学科,参加社会实践。有机会可以\n做些义工,参加一些公益活动。\n3、敏感的人可以自学一技之长,\n比如自学中医养生、心理学、文学等。\n需要可以咨询我,祝福!",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/02/98ff9cc0f51835aed1d7e3d3d22a8350..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 17:25",
              "time_str": "前天 17:25",
              "toContent": "谢谢老师",
              "to_content": "谢谢老师",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446060,
              "uid": 5980035,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16148,
              "doctor_id": 16148,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16148?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "关珩",
              "content": "你好,要有一个积极的心态,尝试着通过自我调节来处理情绪。\n首先,多到大自然中放松自己,调节自己的心态,多去所谓的旅游,不一定坐车出远门,比如公园,锻炼场,参加个培训班,学习一门技能或语言,主要目的就在和大家一起参与学习时候来提高自己的群体中的自我意识和他群认知度,给生活定个目标,朝着目标全力以赴达到忘我,就会放松心情了。\n再就是不断学习相关的知识,并且把知识运用到工作和生活当中去,形成自己的实践经验。还要去学习一些有关情绪控制或情商管理方面的知识,提高对自己情绪的控制能力。",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/01/14/e1fc6015bd491e1a657a178ec1229f34..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 16:57",
              "time_str": "昨天 16:57",
              "toContent": "谢谢老师",
              "to_content": "谢谢老师",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447170,
              "uid": 2128295,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 15927,
              "doctor_id": 15927,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/15927?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "马艳华",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师马艳华\n            你的描述中,看到从小你就受到家庭影响,奶奶和妈妈吵架,你是个乖孩子,不敢提出任何要求,不被周围人认可,性格懦弱,内向,敏感。是呀,这样的家庭让你活的好累呀。\n现在想要改变自己的性格?你多大啦?\n这些都可以慢慢改变的。让自己自信,阳光。\n希望我的回答能够帮助到你,如有疑问可以私聊我哈。",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/28/pshdrm9v06f9vorj.png",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 18:26",
              "time_str": "前天 18:26",
              "toContent": "谢谢老师,我27岁了\n这几年开始上班之后已经开始改变了,不过也急不得",
              "to_content": "谢谢老师,我27岁了\n这几年开始上班之后已经开始改变了,不过也急不得",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446114,
              "uid": 3581903,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14560,
              "doctor_id": 14560,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14560?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "刘爱军",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵中级心理咨询师刘爱军。\n人生在世,十有八九不如意,该怎么面对,这也是老生常谈的话题。正确的的认识自己,才是解读问题的根源,改变的不是自己的本质,而是面对世界面对人生的态度,爱自己才能爱别人。经常性的总结,梳理阶段目标和长远目标,把焦虑变成动力,助推自己的成长,相信自己是有力量也是有能力在人生路途上,实现完美,创造未来。",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/26/s0o9l060n34d306j.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 21:43",
              "time_str": "前天 21:43",
              "toContent": "谢谢",
              "to_content": "谢谢",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446289,
              "uid": 5521762,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16739,
              "doctor_id": 16739,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16739?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "洪祖宝",
              "content": "没有爱的父母,他们从小也没有得到爱,对爱他们几乎不懂。也因为这样,他们的生活很受苦。你生活在这样的家庭,领受不到爱,因此对爱失望,对父母失望。但你是懂得爱的人,爱父母,看见他们不懂爱而产生的受苦,送爱给他们,将祝福给他们,这也是你来到这个家庭的意义之一。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/02/98ff9cc0f51835aed1d7e3d3d22a8350..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 18:48",
              "time_str": "前天 18:48",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446137,
              "uid": 5980035,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16148,
              "doctor_id": 16148,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16148?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "说孩子懂事是说孩子会为别人着想啊,这难道不令人痛苦吗?\n想买糖果,懂事可以吗?大人生活不易\n想要被爱,懂事可以吗,大人累死累活的。\n想要出去玩,懂事可以吗,大人都从没有休息。\n一句懂事就可以让孩子什么也不要,什么都忍着,痛苦\n还有比这残酷的酷刑吗",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 22:16",
              "time_str": "5-13 22:16",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438174,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "你出生在这个家庭,有考虑过你的想法吗?\n你上学,工作有考虑过你的想法吗?\n你必须遵守法律、按准则办事,有考虑过你的想法吗?\n你对别人好也罢,坏也罢,看别人美丑,善恶。不都是你自己的想法吗?\n人不为己 天诛地灭,去考虑别人想法的全都没有好下场。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 16:21",
              "time_str": "5-15 16:21",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3441088,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "董海燕",
              "content": "相信您来这个平台,是希望得到帮助,改善当前状况,您确信需要帮助的话,联系我,我会帮助您梳理分析并提供方案,可以点击我的头像或者我主页的顶部的立即预约按钮,进行预约申请,关注我,随时联系,用心理解,用爱倾听,我在这里等着您:)",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/05z8ml0azp3uzlvr.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 11:31",
              "time_str": "前天 11:31",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445670,
              "uid": 5596001,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16898,
              "doctor_id": 16898,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16898?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "我也是这样,考上高中以后,他们就开始改变对我的看法了,只是忘不了童年的伤痛,没没生病都会孤单无助,生病之后还不向任何人寻求帮助(主要指父母),我大概真的想以后死的时候一个人吧,不希望任何人在身边。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 20:14",
              "time_str": "5-13 20:14",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438010,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "小的他们是真的不爱我\n我奶奶倒是很爱我,我妈是天天跟奶奶吵架,要死要活的那种程度。\n再加上我小时候,老实本分,一点不讨人喜欢,体弱多病。一直有鼻炎,他们会爱我就见鬼了。",
              "toName": "洪祖宝",
              "to_name": "洪祖宝",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 17:56",
              "time_str": "前天 17:56",
              "toContent": "没有爱的父母,他们从小也没有得到爱,对爱他们几乎不懂。也因为这样,他们的生活很受苦。你生活在这样的家庭,领受不到爱,因此对爱失望,对父母失望。但你是懂得爱的人,爱父母,看见他们不懂爱而产生的受苦,送爱给他们,将祝福给他们,这也是你来到这个家庭的意义之一。",
              "to_content": "没有爱的父母,他们从小也没有得到爱,对爱他们几乎不懂。也因为这样,他们的生活很受苦。你生活在这样的家庭,领受不到爱,因此对爱失望,对父母失望。但你是懂得爱的人,爱父母,看见他们不懂爱而产生的受苦,送爱给他们,将祝福给他们,这也是你来到这个家庭的意义之一。",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446089,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "陈雁夏",
              "content": "觉察是改变的开始。你从小压抑自己,需求呗否定,积累了大量的负能量,现在还能积极求助,这证明你很有韧性。改变不是一朝一夕,先从自我接纳开始。爱每一个状态下的你。",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2017/06/16/omcss5tk0mc6qv1y.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:02",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:02",
              "toContent": "谢谢你",
              "to_content": "谢谢你",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437888,
              "uid": 1261871,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 3747,
              "doctor_id": 3747,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/3747?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "以前的答案就是不断的努力,试图让周围的人肯定,让父母肯定自己,而通过努力成了村里第一个大学生。\n只是身体一不舒服,就感觉什么都没有意义了",
              "toName": "尤四海",
              "to_name": "尤四海",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:08",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:08",
              "toContent": "那么想想得到了别人的认可之后,下一个目标是什么呢?健康,名誉,还是什么重要的事情!",
              "to_content": "那么想想得到了别人的认可之后,下一个目标是什么呢?健康,名誉,还是什么重要的事情!",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437910,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "陈雁夏",
              "content": "给自己满满的爱的滋养,就像养一个孩子一样重新养育自己,给予自己爱和自由,关怀自己的需求,不要去评价,相信你的内在力量会慢慢回来。",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2017/06/16/omcss5tk0mc6qv1y.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:08",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:08",
              "toContent": "嗯",
              "to_content": "嗯",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437911,
              "uid": 1261871,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 3747,
              "doctor_id": 3747,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/3747?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "其实早就有答案了,我努力也是为了自己,我所有的目标/决定都是自己做的。\n只是依旧放不下那个自己而已[大哭]",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:46",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:46",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437980,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "董文娟",
              "content": "可以尝试慢慢的从内在去建立更多的自我认同感。内向敏感是应对环境的一种方式,应对方式是可以慢慢调整的。",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/30/11b6245699fea768b8892b0b5fffce96.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 20:02",
              "time_str": "5-18 20:02",
              "toContent": "[OK]",
              "to_content": "[OK]",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445062,
              "uid": 5918845,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 17497,
              "doctor_id": 17497,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/17497?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "张亚兰",
              "content": "非常能理解,懂事听话不找麻烦,不敢提要求,内心是委屈的,长期如此肯定会有很多心理问题,欢迎私聊",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/11/14d9a9271d5544f08469a18a66642f69.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 18:58",
              "time_str": "5-13 18:58",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437880,
              "uid": 1770288,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 6609,
              "doctor_id": 6609,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/6609?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "不晓得,小时候发生的事情也改变不了。\n我一直一个人努力,有时候累了,想问自己为什么[大哭]",
              "toName": "尤四海",
              "to_name": "尤四海",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:02",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:02",
              "toContent": "有过答案吗?",
              "to_content": "有过答案吗?",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437890,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "一个孩子受了最大的冤屈,然后还不让他说出来;\n恐怕,就是至善之人受到至恶的对待也不过如此了",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 22:29",
              "time_str": "5-13 22:29",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438192,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "张学静",
              "content": "您好,听了您的经历,真令人心疼。现在开始,好好爱自己,有对父母渴望,就大胆说出来,加油",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/06/05/z5uydjprae13ro9m.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:40",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:40",
              "toContent": "谢谢",
              "to_content": "谢谢",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437963,
              "uid": 1962330,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 11146,
              "doctor_id": 11146,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/11146?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "你不知道人类有多么渺小么,就跟一窝蚂蚁,你一脚踩了就踩了,还在乎它们的命运吗?笑死我了",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-14 07:58",
              "time_str": "5-14 07:58",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438460,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "尤四海",
              "content": "那么想想得到了别人的认可之后,下一个目标是什么呢?健康,名誉,还是什么重要的事情!",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/01/02/0gquqb73o7lq0y9q.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:36",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:36",
              "toContent": "其实早就有答案了,我努力也是为了自己,我所有的目标/决定都是自己做的。\n只是依旧放不下那个自己而已[大哭]",
              "to_content": "其实早就有答案了,我努力也是为了自己,我所有的目标/决定都是自己做的。\n只是依旧放不下那个自己而已[大哭]",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437958,
              "uid": 2072572,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 9851,
              "doctor_id": 9851,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/9851?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "宋淑英",
              "content": "从你的一一回复咨询师过程中,看出你是个认真懂感恩想改变的孩子。。。自己优点不少",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/08/12/72s3e921p88pxmb9.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:49",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:49",
              "toContent": "最不想听的就是懂事了[捂脸]以后绝不让我孩子太懂事了[大哭]",
              "to_content": "最不想听的就是懂事了[捂脸]以后绝不让我孩子太懂事了[大哭]",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437986,
              "uid": 2884492,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 11893,
              "doctor_id": 11893,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/11893?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "根据墨菲定律,世界总会毁灭吧,与其别人来毁灭,还不如毁灭在我的手中[奸笑]",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-17 11:10",
              "time_str": "5-17 11:10",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3443147,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "你怎么知道毁灭世界不是善举呢,对于人就像灾难一样又不会体会到什么痛苦",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 20:35",
              "time_str": "5-13 20:35",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438049,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "谢谢老师,我27岁了\n这几年开始上班之后已经开始改变了,不过也急不得",
              "toName": "马艳华",
              "to_name": "马艳华",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 20:51",
              "time_str": "前天 20:51",
              "toContent": "你可以私聊我哈",
              "to_content": "你可以私聊我哈",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446251,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "寂",
              "content": "痛苦的只是个别的,大多数还是蛮好的,没有人有权利主宰别人的命运",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/30/32abdf4380b7e9f6d54b6b8f17b83e21..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-14 06:25",
              "time_str": "5-14 06:25",
              "toContent": "你不知道人类有多么渺小么,就跟一窝蚂蚁,你一脚踩了就踩了,还在乎它们的命运吗?笑死我了",
              "to_content": "你不知道人类有多么渺小么,就跟一窝蚂蚁,你一脚踩了就踩了,还在乎它们的命运吗?笑死我了",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438413,
              "uid": 3911743,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "寂",
              "content": "[捂脸][捂脸][捂脸]社会在不断的进步,谁人能全知全能,",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/30/32abdf4380b7e9f6d54b6b8f17b83e21..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 20:30",
              "time_str": "5-13 20:30",
              "toContent": "神才能,佛祖也能。世界再怎么变也只是这个世界",
              "to_content": "神才能,佛祖也能。世界再怎么变也只是这个世界",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438038,
              "uid": 3911743,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "超度(踩死)蚂蚁,就是送它到三千大千极乐世界,就是慈悲",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-14 19:24",
              "time_str": "5-14 19:24",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3439464,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "王兴永",
              "content": "为你高兴,因为看到了你的反思与成长和接纳现实。",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/07/13/vme9ammcnc0d38lz.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 17:04",
              "time_str": "5-18 17:04",
              "toContent": "嗯,谢谢",
              "to_content": "嗯,谢谢",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3444859,
              "uid": 1506930,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 5304,
              "doctor_id": 5304,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/5304?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "神才能,佛祖也能。世界再怎么变也只是这个世界",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 20:32",
              "time_str": "5-13 20:32",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438042,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "听说黑化能治我这个病,想找个恶人拜师",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 22:44",
              "time_str": "5-13 22:44",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438221,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "寂",
              "content": "那是你的想法,你有考虑过蚂蚁的想法吗",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/30/32abdf4380b7e9f6d54b6b8f17b83e21..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 16:14",
              "time_str": "5-15 16:14",
              "toContent": "你出生在这个家庭,有考虑过你的想法吗?\n你上学,工作有考虑过你的想法吗?\n你必须遵守法律、按准则办事,有考虑过你的想法吗?\n你对别人好也罢,坏也罢,看别人美丑,善恶。不都是你自己的想法吗?\n人不为己 天诛地灭,去考虑别人想法的全都没有好下场。",
              "to_content": "你出生在这个家庭,有考虑过你的想法吗?\n你上学,工作有考虑过你的想法吗?\n你必须遵守法律、按准则办事,有考虑过你的想法吗?\n你对别人好也罢,坏也罢,看别人美丑,善恶。不都是你自己的想法吗?\n人不为己 天诛地灭,去考虑别人想法的全都没有好下场。",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3441080,
              "uid": 3911743,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "哈哈,那只是你所理解的偏激和专牛角尖",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-17 11:04",
              "time_str": "5-17 11:04",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3443138,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "寂",
              "content": "你得想法太偏激了,专牛角尖了哦,",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/30/32abdf4380b7e9f6d54b6b8f17b83e21..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-17 10:45",
              "time_str": "5-17 10:45",
              "toContent": "哈哈,那只是你所理解的偏激和专牛角尖",
              "to_content": "哈哈,那只是你所理解的偏激和专牛角尖",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3443122,
              "uid": 3911743,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "谢晓雪",
              "content": "改变,从认识开始,并付诸行动",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2018/12/24/ir1l3mmqkerwa2mk.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:01",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:01",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437887,
              "uid": 2707252,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 10823,
              "doctor_id": 10823,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/10823?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "寂",
              "content": "全真全善,又怎么去毁灭地球",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/30/32abdf4380b7e9f6d54b6b8f17b83e21..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 20:31",
              "time_str": "5-13 20:31",
              "toContent": "你怎么知道毁灭世界不是善举呢,对于人就像灾难一样又不会体会到什么痛苦",
              "to_content": "你怎么知道毁灭世界不是善举呢,对于人就像灾难一样又不会体会到什么痛苦",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438039,
              "uid": 3911743,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "寂",
              "content": "蝼蚁也是生命,佛的慈悲呢",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/30/32abdf4380b7e9f6d54b6b8f17b83e21..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-14 19:19",
              "time_str": "5-14 19:19",
              "toContent": "超度(踩死)蚂蚁,就是送它到三千大千极乐世界,就是慈悲",
              "to_content": "超度(踩死)蚂蚁,就是送它到三千大千极乐世界,就是慈悲",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3439460,
              "uid": 3911743,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "尤四海",
              "content": "你好!需要哪些改变呢?",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/01/02/0gquqb73o7lq0y9q.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 18:58",
              "time_str": "5-13 18:58",
              "toContent": "不晓得,小时候发生的事情也改变不了。\n我一直一个人努力,有时候累了,想问自己为什么[大哭]",
              "to_content": "不晓得,小时候发生的事情也改变不了。\n我一直一个人努力,有时候累了,想问自己为什么[大哭]",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437879,
              "uid": 2072572,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 9851,
              "doctor_id": 9851,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/9851?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "变成神,毁灭这个世界",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 20:15",
              "time_str": "5-13 20:15",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438012,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "全知全能和全真全善",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 20:19",
              "time_str": "5-13 20:19",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438021,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "寂",
              "content": "那,什么是神呢",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/30/32abdf4380b7e9f6d54b6b8f17b83e21..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 20:17",
              "time_str": "5-13 20:17",
              "toContent": "全知全能和全真全善",
              "to_content": "全知全能和全真全善",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438017,
              "uid": 3911743,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "马艳华",
              "content": "你可以私聊我哈",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/28/pshdrm9v06f9vorj.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 20:54",
              "time_str": "前天 20:54",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446253,
              "uid": 3581903,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14560,
              "doctor_id": 14560,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14560?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "尤四海",
              "content": "有过答案吗?",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/01/02/0gquqb73o7lq0y9q.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:04",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:04",
              "toContent": "以前的答案就是不断的努力,试图让周围的人肯定,让父母肯定自己,而通过努力成了村里第一个大学生。\n只是身体一不舒服,就感觉什么都没有意义了",
              "to_content": "以前的答案就是不断的努力,试图让周围的人肯定,让父母肯定自己,而通过努力成了村里第一个大学生。\n只是身体一不舒服,就感觉什么都没有意义了",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437894,
              "uid": 2072572,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 9851,
              "doctor_id": 9851,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/9851?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "寂",
              "content": "你想变成啥",
              "toName": "彭俊",
              "to_name": "彭俊",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/30/32abdf4380b7e9f6d54b6b8f17b83e21..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 20:08",
              "time_str": "5-13 20:08",
              "toContent": "变成神,毁灭这个世界",
              "to_content": "变成神,毁灭这个世界",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3438005,
              "uid": 3911743,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "嗯,谢谢",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 09:21",
              "time_str": "前天 09:21",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445489,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "[OK]",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 09:25",
              "time_str": "前天 09:25",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445507,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "谢谢老师",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 17:50",
              "time_str": "前天 17:50",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446086,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "谢谢老师",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 18:50",
              "time_str": "昨天 18:50",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447313,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "谢谢你",
              "toName": "陈雁夏",
              "to_name": "陈雁夏",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:04",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:04",
              "toContent": "给自己满满的爱的滋养,就像养一个孩子一样重新养育自己,给予自己爱和自由,关怀自己的需求,不要去评价,相信你的内在力量会慢慢回来。",
              "to_content": "给自己满满的爱的滋养,就像养一个孩子一样重新养育自己,给予自己爱和自由,关怀自己的需求,不要去评价,相信你的内在力量会慢慢回来。",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437896,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "谢谢",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:42",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:42",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437972,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "谢谢",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/14/1b6229740e1ff3fd9fd49409d48ecf44..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 18:51",
              "time_str": "昨天 18:51",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447315,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "彭俊",
              "content": "嗯",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/26258d3e664a9795afdcd7a99a02e263..headImage!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 19:13",
              "time_str": "5-13 19:13",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437918,
              "uid": 7251597,
              "askId": 559646,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            }
          ],
          "ext": null
        },
        {
          "id": 559151,
          "timeStr": "5-12 07:51",
          "time_str": "5-12 07:51",
          "timeDate": "May 12, 2020 7:51:51 AM",
          "hits": 466,
          "title": "讨好型人格改怎么改掉",
          "multitextType": 1,
          "topicId": 44,
          "replyCounter": 26,
          "extContent": "",
          "content": "我最近发现我会特别在意一些人的感受,\n尤其是父母,朋友或者是前任或者是现任,\n我很容易就会被他们语言控制,精神控制,有时候我会觉得他们是一帮人渣\n我会从语言思想行为上本能得去讨好他",
          "uid": 7534056,
          "name": "漫步人生",
          "gender": 1,
          "askTag": "恋爱婚姻",
          "zanCount": 19,
          "avatar": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/18/e1c146be2b8d76118bf995d983202e2a..jpg",
          "header": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/18/e1c146be2b8d76118bf995d983202e2a..jpg",
          "commentsCount": 26,
          "topicTitle": "今日打卡",
          "isZan": 2,
          "visitCount": 466,
          "from": "来自Android客户端",
          "smallAttach": [],
          "bigAttach": [],
          "utype": 2,
          "isAd": 0,
          "is_ad": 0,
          "url": "",
          "adImg": "",
          "focId": 0,
          "isFocused": 2,
          "share": null,
          "isSelf": 0,
          "comments": [
            {
              "name": "赵婷",
              "content": "您好,我是壹点灵平台的咨询师,赵婷。\n讨好型人格是一味委曲求全,以低自尊的姿态一味满足别人各种无理要求。\n\n别人拒绝你时轻描淡写;而你拒绝别人的时候;感觉自己犯了天大的错。\n\n错误心理逻辑\n\n(1)对别人的感受特别敏感\n\n特别在意别人对自己的看法,生怕自己做了什么别人会不喜欢,越重视对方,越会担心,导致做任何事情都小心翼翼,一个小错误也会懊恼很久;\n\n(2)抬高别人,贬低自己\n\n没有主见,别人说吃什么就吃什么,别人说玩什么就玩儿什么,自己的举动建立在别人的评价之上,很怕被嫌弃,降低自己心里才更安全;\n\n(3)不敢发出请求,很难拒绝别人\n\n害怕说不,不懂拒绝,被人占了便宜也会选择默不作声,担心一旦拒绝,与别人的关系就会破裂,从来不敢表达自己的需求,很怕给别人添麻烦,担心自己成为别人的负担;\n\n(4)缺乏界限和原则\n\n做任何事情都以取悦别人为目的,既守不住界限,允许别人在自己的生活里指手画脚,又经常突破别人的界限,渴望建立亲密关系又常常因为别人不能满足他们的期待而受伤。\n\n性格评价\n很多人的“讨好型人格”,是因为心底的善良。但委屈自己的善良,在别人眼中可能只是卑微的讨好,而你只是成为了可以任意欺负的对象。\n       父母是对我们影响最深的催眠师,童年父母说的话比如“我为你付出这么多.你还这么不听话”背后的意思是为你付出的一切你必须想尽一切办法报答,激发了人性对父母的愧疚感,成年以后也容易讨好。您说的一个人呆着,就是很少出去和人建立链接,也很有可能存在一种深深的害怕被抛弃的恐惧感和绝望。现代人最早的基因密码携带原始人的身份记忆,原始部落里为了躲避野兽的追逐大自然的灾难会在群体逃亡中失散,那种流离失所无家可归的感觉深深印刻在人类记忆中。西方心理学家荣格所说的集体潜意识就是遵循着这样恒古不变的规律。\n       建议试着多做正面自我暗示,找一个本子写下生活中每天自己做得好的点滴或优点,过段时间奖励自己一个喜欢的小礼品。\n       先试着去接纳自己吧!一切关系的源头就是自我关系。你是值得被尊重和善待的,爱是自然流露,没必要讨好任何人。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/20/eeb78f5ec5182945e621021681133008.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 07:44",
              "time_str": "昨天 07:44",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446608,
              "uid": 6591025,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 2,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16815,
              "doctor_id": 16815,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16815?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "唐魁位",
              "content": "漫步人生,关于讨好型人格改这个问题,其实我也有这种情况。应该怎么一点点的去改呢?还是有方法的,比如通过心理咨询或心理治疗。\n       很多时候我也知道我身上有什么样的问题,但是我也解决不了。那么我们该做些什么,我们只能往前走的看。那么在另外一种情况下,我们也可以换一种方法说,我们可以说有些事情它就是这样的,我们不知道什么时候我们才真的能够做到改变。 那么让我们继续去觉察,去讨论,也许我们能找到解决问题的还有更好的方法。减少这种情况发生。\n       所以在这样的一个咨询经常进行之后,你就会变得越来越好的,包括之前难以回避发生的一些对人际关系讨好反应难以自控这种情况和程度都会有所变化的。那么随着我们咨询的深入,我们必然还会遇到各种各样的问题,那么每一个问题我们都根据这个问题的有价值程度,一起展开讨论,有些问题可能价值不太大,可以一句话就带过了。那么其他的问题通过心理咨询都会尽量得到回答,但是一次回答不代表的你就能够真正理解所有时候类似的问题,我们每一次咨询的时候你可能都会问,但是你问的越来越多的时候,那我们从不同角度开始展开讨论和解答的时候,这个问题在你的心里面的疑惑就会慢慢越来越少的,也不要指望一次两次三次你就想能咨询清楚,讨好型人格的改变这个问题,得慢慢来知道吧?",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/11/19/w3mafr0a7bkmkhpi.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 10:15",
              "time_str": "前天 10:15",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445564,
              "uid": 2772320,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 2,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 12857,
              "doctor_id": 12857,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/12857?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "韩红岩",
              "content": "你好!\n\n讨好型人格的形成确实和幼时经历有关。也许,幼时自己在家,总是害怕被大人抛弃,或者是不被爱,为此去讨好身边的成年人。\n\n非常幸运的是,你觉察到了自己人格中存在的问题,而且这个问题带给你非常不好的体验,那么生活中,面对你周边的人,与他们相处的时候,时时觉察自己的内在感受和真实意愿,从小事着手,努力遵从内心的感受及意愿去与他们相处,学会拒绝,学会反驳。\n\n人格是可以成长完善的,这是一个漫长的过程,从加强自身的价值感到时时觉察并遵从内心的感受。\n\n祝福你!如果需要进一步探讨自我成长、自我完善的话题可以私聊我,也可以拨打我的倾诉电话。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/10/22/mz5hpf3xkx9nnk9v.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 10:24",
              "time_str": "5-12 10:24",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3435516,
              "uid": 4344549,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 2,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14690,
              "doctor_id": 14690,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14690?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "朱小芳",
              "content": "你好!心疼你的努力和挣扎!\n\n1.讨好型人格形成起于生命早期,长期的独处让你缺乏安全感,你也知道只有努力讨好父母,才有可能不会被抛弃,这是一种生存策略。\n\n2.现已成人的你,独立意识与自主性逐渐发展壮大,可是由于早期创伤让你无法摆脱“讨好”的习惯。\n\n3.你需要咨询师的帮助,探索原生家庭的依恋模式,重获自我成长的力量。\n\n我是二级咨询师朱老师,211大学心理学研究生毕业,十余年一直从事着临床心理咨询工作,希望能够帮助你!祝好!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/27/cb0sg00jw0pd2wjx.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 09:16",
              "time_str": "前天 09:16",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445481,
              "uid": 4436781,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 2,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14105,
              "doctor_id": 14105,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14105?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "王兴永",
              "content": "讨好型人格大多和父母的专制和强势有关。这样的朋友往往又没有什么主见。对和别人关系的依附程度很高。如果想改变,不花一点时间,没有决心和勇气肯定是不能的。有需要可以和我私聊。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/07/13/vme9ammcnc0d38lz.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 10:30",
              "time_str": "昨天 10:30",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446772,
              "uid": 1506930,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 2,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 5304,
              "doctor_id": 5304,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/5304?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "刘芮杉",
              "content": "亲爱的很心疼你,你的讨好型人格是跟你父母有关系的。他们小的时候应该没有好好照料你的需求,所以会让你变得很害怕敏感,想要讨好才能存活下来,谋得别人的喜爱。现在你大了,你可以改变了,你不需要再靠那个小伎俩去存活了。但你却习惯了,很难改变了,我理解你。你需要重新找回自己,尊重照顾自己的感受为先,适当鼓起勇气拒绝别人。慢慢会好起来",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/24/lqcpk2zuzxzhslcc.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 16:59",
              "time_str": "5-18 16:59",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3444845,
              "uid": 4670081,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16451,
              "doctor_id": 16451,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16451?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "陈希南",
              "content": "你好!你确认自己是讨好型人格吗?你会经常自卑,感觉自己许多方面都不如他人吗?你会敏感,别人说个事感觉是在说自己吗?你会经常自我否定,会觉得自己说的某些话、做的某些事,别人会否定你、攻击你从而不敢去说、去做吗?如果是这样那也是曾经的你,如果你愿意探索,让自己变得自信、充满价值感,那修复人格的行程就已经启动了,欢迎私聊!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/10/09/8wp1mytj405xgdma.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 09:29",
              "time_str": "5-12 09:29",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3435426,
              "uid": 4527547,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14218,
              "doctor_id": 14218,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14218?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "王佰慧",
              "content": "您好,我说壹点灵的心理咨询师~王佰慧\n看到你对目前人际交往互动模式的行为方式感到苦恼,你是通过观察对方的反应来得到你自己心中的答案,来判断这段关系稳定不稳定,你是不是安全的状态。\n希望的解答能够帮助到你,如果有疑问,欢迎私信我哦",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/21/8fc99d85cda98661ef3cd51a8606062f..jpeg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 08:49",
              "time_str": "5-12 08:49",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3435350,
              "uid": 7119806,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 17356,
              "doctor_id": 17356,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/17356?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "董文娟",
              "content": "你好,看到你的描述,一方面你感到自己受到家人,朋友的精神控制,另一方面你感到对他们有一些敌意无法表达。我个人认为并不是去刻意改掉什么,加强自我界限感,升华情绪表达也是不错的选择哦",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/30/11b6245699fea768b8892b0b5fffce96.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 09:31",
              "time_str": "前天 09:31",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445520,
              "uid": 5918845,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 17497,
              "doctor_id": 17497,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/17497?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "陈飞飞",
              "content": "您好!我是壹点灵的心理咨询师陈飞飞。\n讨好型人格可能是很多原因造成的,需要更多的信息来分析。\n讨好的背后是对对方的愤怒和对自我的压抑。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/10/24/icg7ffch2aknnynb.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 10:20",
              "time_str": "5-12 10:20",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3435510,
              "uid": 3013390,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14889,
              "doctor_id": 14889,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14889?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "龚晓容",
              "content": "这个确实和原生家庭有关系呢,你能够意识到但是改不掉,需要做自我成长",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/07/26/0cue682fm001zr3w.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 09:18",
              "time_str": "5-12 09:18",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3435398,
              "uid": 3704429,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 13242,
              "doctor_id": 13242,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/13242?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "邹宏宇",
              "content": "您好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师邹宏宇\n\n有详细看完您的内容,要讲讨好型人格的话,我们就首先要去了解它到底是什么?\n\n所谓「讨好型人格」就是:做任何事都优先考虑别人的看法和别人的喜好,总是希望得到他人的认同和喜欢;特别害怕人际间的冲突,总是担心别人会因为自己不高兴;不知道该怎么说「不」、不会拒绝别人,所以常常忍气吞声; 害怕被忽略,却又总是被忽略,经常默默地一个人伤心难过…\n\n而讨好行人格,常常伴随着低自尊,这些东西可能是和你从小的成长经历,还有,长期以来的生存环境和生活习惯是有关的,那你可能需要去反观这一部分去调整它,另外的话,你如果想要通过自己调整的话,那你就需要去提高自己的自尊,去让自己自信去培养那种看见自己优点的习惯。\n\n感谢你查看我的回复,希望能够给你一些启发,如果有需要的话,你也可以找我详细聊一聊,这样的话,我可以给你更针对性的建议,真正帮到你!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/49ce78a2eeed4aaba66d7a2f8e341524.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 13:51",
              "time_str": "前天 13:51",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445802,
              "uid": 2829779,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 11447,
              "doctor_id": 11447,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/11447?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "吴平",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵平台心理咨询师吴老师,我们在小的时候,在和父母相处的依恋关系中,没有得到好的培养,没有得到足够的安全感,会使我们采用防御或回避的姿态来使自己感到安全,当我们长大以后,时移世易,但人格上的烙印却始终难以消除甚至相伴终身。\n你现在的感觉是你的身体,是你的内在自我发给你的信号,你希望改变,这是你改变的开始和动力来源。\n你已经觉察到了自己的感受,你看到了讨好型的自我,你也看到了幼时的孤独无助,你甚至看到并厌恶对特别在意人的感受,这一切的觉察,都是你开始觉醒,开始向好的方面转化的信号!\n你现在的感受和困惑是你的向导,如果你想更清晰的看到自己人生的这张地图,并找到自我价值和绘画更美好的未来,可以和专业的心理咨询师谈谈,相信对你会有莫大的帮助!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/08/xw2tc8i1yrgr2lfh.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 09:23",
              "time_str": "前天 09:23",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445495,
              "uid": 6785843,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 17013,
              "doctor_id": 17013,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/17013?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "洪祖宝",
              "content": "您好!我是壹点灵心理咨询师洪祖宝。\n很理解您的心情,讨好型人格是\n自小原生家庭就形成的小甜甜,\n因为内心害怕冲突,\n而表现出的行为状态,\n从内心来说这是牺牲,即使\n周围的人因为你讨好而认可你,\n你内心也不会有开心,因为他们\n认可的是那个假装的带面具的你,\n你并不认为他们会理解你。\n\n你隐藏自己,是因为害怕冲突,\n问自己什么原因导致自己的害怕?\n这需要咨询,找到影响自己的症结,\n大多与父母或家庭成员间的冲突有关。\n找到自己的真正价值,\n看到无惧的自己,天真无邪的自己,\n找回自己的力量,看重自己。\n需要请联系我,祝福!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/02/98ff9cc0f51835aed1d7e3d3d22a8350..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 17:10",
              "time_str": "前天 17:10",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446048,
              "uid": 5980035,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16148,
              "doctor_id": 16148,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16148?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "杜玉姣",
              "content": "你好!你对自己是讨好型人格的形成想探究,不满意,想改变,是吗?\n讨好,即成全别人,让别人舒服而委屈自己,就是你说的“委屈求全”,是成长过程 中形成的自动化的行为模式,不是一朝一夕能改变的。它一定是和我们童年创伤事件有关,在创伤事件中为了达成某个愿望或避开伤害当时不得不采取的应对模式,人格形成正是受这些因素影响。心理学上往往叫纠正偏差而成长,1.接纳自己的人格特质 2.处理童年创伤 3.看见自己的优势和资源,提升积极自我和自我价值感,久而久之你会进步成长。我是心理咨询师杜玉姣,希望能帮助到你。有需要私聊我。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/01/07/2tn3jyvj73dkz1vu.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 23:19",
              "time_str": "5-18 23:19",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445306,
              "uid": 5664113,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 15826,
              "doctor_id": 15826,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/15826?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "郑秀林",
              "content": "您好,\n我是壹点灵心理的二级心理咨询师郑秀林。\n针对您发布的内容,我有一些想法给您回馈。\n讨好型人格的人会活得很辛苦。他们总是不断的榨干自己。牺牲自己,奉献别人。但是得到的往往是不尊重。会很难过,很痛苦。\n这是因为童年以及从小到大的低自尊和无价值感。所造成的。\n如果对童年的事件去做一些梳理。重新捡回自己的自尊。重建自己的价值感。你将会改变这种讨好型人格。\n如果您的焦虑无法调解,建议您寻求专业的心理倾诉,或者心理咨询。\n欢迎私信我,或者预约我的咨询,我们来共同探讨个性化的解决方案。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/12/12/lygfd8ey396umqcx.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 07:58",
              "time_str": "5-12 07:58",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3435317,
              "uid": 2724361,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 15307,
              "doctor_id": 15307,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/15307?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "刘文",
              "content": "在乎一些人的感受,讨好他们,是不是因为怕被伤害,被忽视,被抛弃?童年的经历让我们学会了用这种行为保护我们自己,无可厚非,这是正常的。\n容易被他们语言控制,这或许也是保护自己不被伤害的一种方式,这样表面上他们会认为你在顺从他们,从而满足他们的控制欲。不会轻易地攻击你。关键是你已经觉察到了你的困惑和你内心的不舒服。\n只有让自己内心强大,才能不在意别人的看法,需要成长。\n你好,我是平台的咨询师刘文,如果你愿意可以和我说说,我们一起分析,澄清,探索。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/26/fii6pxvwm67ptwj8.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 08:56",
              "time_str": "5-12 08:56",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3435360,
              "uid": 6550763,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16796,
              "doctor_id": 16796,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16796?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "焦晓娜",
              "content": "您好,从你的话中能感受到你的压抑和委屈,明明知道是他们做的不好,却又自己改变,去让他们满意。很多时候,这种性格与早年的经历和相处模式有一定的关系,当我们小的时候,能力有限,我们需要用某种方式让自己在当时的环境中生存下来。现在我们已经长大了,不再是小时候那个无助的小孩了,可以慢慢开始,一点一点的尝试去用自己的力量去调整,去改变,让自己舒服一点,成为自己想成为的那个自己。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/04/23/vf7yez0ezfrsisbd.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 08:25",
              "time_str": "5-12 08:25",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3435332,
              "uid": 1547385,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 5508,
              "doctor_id": 5508,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/5508?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "马艳华",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师马艳华\n         你说你是讨好型人格,对父母,朋友,前任,现任,你都容易被他们控制,委屈自己,导致自己积累压力过大,想要改变自己。\n人的性格,交往模式和自己从小接受的教育方式和生长环境有很大关系。你可以慢慢改变的。首先树立自己的自信心,有自己判断事物的能力,不被他人影响…………\n希望我的回答能够帮助到你,如有需要请联系我哦。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/28/pshdrm9v06f9vorj.png",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 18:38",
              "time_str": "前天 18:38",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446127,
              "uid": 3581903,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14560,
              "doctor_id": 14560,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14560?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "原玲",
              "content": "您好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师原玲。\n你的讨好型人格,是跟你一直以来的生活习惯有关系,与你与人相处的模式有关系。\n日常生活发生的事情中,你拿不出自己的态度,所以别人认为你每天态度,怎样都可以。但是你的内心却很不舒服。\n欢迎你私信我,让我了解你,看看到底是什么情况。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/07/2rpcct3onqfp5xmg.jpeg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 17:54",
              "time_str": "5-18 17:54",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3444901,
              "uid": 4901063,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14789,
              "doctor_id": 14789,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14789?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "董海燕",
              "content": "相信您来这个平台,是希望得到帮助,改善当前状况,您确信需要帮助的话,联系我,我会帮助您梳理分析并提供方案,可以点击我的头像或者我主页的顶部的立即预约按钮,进行预约申请,关注我,随时联系,用心理解,用爱倾听,我在这里等着您:)",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/05z8ml0azp3uzlvr.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 11:31",
              "time_str": "前天 11:31",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445666,
              "uid": 5596001,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16898,
              "doctor_id": 16898,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16898?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "董海燕",
              "content": "相信您来这个平台,是希望得到帮助,改善当前状况,您确信需要帮助的话,联系我,我会帮助您梳理分析并提供方案,可以点击我的头像或者我主页的顶部的立即预约按钮,进行预约申请,关注我,随时联系,用心理解,用爱倾听,我在这里等着您:)",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/05z8ml0azp3uzlvr.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 10:21",
              "time_str": "昨天 10:21",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446737,
              "uid": 5596001,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16898,
              "doctor_id": 16898,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16898?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "刘芬",
              "content": "如果你确定是讨好型人格,那你肯定有些不合理的信念在,如果需要自身改变,就改变信念是第一步,最好找专业咨询师帮你。自己在生活中可以开始学会说“不”,可以对自己好点。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/15/84ae4ef2cab04f14538681dc9428efe9.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 11:11",
              "time_str": "昨天 11:11",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446840,
              "uid": 3601526,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 17243,
              "doctor_id": 17243,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/17243?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "渴望被爱",
              "content": "你和我很像,我也是这样,这样很痛苦,别人的一举一动都会影响自己,加油!一切都会好的,我们一起改变",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/02/cd6cb2b5ecd8e69de6c47612dc9a1397..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "今天 06:53",
              "time_str": "今天 06:53",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447738,
              "uid": 2716746,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "非秧",
              "content": "从开始多说“不”开始,",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "http://thirdqq.qlogo.cn/g?b\u003doidb\u0026k\u003dG256YVgx5tF4iaibkAib1GLfQ\u0026s\u003d100",
              "answerCreateTime": "今天 00:24",
              "time_str": "今天 00:24",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447662,
              "uid": 7749034,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "ydl**********147",
              "content": "吃屎吧你",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/17/3b89a0d58ea0df9ec0f2b379d3105f40..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 21:32",
              "time_str": "5-18 21:32",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445169,
              "uid": 7534056,
              "askId": 559151,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            }
          ],
          "ext": null
        },
        {
          "id": 559463,
          "timeStr": "5-13 07:16",
          "time_str": "5-13 07:16",
          "timeDate": "May 13, 2020 7:16:40 AM",
          "hits": 241,
          "title": "连着两晚梦见自己受新公司同事和领导排挤",
          "multitextType": 1,
          "topicId": 8,
          "replyCounter": 22,
          "extContent": "",
          "content": "1.我已经连着两晚梦见自己不受新公司同事领导待见了,我也确实是怀疑和担心类似的事情再重复上演\n2.我做会计,专业功底不算很好,倒也还过得去(我同时在培训机构学习会计),性格有些不够",
          "uid": 1290311,
          "name": "sss",
          "gender": 2,
          "askTag": "职业发展",
          "zanCount": 13,
          "avatar": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2017/07/26/dc284f6b072ecdcd46194628acfa1a46.jpg",
          "header": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2017/07/26/dc284f6b072ecdcd46194628acfa1a46.jpg",
          "commentsCount": 22,
          "topicTitle": "工作的那些事儿 ",
          "isZan": 2,
          "visitCount": 241,
          "from": "来自Android客户端",
          "smallAttach": [],
          "bigAttach": [],
          "utype": 2,
          "isAd": 0,
          "is_ad": 0,
          "url": "",
          "adImg": "",
          "focId": 0,
          "isFocused": 2,
          "share": null,
          "isSelf": 0,
          "comments": [
            {
              "name": "林建家",
              "content": "您好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师林建家。从您大段描述看,剥茧抽丝,核心问题就是职场人际关系问题。我们从你第一条,梦开始解读。梦是潜意识的表达,只有做梦者才真正明白梦的意义,梦是虚幻的,但从后面你的描述看,你确实存在不被领导待见的问题。关于你工作不扎实的问题,这是需要你不断的提升自己的,想要不被跳出毛病,那就不要出错。性格问题,如果你的性格不利于融洽同事关系,那唯一要做的就是要改变自己。关于你的第四条,人是群居动物,有人的地方就有人际关系,关系好了,问题就会少,也比较如鱼得水,关系不畅,就会出现社会排斥现象,这是很自然的。第五条,只能说明你在公司被重视程度不够,不管你舒服不舒服,你要做到被重视,就是你离做到自己有价值。第六第七我就不说了,大同小异。第八条,我想说的是天下乌鸦一般黑,这不是贬低,只是要说的是职场规则基本一样,你在A公司不受待见,如果不做出改变,在B公司也好不到哪去。\n如果职场规则困扰了你,需要的是改变,改变,改变。怎么改变,自己找答案。\n    如果需要专业帮助,可私聊我。",
              "toName": "sss",
              "to_name": "sss",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/11/3guojja6dn28cpbr.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 09:33",
              "time_str": "5-13 09:33",
              "toContent": "老师我不这么认为,领导如果想挑你毛病,不管是错误也好,还是挑不出错误,她要刷存在感挑你做的不够完美的地方也好,要挑毛病肯定是能挑出来的,而且财务部领导都有一些细节强迫症,有时候并不是我工作扎不扎实啊。她高度不够一直挑不那么要紧的细节,瑕疵。",
              "to_content": "老师我不这么认为,领导如果想挑你毛病,不管是错误也好,还是挑不出错误,她要刷存在感挑你做的不够完美的地方也好,要挑毛病肯定是能挑出来的,而且财务部领导都有一些细节强迫症,有时候并不是我工作扎不扎实啊。她高度不够一直挑不那么要紧的细节,瑕疵。",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436999,
              "uid": 4921244,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16539,
              "doctor_id": 16539,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16539?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "陈艳",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵职业规划师陈艳。\n由你表述看,你们财务部领导应该是猫头鹰型的性格特点。在我原来的企业里的财务也是这个性格特点,是个细节控,比较固执,很注意过程中的细节,那是因为他们是超级没有安全感的人,只有把过程中的每个细节保证不出错,他们才能放心,要不然他们晚上也睡不着觉的。这个性格是挺难改变的,就像有洁癖的人,你让他看见脏了不去擦干净,他就会很难受,浑身不舒服。职场中,其实最重要不是跟同事去硬碰硬,而是要找到合适的办法去解决这个问题,要了解同事们的特点,他们有什么优势,有什么缺点,与这样的同事相处,应该怎么做会更好,知彼知已,才能打胜仗。\n如果需要帮助,可以私聊老师哦~~",
              "toName": "sss",
              "to_name": "sss",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/16/3ldlhkwmh34k8jnp.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 13:50",
              "time_str": "5-13 13:50",
              "toContent": "老师,有时候过分细节控就会失去高度。我被她这样的方式有时整的很难受。。",
              "to_content": "老师,有时候过分细节控就会失去高度。我被她这样的方式有时整的很难受。。",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437357,
              "uid": 4601460,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14362,
              "doctor_id": 14362,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14362?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "陈艳",
              "content": "是的,这个性格的人,优点是认真细致,但这个优点的背后就是她的缺点,因为过分关注细节,会导致他们没有太长远的眼光,沉浸在细节里无法自拔。对于这样的领导,你跟她的相处模式,就是满足她的安全感即可,就是需要多汇报,细节过程尽量让她多多的了解,这样她悬着的心才能放下,才能让她不焦虑,才能对你更合作。\n对于她只注重细节,而没有高度这个问题,你就不用过分在意了,就当你对她的救赎吧,救人一命,胜造七级浮屠。体谅别人的弱点,会给你积福的,也能让你变的更温暖,让你更受大家的喜欢。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/16/3ldlhkwmh34k8jnp.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 16:36",
              "time_str": "5-13 16:36",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437692,
              "uid": 4601460,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14362,
              "doctor_id": 14362,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14362?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "王倩",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵的心理咨询师王倩。\n\n其实有的时候,工作就只是工作,如果你抱有太多的期待,反而会失望。工作就是大家赚钱,养活自己,让自己的能力得到提高,学习更多的技能,以后找到更多的平台。\n\n你现在梦见这些,是因为你家公司受到的不公平待遇,还有你对自己的专业技能的不自信。其实你能跳槽,找到新工作,已经说明了你的能力,比以前的自己好,就是进步,慢慢来。\n\n希望我的回答能够帮到你,如果你还有疑问,可以私信问我。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/29/m21sqez2zb94cuvy.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 08:55",
              "time_str": "5-13 08:55",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436928,
              "uid": 1653311,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16617,
              "doctor_id": 16617,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16617?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "林建家",
              "content": "你目前是紧盯着这样一个具体的事件,如果你从这个事件当中跳出来看的话,反映的是一个人际关系,如果有良好的人际关系,对方的表达就会不一样。我们可以私聊一下。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/11/3guojja6dn28cpbr.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 09:52",
              "time_str": "5-13 09:52",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437043,
              "uid": 4921244,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16539,
              "doctor_id": 16539,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16539?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "张春峰",
              "content": "看书可以,看职场电视剧对你也有帮助,关键是要看门道不能光看热闹。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/11/ra21w5smqx7nig83.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 08:22",
              "time_str": "5-13 08:22",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436892,
              "uid": 6431315,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16657,
              "doctor_id": 16657,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16657?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "洪祖宝",
              "content": "您好!我是壹点灵心理咨询师洪祖宝。\n很理解您的心情,您想改变自己,\n这说明你真正开始要向前迈进。\n\n所有人都不是完善的,当发现问题,\n想改变的时候,才是提升自己的机会!\n\n性格孤僻往往显得冷漠,就缺乏热情,\n没有温度就很难与人交流,\n人流动,心不流动,到哪里都受困。\n\n看看自己究竟在恨谁?\n做原谅和宽恕的功课,从父亲开始,\n真正的宽恕父母,再找到伤害自己\n的其他人,宽恕是你人生的第一功课。\n\n只有做好宽恕,心里没有恨,\n你才会轻松的快乐的面对身边的人,\n即使工作出现闪失,也不会有防卫,\n也会轻松的矫正,同事领导关系才会\n和谐!\n\n和自己的亲人多聊天,爱父亲\n工作事业就会顺利~\n\n祝福!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/02/98ff9cc0f51835aed1d7e3d3d22a8350..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 17:42",
              "time_str": "前天 17:42",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446074,
              "uid": 5980035,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16148,
              "doctor_id": 16148,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16148?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "陈霞",
              "content": "你好我是一点零心理咨询师陈霞。\n我以前也有涉猎财务方面,这是一个专业领域。\n我给你分析,现在有单位人际阴影,所以做梦投射到新单位。\n但是你之所以有现在职场困惑,也如你自己分析的性格比较直率不善人际关系。但是,你有没有发现某些专业人才,比如拿了注册会计师的,有学位的,技术强的人,即使上班沉默,个性淡漠些,但是领导不敢小看,同事也是。说到这里,也提下专业不好但是攻于心机会和领导拉关系的也在单位有存在感,所以,这两种人,你看自己能做哪个?你是领导是不是也喜欢这两种人,关键是我分析你努力下能成为第一种人,怎么努力,为什么这样肯定你,可以私聊或约我,我帮助你成为第一种人,凭本事立足",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2018/10/08/a571oj5nt7wa084p.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-17 14:10",
              "time_str": "5-17 14:10",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3443329,
              "uid": 1711442,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 9856,
              "doctor_id": 9856,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/9856?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "林芳",
              "content": "看到问题您好可爱啊,梦见自己不受公司同事领导待见,怀疑和担心,你以前就常常有这样的担心和怀疑吧?尤其当您感觉自己不受欢迎时,这一部分非常值得探究,是什么阻碍着您。\n\n您需要通过别人来肯定自己,或者通过别人来看到自己。有没有呢?这是一方面没有问题,不过最最最最重要的一方面是自己肯定自己,自己觉得自己有价值,自己相信自己,我一定会天下无敌。\n\n都到这里咨询了,这么多优秀的咨询老师包括我在,让自己坚实起来吧!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/11/09/e13d53b31319aa047a4ff7c78da52355..jpeg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 13:15",
              "time_str": "前天 13:15",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445755,
              "uid": 5140771,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 15121,
              "doctor_id": 15121,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/15121?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "原玲",
              "content": "您好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师原玲。\n给我的感受,你在工作中的与人相处方面,缺少一点小技巧,掌握之后,就会处理好与他人的关系;\n至于业务方面的能力,可以在实践中慢慢积累,提高。\n你的梦境,显示出你的焦虑。显示出你比较在意别人的看法。\n欢迎你私信我,看看有哪些方面可以尽快改善。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/07/2rpcct3onqfp5xmg.jpeg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 17:50",
              "time_str": "5-18 17:50",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3444897,
              "uid": 4901063,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14789,
              "doctor_id": 14789,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14789?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "sss",
              "content": "老师我不这么认为,领导如果想挑你毛病,不管是错误也好,还是挑不出错误,她要刷存在感挑你做的不够完美的地方也好,要挑毛病肯定是能挑出来的,而且财务部领导都有一些细节强迫症,有时候并不是我工作扎不扎实啊。她高度不够一直挑不那么要紧的细节,瑕疵。",
              "toName": "陈艳",
              "to_name": "陈艳",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2017/07/26/dc284f6b072ecdcd46194628acfa1a46.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 09:39",
              "time_str": "5-13 09:39",
              "toContent": "你好,我是壹点灵职业规划师陈艳。\n由你表述看,你们财务部领导应该是猫头鹰型的性格特点。在我原来的企业里的财务也是这个性格特点,是个细节控,比较固执,很注意过程中的细节,那是因为他们是超级没有安全感的人,只有把过程中的每个细节保证不出错,他们才能放心,要不然他们晚上也睡不着觉的。这个性格是挺难改变的,就像有洁癖的人,你让他看见脏了不去擦干净,他就会很难受,浑身不舒服。职场中,其实最重要不是跟同事去硬碰硬,而是要找到合适的办法去解决这个问题,要了解同事们的特点,他们有什么优势,有什么缺点,与这样的同事相处,应该怎么做会更好,知彼知已,才能打胜仗。\n如果需要帮助,可以私聊老师哦~~",
              "to_content": "你好,我是壹点灵职业规划师陈艳。\n由你表述看,你们财务部领导应该是猫头鹰型的性格特点。在我原来的企业里的财务也是这个性格特点,是个细节控,比较固执,很注意过程中的细节,那是因为他们是超级没有安全感的人,只有把过程中的每个细节保证不出错,他们才能放心,要不然他们晚上也睡不着觉的。这个性格是挺难改变的,就像有洁癖的人,你让他看见脏了不去擦干净,他就会很难受,浑身不舒服。职场中,其实最重要不是跟同事去硬碰硬,而是要找到合适的办法去解决这个问题,要了解同事们的特点,他们有什么优势,有什么缺点,与这样的同事相处,应该怎么做会更好,知彼知已,才能打胜仗。\n如果需要帮助,可以私聊老师哦~~",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437011,
              "uid": 1290311,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "刘芮杉",
              "content": "亲爱的很理解你,可能最近你跟同事的关系并不好,就导致了你会这样做梦。你愿意跟老师聊聊吗?我们一起探讨,如何解决与同事的关系。其实职场关系也是挺复杂的,也是需要技巧,有些话不想说但必须说,有些气要忍,有些却不必忍。这需要辨别。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/24/lqcpk2zuzxzhslcc.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 17:00",
              "time_str": "5-18 17:00",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3444849,
              "uid": 4670081,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16451,
              "doctor_id": 16451,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16451?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "董海燕",
              "content": "相信您来这个平台,是希望得到帮助,改善当前状况,您确信需要帮助的话,联系我,我会帮助您梳理分析并提供方案,可以点击我的头像或者我主页的顶部的立即预约按钮,进行预约申请,关注我,随时联系,用心理解,用爱倾听,我在这里等着您:)",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/05z8ml0azp3uzlvr.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 11:31",
              "time_str": "前天 11:31",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445669,
              "uid": 5596001,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16898,
              "doctor_id": 16898,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16898?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "杜玉姣",
              "content": "你好!你的性格是怎样的呢?是否有些敏感?言语有些攻击性?是否很在意他人的评价?安全感高吗?有必要了解你的成长历程探究你的人格形成,人格特质决定了一个人与他人的互动模式和社会关系。我是心理咨询师杜玉姣,希望能帮助到你。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/01/07/2tn3jyvj73dkz1vu.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 17:30",
              "time_str": "昨天 17:30",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447211,
              "uid": 5664113,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 15826,
              "doctor_id": 15826,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/15826?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "sss",
              "content": "例如,之前英语邮件中,我用的单词是问题,她把问题这个词改成了要点。再例如,粘贴发票的时候我用夹子夹好了,她说不能用夹子,要用胶水。老师就是很多这种无关紧要的瑕疵有时候也会被领导放大了批评",
              "toName": "林建家",
              "to_name": "林建家",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2017/07/26/dc284f6b072ecdcd46194628acfa1a46.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 09:43",
              "time_str": "5-13 09:43",
              "toContent": "你目前是紧盯着这样一个具体的事件,如果你从这个事件当中跳出来看的话,反映的是一个人际关系,如果有良好的人际关系,对方的表达就会不一样。我们可以私聊一下。",
              "to_content": "你目前是紧盯着这样一个具体的事件,如果你从这个事件当中跳出来看的话,反映的是一个人际关系,如果有良好的人际关系,对方的表达就会不一样。我们可以私聊一下。",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437023,
              "uid": 1290311,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "sss",
              "content": "想问下老师们,我是不是需要在入职前恶补下职场情商课,有没有相关的书籍,昨天有个网友推荐我看职场的小说,还有职场生存法则这本书",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2017/07/26/dc284f6b072ecdcd46194628acfa1a46.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 07:19",
              "time_str": "5-13 07:19",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436825,
              "uid": 1290311,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "a****",
              "content": "我也是做会计行业的,性格方面和您差不多,与同事的关系也不太好。但是我内心里并没有想让他们对我太好,做好个自的本职工作就可以。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/06/f2ebf93e21bcd568c60871015f70386a..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 18:45",
              "time_str": "昨天 18:45",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447300,
              "uid": 2411152,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "ydl**********589",
              "content": "最近老是一哭非常的哭,有自杀的想法,经常自残感到胸闷,四肢无力。对世界充满不好的心态,非常喜欢黄昏",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2016/11/11/a3vtt0qscbsuxkfm.png",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 19:04",
              "time_str": "前天 19:04",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446144,
              "uid": 7757680,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 0,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "sss",
              "content": "老师,有时候过分细节控就会失去高度。我被她这样的方式有时整的很难受。。",
              "toName": "陈艳",
              "to_name": "陈艳",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2017/07/26/dc284f6b072ecdcd46194628acfa1a46.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 14:08",
              "time_str": "5-13 14:08",
              "toContent": "是的,这个性格的人,优点是认真细致,但这个优点的背后就是她的缺点,因为过分关注细节,会导致他们没有太长远的眼光,沉浸在细节里无法自拔。对于这样的领导,你跟她的相处模式,就是满足她的安全感即可,就是需要多汇报,细节过程尽量让她多多的了解,这样她悬着的心才能放下,才能让她不焦虑,才能对你更合作。\n对于她只注重细节,而没有高度这个问题,你就不用过分在意了,就当你对她的救赎吧,救人一命,胜造七级浮屠。体谅别人的弱点,会给你积福的,也能让你变的更温暖,让你更受大家的喜欢。",
              "to_content": "是的,这个性格的人,优点是认真细致,但这个优点的背后就是她的缺点,因为过分关注细节,会导致他们没有太长远的眼光,沉浸在细节里无法自拔。对于这样的领导,你跟她的相处模式,就是满足她的安全感即可,就是需要多汇报,细节过程尽量让她多多的了解,这样她悬着的心才能放下,才能让她不焦虑,才能对你更合作。\n对于她只注重细节,而没有高度这个问题,你就不用过分在意了,就当你对她的救赎吧,救人一命,胜造七级浮屠。体谅别人的弱点,会给你积福的,也能让你变的更温暖,让你更受大家的喜欢。",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437376,
              "uid": 1290311,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "王兴永",
              "content": "面子是靠本事和能力挣来的。职场千万别学长脾气,要学长本领。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/07/13/vme9ammcnc0d38lz.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 17:03",
              "time_str": "5-18 17:03",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3444856,
              "uid": 1506930,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 5304,
              "doctor_id": 5304,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/5304?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "林建家",
              "content": "这是我作为局外人的看法,仅供你参考。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/11/3guojja6dn28cpbr.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-13 09:43",
              "time_str": "5-13 09:43",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3437021,
              "uid": 4921244,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16539,
              "doctor_id": 16539,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16539?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "我是象山象",
              "content": "不能",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "http://thirdwx.qlogo.cn/mmopen/vi_32/Q0j4TwGTfTJiaCBO9f33YY1u094VWQxCHJbRMnpgptH30cDwDlGatMAiaw50QPIdcJicpPs9JBmiakzxZL7FYlpNOw/132",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-16 13:25",
              "time_str": "5-16 13:25",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3442291,
              "uid": 4924642,
              "askId": 559463,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            }
          ],
          "ext": null
        },
        {
          "id": 559334,
          "timeStr": "5-12 20:51",
          "time_str": "5-12 20:51",
          "timeDate": "May 12, 2020 8:51:21 PM",
          "hits": 264,
          "title": "不太敢尝试新的东西,对自己很失望",
          "multitextType": 1,
          "topicId": 44,
          "replyCounter": 19,
          "extContent": "",
          "content": "每次大学里要举办新的活动,我都很焦虑,我既想参加又很害怕面试,害怕失败,怕别人否定自己,有时面试官太严肃问的问题答不上来,就更害怕了,所以有些活动我不敢去尝试,窝在自己的舒适圈里,",
          "uid": 7544038,
          "name": "Wency",
          "gender": 2,
          "askTag": "恋爱婚姻",
          "zanCount": 12,
          "avatar": "http://img.ydlcdn.com/v2/images/avatar_default.png",
          "header": "http://img.ydlcdn.com/v2/images/avatar_default.png",
          "commentsCount": 19,
          "topicTitle": "今日打卡",
          "isZan": 2,
          "visitCount": 264,
          "from": "来自Android客户端",
          "smallAttach": [],
          "bigAttach": [],
          "utype": 2,
          "isAd": 0,
          "is_ad": 0,
          "url": "",
          "adImg": "",
          "focId": 0,
          "isFocused": 2,
          "share": null,
          "isSelf": 0,
          "comments": [
            {
              "name": "王兴永",
              "content": "先干了,再说。不必想太多。\n待在舒适区里当然是安全的,但是和进步发展无关。\n最要紧的尝试先迈出第一小步,不必想太多。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/07/13/vme9ammcnc0d38lz.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 16:59",
              "time_str": "5-18 16:59",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3444848,
              "uid": 1506930,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 5304,
              "doctor_id": 5304,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/5304?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "陈婷",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵的心理咨询师陈婷。\n\n我记得自己读大学时也像你一样,其实对很多新鲜的事物都感兴趣,但因为之间有过一些不是很好的体验,甚至可以说是非常丢脸的经历,久而久之就好像每次看到新事物,虽好奇但绝对止步。但每次看到旁人获得收获的喜悦时,特别是看到一个不如自己的人成功时,我就在心里直后悔,为什么不去试一试呢。\n\n可能我比起你的害怕,我可能还会有很多的不甘心吧。也怪我有时还容易有那么点倔强,所以后来,每当我遇到想要尝试的新事物时,我什么都不想,先报名不给自己留下犹豫的余地……当然,刚开始的时候也是紧张的说不出话或者不断的失败跌倒,但时间长了,我发现有时跌倒和失败其实就是在为成功积累经验。因为没有人是可以一举成功的,对吗?\n\n预祝好!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/03/33476928ccb59088b1e87c7e6679555c..jpeg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 19:52",
              "time_str": "5-18 19:52",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445051,
              "uid": 6570539,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16795,
              "doctor_id": 16795,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16795?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "邹宏宇",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师邹宏宇\n\n有详细看完您的一个内容,好像是自己有上进心,但是心里又有什么东西堵着自己不敢去尝试,不敢去表现自己。这种感觉就好像是跟社交恐惧,有一点点相像,但又不是这种,就像好像是你很想去跟别人交往,但是又害怕,害怕别人对你的注意,有这样的一个感受吗?\n\n如果有的话,你就要去想一想啊,你在意的到底是什么,然后你可能需要去通过一些稳定化的技术,先把情绪去稳定下来,然后再通过一些行为去慢慢的把它缓和。对于这种问题的话,我们可能会用CBT的技术\n\n感谢查看我的回复,希望能够给你一些启发。如果有需要的话,我们也可以详细聊一聊,我可以给你更针对性的建议,希望能够真正帮到您!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/49ce78a2eeed4aaba66d7a2f8e341524.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 14:02",
              "time_str": "前天 14:02",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445813,
              "uid": 2829779,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 11447,
              "doctor_id": 11447,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/11447?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "洪祖宝",
              "content": "您好!我是壹点灵心理咨询师洪祖宝。\n您对自己的状况很清晰,重要的是\n你自己也很想改变,这一点将帮助你。\n\n害怕是因为在童年成长过程,\n,在自己探索冒险的年龄段,\n受到创伤或挫折或家人的严厉批评,\n导致自己的创造力或冒险精神被压抑,\n你是完全可以打开这份力量的。\n\n勇气将要上来的时候,不去压抑,\n可以在早上起大早,去运动,\n在无人的地方疯狂的奔跑或呐喊,\n将锁住自己的那份恐惧的锁链崩解,\n让充满勇气的真正的自己站出来,\n这样,在任何严厉的老师面前,\n都学会坦然,哪怕失败,也同样\n可以承受,因为你知道成功不是\n一蹴而就,失败是为成功铺路~\n祝福,加油!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/02/98ff9cc0f51835aed1d7e3d3d22a8350..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 11:22",
              "time_str": "昨天 11:22",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446855,
              "uid": 5980035,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16148,
              "doctor_id": 16148,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16148?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "马春燕",
              "content": "您好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师马春燕。\n非常能理解您的感受。想施展自己的才华又不敢主动出击而带来的焦虑。您是可以自信起来的。听一下老师的建议。首先,要接纳自己挡下。每个人的存在都有自己价值。要相信你也一样。这样有了对自己的认同你就会多一份信心。其次,你要认为您只是缺失一个沟通或者人际交往的技巧而已。如果是技巧,就是可以快速学会并上手的。相信自己可以实现。老师辅导过近千名员工的职业规划与个人成长。如果感兴趣,您可以关注老师主页,我们私聊。希望老师能够帮到您。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/02/0785c0bf51648ad1307819fbc25d6964..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 22:32",
              "time_str": "5-12 22:32",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436544,
              "uid": 6211612,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16510,
              "doctor_id": 16510,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16510?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "陈佳佳",
              "content": "亲爱的,我想跟你说\n你的感受是这个地球上所有人共同的感受\n而唯一不同的是1%的人\n敢于带着这份恐惧去作他期待又害怕的事\n当这样的恐惧又害怕的事作多了\n就像心理学的脱敏\n再面对这样的事情\n你就会变得淡定自如\n只是重点在于\n前期你敢不敢跨出第一步\n即使第一步失败了\n你敢不敢越挫越勇\n这个世界没有无缘无故的成功和光环。\n我是壹点灵心理咨询师,陈佳佳。希望我的回答能够帮助到您。如还有疑问,欢迎私信和我交流(点击头像,在点私聊。)祝好!\n目前首单特惠半小时9元",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/20/vb7b9pxngrg7qy44.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 21:13",
              "time_str": "5-12 21:13",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436384,
              "uid": 2057201,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16782,
              "doctor_id": 16782,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16782?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "杜玉姣",
              "content": "同学你好!文字里感受到你不敢尝试新的东西,怕失败怕被否定,对自己失望而又心不甘。\n这些表现源于自信心不足,缺乏行动力。自信是成长过程中来自于抚养人对我们的肯定、积极评价,高自信的人敢于挑战不怕失败,相信自己,享受过程而不注重结果,低自信的人相反,不能接受失败的结果而不愿不敢挑战。\n自信是人格形成的指标之一,在人格形成过程中抚养人的特质怎样?互动中对你的影响和评价怎样?老师们可以帮助你成长自己增强自信心。\n我是心理咨询师杜玉姣,感谢你的信任。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/01/07/2tn3jyvj73dkz1vu.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 16:57",
              "time_str": "前天 16:57",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446033,
              "uid": 5664113,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 15826,
              "doctor_id": 15826,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/15826?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "马艳华",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师马艳华\n             你的描述中,感到你是个积极向上的人,面对现实又打退堂鼓,没有勇气把自己的真实实力表现出来,让你失去很多机会。自己又自责,内心纠结,渴望又害怕,没有安全感和自信心,有些人还不如你的实力,确表现出来了,机会就这样白白溜掉。\n现在你自己也感到这样不对,想要改变,这是好事啊,你能够认识到自己这方面,可以通过后天可以弥补的。\n你可以私聊我哈,希望我的回答能够帮助到你。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/28/pshdrm9v06f9vorj.png",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 18:17",
              "time_str": "前天 18:17",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446095,
              "uid": 3581903,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14560,
              "doctor_id": 14560,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14560?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "吴建芳",
              "content": "同学你好!我是壹点灵咨询师吴建芳,很高兴能帮助到你,能把你的困惑说出来就是一个很大的进步和成长,从你的描述来看,你其实很想去勇敢的尝试一些活动,期待自己是优秀的,但是对自己缺乏信心,害怕被否定,不太能接受失败的自己,焦虑是因为害怕达不到目标,很能理解你,这个自信心是需要去通过不断的自我对话去训练的,可能你的成长经历过程中抚养人对你的肯定也不够多,希望我能帮到你,你可以来找我咨询。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2018/08/28/6de1d89972fbd3a314f259aee2e94561..jpg",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 20:59",
              "time_str": "5-12 20:59",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436363,
              "uid": 2306579,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "文红娟",
              "content": "您好,看完您的内容,首先我感觉到您很难受,好像很纠结,既想尝试新的机遇,又害怕失败!我相信可能不仅是第一次,之前可能也遇到过。我们可以思考一下自己到底要什么,缺什么,然后有什么可以锻炼和改善的地方。\n我是心理咨询师文红娟,感谢您查看我的回复,希望对你有所帮助,能给您一些启发。如果有什么需要或疑问,欢迎找我聊聊或者去我的主页下单咨询。祝好!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/29/xeplegoylueewx8o.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 21:09",
              "time_str": "5-12 21:09",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436375,
              "uid": 4684558,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16481,
              "doctor_id": 16481,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16481?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "李爱玲",
              "content": "你好,我是心理咨询师李爱玲。从你的描述中,我似乎看到,一个不太自信的小女孩,虽然内心有很多的努力和尝试,但曾经不好的感受会一次次地将你拉回原地。你说内心既渴望又害怕,渴望是你现在的,害怕是曾经的。如果你能将曾经带人你害怕的体验处理一下,我相信,你就可以做到知行合一,不再矛盾了。欢迎找我私聊,也希望可以尽快帮到你。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/12/bb82612524a747409128a895c3c19e93.jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 16:55",
              "time_str": "昨天 16:55",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3447168,
              "uid": 1529059,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 5427,
              "doctor_id": 5427,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/5427?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "林芳",
              "content": "做与不做,答案是做,做才会多一个结果,对吧。                         \n\n第一,去做去争取,第二,怎么去争取,怎么解决你的负面情绪转化成自信、勇敢。恐惧少了勇敢就多了是不是。\n你能来到这里,问题就解决一半啦,欢迎!我也是咨询师。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/11/09/e13d53b31319aa047a4ff7c78da52355..jpeg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 21:23",
              "time_str": "5-18 21:23",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445160,
              "uid": 5140771,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 15121,
              "doctor_id": 15121,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/15121?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "董海燕",
              "content": "相信您来这个平台,是希望得到帮助,改善当前状况,您确信需要帮助的话,联系我,我会帮助您梳理分析并提供方案,可以点击我的头像或者我主页的顶部的立即预约按钮,进行预约申请,关注我,随时联系,用心理解,用爱倾听,我在这里等着您:)",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/05z8ml0azp3uzlvr.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 11:31",
              "time_str": "前天 11:31",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445667,
              "uid": 5596001,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16898,
              "doctor_id": 16898,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16898?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "房宁",
              "content": "同学您好!\n想想自己一路走到大学,\n一定有过很多尝试新事物的经历,\n相信你是有能力的。\n也许在某个时候曾遇到过什么事,\n让你体会到过多的焦虑和纠结。\n在大学可以找心理老师沟通,\n或者找平台咨询师寻求帮助。\n\n祝福你!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/20/0xyjfkktqhvlpiny.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 22:21",
              "time_str": "5-12 22:21",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436515,
              "uid": 6572522,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16794,
              "doctor_id": 16794,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16794?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "刘芮杉",
              "content": "亲爱的,你刚入新环境,这是正常的可以理解。但也是可以调节的,你的内心还是不够强大。你对别人的看法会很在意,对别人如何评价你很在意。对成果很在意,我猜测对外表也会很在意。这些都是你需要处理的卡点。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/24/lqcpk2zuzxzhslcc.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 21:05",
              "time_str": "5-12 21:05",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436370,
              "uid": 4670081,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16451,
              "doctor_id": 16451,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16451?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "郭丽娟",
              "content": "你好,对于新东西你内心极度渴望尝试,但因为怕失败不敢行动。不参与又不甘心,焦虑矛盾在这个恶性循环中纠结 。怎么办呢?成长自己吧!当你内在有了足够的力量时,自信就有了。相信你可以,加油!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/17/g9w4i17zb2u0evfu.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-18 23:07",
              "time_str": "5-18 23:07",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445283,
              "uid": 6235153,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16542,
              "doctor_id": 16542,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16542?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "刘芬",
              "content": "害怕来自于对未知的恐惧,在做一件事情你害怕的时候,你可以问问这些事情最差的结果是什么样子的,你自己是否可以承受,当你自己可以承受的时候,大胆的鼓励的让自己走出第1步。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/15/84ae4ef2cab04f14538681dc9428efe9.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "昨天 11:14",
              "time_str": "昨天 11:14",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446845,
              "uid": 3601526,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 17243,
              "doctor_id": 17243,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/17243?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "范红梅",
              "content": "这个时候是否愿意尝试把自己想做的事情分解一下,先从一些小的挑战开始,有了第一次的尝试和成功或许可以让你更自信。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/01/20/2fy4v7tsvbtmwv2g.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 20:59",
              "time_str": "5-12 20:59",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436364,
              "uid": 3383448,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 15969,
              "doctor_id": 15969,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/15969?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "涂育红",
              "content": "您好,我是壹点灵咨询师涂育红,害怕失败主要还是因为不够自信,或者准备不足",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/02/25/0mxydgumxjwhs7l7.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-12 20:59",
              "time_str": "5-12 20:59",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3436362,
              "uid": 2593129,
              "askId": 559334,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 11611,
              "doctor_id": 11611,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/11611?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            }
          ],
          "ext": null
        },
        {
          "id": 560339,
          "timeStr": "5-15 10:04",
          "time_str": "5-15 10:04",
          "timeDate": "May 15, 2020 10:04:22 AM",
          "hits": 302,
          "title": "怎么维持这段感情",
          "multitextType": 1,
          "topicId": 12,
          "replyCounter": 13,
          "extContent": "",
          "content": "我跟我男朋友在一起130多天了,他离开过一次,因为我不小心登了他的账号,他骂了我,我走了,那天我哭了一晚上,我把命都搭进去了去爱他,可他为什么就看不到,他现在又回来了,七天前他开学",
          "uid": 7624868,
          "name": "ustinian",
          "gender": 2,
          "askTag": "恋爱婚姻",
          "zanCount": 14,
          "avatar": "http://thirdwx.qlogo.cn/mmopen/vi_32/ibQic5XFRbyHMicunAZxzVESBhPoGj6bFczhsHd8sy6u9T0KPXSFtcKC2BjsCudlN9pXgWcLP3RJiaODXUicXkBgBzw/132",
          "header": "http://thirdwx.qlogo.cn/mmopen/vi_32/ibQic5XFRbyHMicunAZxzVESBhPoGj6bFczhsHd8sy6u9T0KPXSFtcKC2BjsCudlN9pXgWcLP3RJiaODXUicXkBgBzw/132",
          "commentsCount": 13,
          "topicTitle": "情感困惑",
          "isZan": 2,
          "visitCount": 302,
          "from": "来自Android客户端",
          "smallAttach": [],
          "bigAttach": [],
          "utype": 2,
          "isAd": 0,
          "is_ad": 0,
          "url": "",
          "adImg": "",
          "focId": 0,
          "isFocused": 2,
          "share": null,
          "isSelf": 0,
          "comments": [
            {
              "name": "ustinian",
              "content": "可以开始我们两个在一起是别人介绍的,而他跟他前女友是互相喜欢看对了眼,我怕他忘不了他前女友",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "http://thirdwx.qlogo.cn/mmopen/vi_32/ibQic5XFRbyHMicunAZxzVESBhPoGj6bFczhsHd8sy6u9T0KPXSFtcKC2BjsCudlN9pXgWcLP3RJiaODXUicXkBgBzw/132",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 10:38",
              "time_str": "5-15 10:38",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3440306,
              "uid": 7624868,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 1,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 1,
              "user_type": 1,
              "doctorId": 0,
              "doctor_id": 0,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/0?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "刘爱军",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵中级心理咨询师刘爱军。\n从你的描述能看出来,你们还处在青春期的年龄吧。你为了你的男友把命都搭进去了,可以想象得到,为了这份感情你付出了太多太多。但是呢,结果并不是你的预期,所以你很痛苦,不知道该怎么办。\n恋爱不等于是婚姻,更何况你们的年龄也还没到合法的嫁娶年龄,那么婚姻是什么呢,婚姻是建立在理解和包容基础上的一种联结,这个联结是平衡的,需要彼此去爱护和保养。婚姻还包括,亲密、激情和承诺。缺少一项都谈不上婚姻的完美。\n如果你没有这段感情纠葛会怎么样呢,你的心情,你的情绪会是什么状态呢,\n有缘千里来相会,无缘对面不相识。对待感情还是需要理智,你觉得你的男友是(潜力股)吗,这些问题,都需要你仔细想清楚的问题。\n简单解读,希望对你有所帮助。\n如有问题,欢迎私信交流。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/26/s0o9l060n34d306j.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 21:32",
              "time_str": "前天 21:32",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446278,
              "uid": 5521762,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16739,
              "doctor_id": 16739,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16739?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "符明通",
              "content": "你觉得男友的前女友很优秀,所以担心他们会复合。如果优秀是复合的原因,那当初为什么还成为了前任,说明前女友和你男朋友之间的问题,不是优秀的问题。你能跟男朋友走到一块,肯定是你身上有吸引男友的地方,只是你自己没有发现而已。对自己自信一点。爱情就像手里的沙,捏的越紧,反而越容易流失,因为你的种种担心会把情绪和压力传递给对方,对你们的感情反而起到了反作用。你的担心和觉得自己不够好,可以说有些不够自信,这个可以通过心理咨询进行疏导,提高自信,让自己喜欢上自己,也会促进你们的感情。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2016/07/jb0mu60g4zdp4ybn.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 11:16",
              "time_str": "5-15 11:16",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3440403,
              "uid": 110792,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 1651,
              "doctor_id": 1651,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/1651?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "汪青清",
              "content": "适度的甜带给人愉悦感,过度的甜带给人齁的感觉,爱也一样,适度的爱让两个人关系亲密,过度的爱让人窒息,看得出来你非常爱对方,不过却不知道如何爱对方,同时你也非常的没有安全感,维系一段感情需要你了解他,和他保持彼此公平的地位,看似这都是你比较缺乏的,你可以和老师私聊,老师可以帮助你了解异性思维,从而学习懂得如何和对方相处才能增进关系,而不是让关系越来越远,希望可以帮助到你。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/24/a9y04kiqwkskjl7a.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 10:53",
              "time_str": "5-15 10:53",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3440351,
              "uid": 1718951,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 15672,
              "doctor_id": 15672,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/15672?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "关珩",
              "content": "你好,看起来你觉得男朋友的前女友比你更优秀,但他们还是分手了。男友和你在一起有103天了,男孩回到了学校,你感觉不安心。恋爱期间患得患失的心情也是很正常的,觉得别人比自己好,要多看到自己的优点,男孩喜欢你,自然有你吸引他的地方,是不是?学习努力,纯真可爱,有很多朋友人缘好,发现这样闪闪发光的你,爱上这样闪闪发光的自己。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/01/14/e1fc6015bd491e1a657a178ec1229f34..jpg!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 09:19",
              "time_str": "前天 09:19",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3445486,
              "uid": 2128295,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 15927,
              "doctor_id": 15927,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/15927?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "冀君姣",
              "content": "您好!我是壹点灵国家二级心理咨询师冀君姣!\n姑娘,任何时候都不能失去自我。时刻观照,您现在的状态,您自己都没有自我了,又让别人怎么去爱您呢?\n如果您的压力无法自行调节,可以寻求专业的帮助。如果您愿意,可以找我来倾诉,我将用专业的、真诚的帮助陪伴您走过痛苦!\n需要帮助,可以私聊我!\n初次体验价30元半小时",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/05/x8z7y12cpbjktgjn.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 10:14",
              "time_str": "5-15 10:14",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3440251,
              "uid": 4440633,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14082,
              "doctor_id": 14082,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14082?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "马艳华",
              "content": "你好,我是壹点灵心理咨询师马艳华\n             你的描述中,说到你和男友在一起130多天了,又讲的是学校要中考了,考完带你回家,我好奇的问一下,你们都多大了?是老师还是学生?\n你可以私聊告诉我一声哈。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/09/28/pshdrm9v06f9vorj.png",
              "answerCreateTime": "前天 18:31",
              "time_str": "前天 18:31",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3446122,
              "uid": 3581903,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 14560,
              "doctor_id": 14560,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/14560?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "董海燕",
              "content": "既然来到这个平台,相信您就是想得到帮助,我也希望能帮助到您好起来,如果您需要梳理和解决当下状况的话,欢迎和我预约咨询来帮助您改善状况,成为更好更快乐的自己。随时关注老师,方便随时联系:)",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/27/05z8ml0azp3uzlvr.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 14:32",
              "time_str": "5-15 14:32",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3440876,
              "uid": 5596001,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16898,
              "doctor_id": 16898,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16898?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "马骥",
              "content": "其实,爱情也像是一场战争,也要讲究策略的,所以仅仅有爱是远远不够的,还要有爱的技巧,这样才能使爱情和爱人长久,激情,幸福!需要掌握爱情的技巧,可以私聊我。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/05/05/u09saj5fmf3bsei2.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 10:14",
              "time_str": "5-15 10:14",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3440255,
              "uid": 2412986,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 9841,
              "doctor_id": 9841,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/9841?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "龚晓容",
              "content": "很理解你的感受,似乎你对他太在乎了,她前女友虽然优秀,但可能不适合,他之所以能和你在一起一定是你身上的优点吸引了他,从这就可以看出来,你胜出了",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/07/26/0cue682fm001zr3w.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 10:24",
              "time_str": "5-15 10:24",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3440282,
              "uid": 3704429,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 2,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 13242,
              "doctor_id": 13242,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/13242?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "周德新",
              "content": "听起来,你和你男朋友年龄都不大,然后,这个年龄段的男孩都喜欢比较有神秘感,比较可爱,对他比较崇拜的女生。你可以先从这三条来对比下自己。",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/20/1aw35jae4srgyc36.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 10:10",
              "time_str": "5-15 10:10",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3440245,
              "uid": 6537501,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16768,
              "doctor_id": 16768,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16768?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "刘洋",
              "content": "看得出来你很爱他,如果你过度在意这份恋情,那么这份恋情很难维系,希望你提高自己,看清现实,如果需要聊聊,可以联系我",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/10/rhd7ryawxtg9onp1.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 10:23",
              "time_str": "5-15 10:23",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3440277,
              "uid": 6200265,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16430,
              "doctor_id": 16430,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16430?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            },
            {
              "name": "周德新",
              "content": "同时,最重要的是,一定要对他很信任!",
              "toName": "",
              "to_name": "",
              "userHead": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/20/1aw35jae4srgyc36.png!s200x200",
              "answerCreateTime": "5-15 10:10",
              "time_str": "5-15 10:10",
              "toContent": "",
              "to_content": "",
              "isZan": 2,
              "id": 3440247,
              "uid": 6537501,
              "askId": 560339,
              "zan": 0,
              "gender": 1,
              "userType": 2,
              "user_type": 2,
              "doctorId": 16768,
              "doctor_id": 16768,
              "isOpenListen": 0,
              "isAvailable": 0,
              "listenLinkUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/experts/16768?id\u003dnull\u0026toConfide\u003d1"
            }
          ],
          "ext": null
        }
      ],
      "extData": [
        {
          "id": 435983,
          "type": 0,
          "parentId": 0,
          "status": 0,
          "doctorId": 0,
          "uid": 0,
          "createTime": "Aug 16, 2019 9:56:35 AM",
          "updateTime": null,
          "deleteTime": null,
          "deleteUser": "",
          "isDelete": 0,
          "hits": 0,
          "tags": "",
          "tags2": "",
          "askSource": "",
          "ffrom": "",
          "fsid": "",
          "browser": "",
          "favTotalNum": 0,
          "ip": "",
          "title": "心事问答优质回复标准",
          "showTips": 0,
          "channel": "",
          "platform": "",
          "isTop": 127,
          "zhuishuTop": 0,
          "multitextType": 0,
          "topicId": 0,
          "isPublish": 0,
          "isHot": 0,
          "replyCounter": 0,
          "zanCounter": 0,
          "hotTime": 0,
          "topTime": 0,
          "anonymous": 0,
          "checkStatus": 0,
          "operateStatus": 0,
          "topRule": 0,
          "topPage": 0,
          "isDoctorShow": 0,
          "content": "",
          "extContent": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 559561,
          "type": 0,
          "parentId": 0,
          "status": 0,
          "doctorId": 0,
          "uid": 0,
          "createTime": "May 13, 2020 12:36:48 PM",
          "updateTime": null,
          "deleteTime": null,
          "deleteUser": "",
          "isDelete": 0,
          "hits": 0,
          "tags": "",
          "tags2": "",
          "askSource": "",
          "ffrom": "",
          "fsid": "",
          "browser": "",
          "favTotalNum": 0,
          "ip": "",
          "title": "个人情绪压力",
          "showTips": 0,
          "channel": "",
          "platform": "",
          "isTop": 126,
          "zhuishuTop": 0,
          "multitextType": 0,
          "topicId": 0,
          "isPublish": 0,
          "isHot": 0,
          "replyCounter": 0,
          "zanCounter": 0,
          "hotTime": 0,
          "topTime": 0,
          "anonymous": 0,
          "checkStatus": 0,
          "operateStatus": 0,
          "topRule": 0,
          "topPage": 0,
          "isDoctorShow": 0,
          "content": "",
          "extContent": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 561845,
          "type": 0,
          "parentId": 0,
          "status": 0,
          "doctorId": 0,
          "uid": 0,
          "createTime": "May 19, 2020 8:50:02 AM",
          "updateTime": null,
          "deleteTime": null,
          "deleteUser": "",
          "isDelete": 0,
          "hits": 0,
          "tags": "",
          "tags2": "",
          "askSource": "",
          "ffrom": "",
          "fsid": "",
          "browser": "",
          "favTotalNum": 0,
          "ip": "",
          "title": "如何克服自卑心理?",
          "showTips": 0,
          "channel": "",
          "platform": "",
          "isTop": 126,
          "zhuishuTop": 0,
          "multitextType": 0,
          "topicId": 0,
          "isPublish": 0,
          "isHot": 0,
          "replyCounter": 0,
          "zanCounter": 0,
          "hotTime": 0,
          "topTime": 0,
          "anonymous": 0,
          "checkStatus": 0,
          "operateStatus": 0,
          "topRule": 0,
          "topPage": 0,
          "isDoctorShow": 0,
          "content": "",
          "extContent": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 561983,
          "type": 0,
          "parentId": 0,
          "status": 0,
          "doctorId": 0,
          "uid": 0,
          "createTime": "May 19, 2020 4:31:23 PM",
          "updateTime": null,
          "deleteTime": null,
          "deleteUser": "",
          "isDelete": 0,
          "hits": 0,
          "tags": "",
          "tags2": "",
          "askSource": "",
          "ffrom": "",
          "fsid": "",
          "browser": "",
          "favTotalNum": 0,
          "ip": "",
          "title": "异地恋家里不同意怎么办?",
          "showTips": 0,
          "channel": "",
          "platform": "",
          "isTop": 126,
          "zhuishuTop": 0,
          "multitextType": 0,
          "topicId": 0,
          "isPublish": 0,
          "isHot": 0,
          "replyCounter": 0,
          "zanCounter": 0,
          "hotTime": 0,
          "topTime": 0,
          "anonymous": 0,
          "checkStatus": 0,
          "operateStatus": 0,
          "topRule": 0,
          "topPage": 0,
          "isDoctorShow": 0,
          "content": "",
          "extContent": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 562197,
          "type": 0,
          "parentId": 0,
          "status": 0,
          "doctorId": 0,
          "uid": 0,
          "createTime": "May 20, 2020 7:24:49 AM",
          "updateTime": null,
          "deleteTime": null,
          "deleteUser": "",
          "isDelete": 0,
          "hits": 0,
          "tags": "",
          "tags2": "",
          "askSource": "",
          "ffrom": "",
          "fsid": "",
          "browser": "",
          "favTotalNum": 0,
          "ip": "",
          "title": "被熟悉的人骚扰了怎么办",
          "showTips": 0,
          "channel": "",
          "platform": "",
          "isTop": 126,
          "zhuishuTop": 0,
          "multitextType": 0,
          "topicId": 0,
          "isPublish": 0,
          "isHot": 0,
          "replyCounter": 0,
          "zanCounter": 0,
          "hotTime": 0,
          "topTime": 0,
          "anonymous": 0,
          "checkStatus": 0,
          "operateStatus": 0,
          "topRule": 0,
          "topPage": 0,
          "isDoctorShow": 0,
          "content": "",
          "extContent": ""
        }
      ],
      "ext_data": [
        {
          "id": 435983,
          "type": 0,
          "parentId": 0,
          "status": 0,
          "doctorId": 0,
          "uid": 0,
          "createTime": "Aug 16, 2019 9:56:35 AM",
          "updateTime": null,
          "deleteTime": null,
          "deleteUser": "",
          "isDelete": 0,
          "hits": 0,
          "tags": "",
          "tags2": "",
          "askSource": "",
          "ffrom": "",
          "fsid": "",
          "browser": "",
          "favTotalNum": 0,
          "ip": "",
          "title": "心事问答优质回复标准",
          "showTips": 0,
          "channel": "",
          "platform": "",
          "isTop": 127,
          "zhuishuTop": 0,
          "multitextType": 0,
          "topicId": 0,
          "isPublish": 0,
          "isHot": 0,
          "replyCounter": 0,
          "zanCounter": 0,
          "hotTime": 0,
          "topTime": 0,
          "anonymous": 0,
          "checkStatus": 0,
          "operateStatus": 0,
          "topRule": 0,
          "topPage": 0,
          "isDoctorShow": 0,
          "content": "",
          "extContent": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 559561,
          "type": 0,
          "parentId": 0,
          "status": 0,
          "doctorId": 0,
          "uid": 0,
          "createTime": "May 13, 2020 12:36:48 PM",
          "updateTime": null,
          "deleteTime": null,
          "deleteUser": "",
          "isDelete": 0,
          "hits": 0,
          "tags": "",
          "tags2": "",
          "askSource": "",
          "ffrom": "",
          "fsid": "",
          "browser": "",
          "favTotalNum": 0,
          "ip": "",
          "title": "个人情绪压力",
          "showTips": 0,
          "channel": "",
          "platform": "",
          "isTop": 126,
          "zhuishuTop": 0,
          "multitextType": 0,
          "topicId": 0,
          "isPublish": 0,
          "isHot": 0,
          "replyCounter": 0,
          "zanCounter": 0,
          "hotTime": 0,
          "topTime": 0,
          "anonymous": 0,
          "checkStatus": 0,
          "operateStatus": 0,
          "topRule": 0,
          "topPage": 0,
          "isDoctorShow": 0,
          "content": "",
          "extContent": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 561845,
          "type": 0,
          "parentId": 0,
          "status": 0,
          "doctorId": 0,
          "uid": 0,
          "createTime": "May 19, 2020 8:50:02 AM",
          "updateTime": null,
          "deleteTime": null,
          "deleteUser": "",
          "isDelete": 0,
          "hits": 0,
          "tags": "",
          "tags2": "",
          "askSource": "",
          "ffrom": "",
          "fsid": "",
          "browser": "",
          "favTotalNum": 0,
          "ip": "",
          "title": "如何克服自卑心理?",
          "showTips": 0,
          "channel": "",
          "platform": "",
          "isTop": 126,
          "zhuishuTop": 0,
          "multitextType": 0,
          "topicId": 0,
          "isPublish": 0,
          "isHot": 0,
          "replyCounter": 0,
          "zanCounter": 0,
          "hotTime": 0,
          "topTime": 0,
          "anonymous": 0,
          "checkStatus": 0,
          "operateStatus": 0,
          "topRule": 0,
          "topPage": 0,
          "isDoctorShow": 0,
          "content": "",
          "extContent": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 561983,
          "type": 0,
          "parentId": 0,
          "status": 0,
          "doctorId": 0,
          "uid": 0,
          "createTime": "May 19, 2020 4:31:23 PM",
          "updateTime": null,
          "deleteTime": null,
          "deleteUser": "",
          "isDelete": 0,
          "hits": 0,
          "tags": "",
          "tags2": "",
          "askSource": "",
          "ffrom": "",
          "fsid": "",
          "browser": "",
          "favTotalNum": 0,
          "ip": "",
          "title": "异地恋家里不同意怎么办?",
          "showTips": 0,
          "channel": "",
          "platform": "",
          "isTop": 126,
          "zhuishuTop": 0,
          "multitextType": 0,
          "topicId": 0,
          "isPublish": 0,
          "isHot": 0,
          "replyCounter": 0,
          "zanCounter": 0,
          "hotTime": 0,
          "topTime": 0,
          "anonymous": 0,
          "checkStatus": 0,
          "operateStatus": 0,
          "topRule": 0,
          "topPage": 0,
          "isDoctorShow": 0,
          "content": "",
          "extContent": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 562197,
          "type": 0,
          "parentId": 0,
          "status": 0,
          "doctorId": 0,
          "uid": 0,
          "createTime": "May 20, 2020 7:24:49 AM",
          "updateTime": null,
          "deleteTime": null,
          "deleteUser": "",
          "isDelete": 0,
          "hits": 0,
          "tags": "",
          "tags2": "",
          "askSource": "",
          "ffrom": "",
          "fsid": "",
          "browser": "",
          "favTotalNum": 0,
          "ip": "",
          "title": "被熟悉的人骚扰了怎么办",
          "showTips": 0,
          "channel": "",
          "platform": "",
          "isTop": 126,
          "zhuishuTop": 0,
          "multitextType": 0,
          "topicId": 0,
          "isPublish": 0,
          "isHot": 0,
          "replyCounter": 0,
          "zanCounter": 0,
          "hotTime": 0,
          "topTime": 0,
          "anonymous": 0,
          "checkStatus": 0,
          "operateStatus": 0,
          "topRule": 0,
          "topPage": 0,
          "isDoctorShow": 0,
          "content": "",
          "extContent": ""
        }
      ]
    },
    "type": 10006
  },
  {
    "articleBean": {
      "list": [
        {
          "id": 11035,
          "readNum": 1190,
          "title": "看完之后让你们的感情保鲜三十年",
          "desc": "处理两人之间矛盾最正确的方式",
          "imgUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/20/m5m1mmr9an66sbx5.jpg!/fw/270",
          "name": "毛苏翔",
          "doctorId": 14709,
          "smallImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/10/p6qvk9eur2sv6vh9.png!s120x120",
          "pseudonym": "毛苏翔",
          "countOfFavorite": 3,
          "hUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11035",
          "mUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/article/11035",
          "createTime": "May 20, 2020 4:49:31 PM",
          "createTimeFormat": "2020-05-20",
          "zanNum": 3,
          "url": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11035"
        },
        {
          "id": 11034,
          "readNum": 1183,
          "title": "让不爱你的人爱上你,让爱你的人加倍爱你!| 520吸引力专场",
          "desc": "吸引力",
          "imgUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/20/k7mfem0zcv5grfrg.jpg!/fw/270",
          "name": "陈斌",
          "doctorId": 4487,
          "smallImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/12/03/0yym1e1wqxoo5ken.png!s120x120",
          "pseudonym": "陈斌",
          "countOfFavorite": 0,
          "hUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11034",
          "mUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/article/11034",
          "createTime": "May 20, 2020 4:37:13 PM",
          "createTimeFormat": "2020-05-20",
          "zanNum": 0,
          "url": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11034"
        },
        {
          "id": 11033,
          "readNum": 1163,
          "title": "2021届毕业生:对不起,我还在懵圈中,毕业就要来了",
          "desc": "每到毕业季,老生常谈的问题就会被搬上来讨论,考研、出国、就业、还是考公应该如何选择。这个问题就像是一千个读者有一千个哈姆雷特,每个人都会因不同的原因,做出不一样的选择。其实,不论是做哪个选择,重要的是先想清楚你想要到达哪一个远方,由此逆推在当下应该如何选择。",
          "imgUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/20/ofe1ctm299y72uks.jpg!/fw/270",
          "name": "马春燕",
          "doctorId": 16510,
          "smallImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/03/02/0785c0bf51648ad1307819fbc25d6964..jpg!s120x120",
          "pseudonym": "马春燕",
          "countOfFavorite": 0,
          "hUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11033",
          "mUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/article/11033",
          "createTime": "May 20, 2020 9:07:21 AM",
          "createTimeFormat": "2020-05-20",
          "zanNum": 0,
          "url": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11033"
        },
        {
          "id": 11032,
          "readNum": 1193,
          "title": "别让一场恋爱 毁掉一个女人",
          "desc": "国家二级心理咨询师,精神动力学取向,具有15年从业经验。擅长领域:婚恋情感,压力管理,个人成长。",
          "imgUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/20/aattt0lssdsj5ufy.jpg!/fw/270",
          "name": "张明昊",
          "doctorId": 5806,
          "smallImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2019/03/22/4rfedsojy1q2412j.jpg!s120x120",
          "pseudonym": "张明昊",
          "countOfFavorite": 2,
          "hUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11032",
          "mUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/article/11032",
          "createTime": "May 19, 2020 7:05:31 PM",
          "createTimeFormat": "2020-05-19",
          "zanNum": 2,
          "url": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11032"
        },
        {
          "id": 11029,
          "readNum": 1150,
          "title": "被裁员后,我如何拿到了年薪50万的offer?",
          "desc": "2020年开局,就让我们挑战了一把“HARD”模式。许多人都操心起自己的饭碗,除了满怀焦虑的中年人,年轻人也开始重新思考职业发展的下一步。",
          "imgUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/20/hvy3lmivrpcxcmun.jpg!/fw/270",
          "name": "丁路遥",
          "doctorId": 9490,
          "smallImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2018/09/15/6c84a0333706f4a0558d55550045def8..jpg!s120x120",
          "pseudonym": "丁路遥",
          "countOfFavorite": 0,
          "hUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11029",
          "mUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/article/11029",
          "createTime": "May 19, 2020 8:59:04 AM",
          "createTimeFormat": "2020-05-19",
          "zanNum": 0,
          "url": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11029"
        },
        {
          "id": 11028,
          "readNum": 1146,
          "title": "性魅力是什么",
          "desc": "性魅力是性能量的一种发散表现",
          "imgUrl": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/05/20/va3sazfgzjrpnkkx.jpg!/fw/270",
          "name": "周聪",
          "doctorId": 5093,
          "smallImage": "https://img.ydlcdn.com/file/2020/04/23/ypcgfs3dpkk2a64v.png!s120x120",
          "pseudonym": "周聪",
          "countOfFavorite": 0,
          "hUrl": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11028",
          "mUrl": "https://m.ydl.com/article/11028",
          "createTime": "May 19, 2020 8:46:41 AM",
          "createTimeFormat": "2020-05-19",
          "zanNum": 0,
          "url": "https://h2.yidianling.com/article/11028"
        }
      ],
      "category": [
        {
          "id": 482,
          "name": "情感",
          "parentId": 464,
          "title": "情感",
          "keyword": "情感",
          "isShow": 1,
          "place": 1,
          "descript": "情感",
          "extend": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 483,
          "name": "亲子",
          "parentId": 464,
          "title": "亲子",
          "keyword": "亲子",
          "isShow": 1,
          "place": 1,
          "descript": "亲子",
          "extend": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 484,
          "name": "职场",
          "parentId": 464,
          "title": "职场",
          "keyword": "职场",
          "isShow": 1,
          "place": 1,
          "descript": "职场",
          "extend": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 485,
          "name": "健康",
          "parentId": 464,
          "title": "健康",
          "keyword": "健康",
          "isShow": 1,
          "place": 1,
          "descript": "健康",
          "extend": ""
        },
        {
          "id": 486,
          "name": "科普",
          "parentId": 464,
          "title": "科普",
          "keyword": "科普",
          "isShow": 1,
          "place": 1,
          "descript": "科普",
          "extend": ""
        }
      ]
    },
    "type": 10007
  },
  {
    "type": 10008
  }
]